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writes:i think my girlfriend is cheating on me.we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different universities and dont get to spend a lot of time together, could this sudden want to use condoms be a sign that she is also sleeping with someone else?
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reader, Miss Potter +, writes (3 November 2008):
 She might not trust you and therefore wants to be extra safe. Also might be scarred of getting pregnant.
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reader, loveguru_india  +, writes (31 October 2008):
there is nothing like cheating............if she is cheating you then she will not do sex with you. taking pills regularly creates problem in getting pregnent, maybe she knows this, Talk to her regarding this & try to understand her. it is safe for you as well as her. There is no harm to do sex with condoms, You both will be safe with condom use.
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reader, ars07k  +, writes (30 October 2008):
I agree, she might have had a friend who just got pregnant. That's enough to scare anyone. Maybe she thinks you're cheating and would rather use a condom. I say talk to her and trust her. You never know what she might be thinking. I hope everything works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): No harm in using a condom.Practising safe sex is the best.The pill is not 100% safe, so why not double protection?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 October 2008):
It's possibly a sign that she had to stay up all night because one of her friends just discovered she had some awful STI and was in tears over it and needed looking after.
Or it could be that someone on her course who was on the pill suddenly got pregnant and had to drop out / abort.
Perhaps she's had terrible diarrhoea and rather than telling you that she pood out her pill so she has to take extra care, she's just telling you the bit you need to know.
If she's been scared then she's going to want to use condoms.
Talk to her about it and tell her you don't mind but you are curious. Do it after you've had sex when you are both relaxed and happy and don't accuse her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Cheater32 +, writes (30 October 2008):
 I have to be honest and tell you yes that may be a sign if she is on the pill and you have been doing this with her without a condom then that is a signal. I would come right out and ask her about this. I was having an affair and would always use protection with my lover but with my husband i dont use anything. So she may be wanting to protect you from anything sexually transmitted. This is just advice. I MAY BE WRONG SHE JUST MAY WANT TO BE SAFE. Please speak with her if you love her you will communicate.let me know if this helps!
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