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I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not.

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Question - (30 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *gl777 writes:

I have known this guy for almost two months and have been on couple of dates. The thing is that I'm not sure if he wants to take this further or not..

A couple days ago we were texting and he said he didn't want to be kissing me if I wasn't his girl friend. I said that I would be his girl and asked him if he still wanted me to come and hang out, but he said NO and that he didn't want to play games anymore.. and he said that if I didnt want to take this higher then he didn't want to waste my time or his. I dont't know why he would think I was playing games when I had said yes to being his girl friend.

Then he started saying that he wanted me and that he liked me. He kept saying he wanted to do things to me(sexually) and he kept saying that I didn't want him to do those things to me. He kept going on and on about the same thing. He hasn't called or text me since.. I text him today and asked him what had happend that day but he didn't reply to me.. I'm confused... sometimes I think he did all of this as his excuse for not talking to me any more.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2009):

Sounds like he was trying to come up with some excuse to split up with you so invented the reason of you being a game playing frigid woman, even though you clearly weren't in any way.

In any event you have learned that there are some mental people out there and you are better off rid of him if he is one of them.

He's done you a favour so put it down to bad luck and move on.

Good Luck!! xx

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