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writes:Hey, I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. She's the kind of girl that doesn't have to see me for a whole day to call it spending time and I'm the exact opposite and so I need help to find a way to where I can become the same way so I'm not so (needy - I guess you can call it) but ya I can't keep thinking about her so I need something on my mind all the time so I'm not like "so what are you doing today like every day" please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, meforyou  +, writes (31 October 2008):
My boyfriend and I see each other every day before he goes to work, he's the same as your girlfriend. He doesn't like being with me all the time because we'd get fed up of each other but I'm someone who would love to be with him every hour of the day but when you start having more time apart you get on better and argue less. Plus you'll get used to it. Maybe you could go out with your friends or play computer or maybe get a job so your not thinking bout it. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Hey..its normal to feel this way, I know many people who are like this. But think of it this way..when you don't see her everyday, it gives you something to look forward to and makes it more exciting the next time you see her. Its ok to think about her often, and your better off not seeing her everyday because you could end up smothering each other and fighting more often than if you didnt see her everyday. Trust me...This guy I was seeing, we saw each other every single day and although we had good times,we fought a lot over stupid things and it did not end well and I learned that no matter how much you want to see that person, you have to spend some time apart and it will make it better in the long run. So good luck with everything and I hope it all works out for you!!!
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