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Archived questions from: 18 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I really want to have a threesome, but I'm dubious that it will ruin our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi there! So i really love sex. I have a boyfriend,now for almost 1 year, and things are going really well. We are friends and lovers. Everything seem to be great when we are together, even with no money... When we have sex, I feel really turned o...

He keeps referencing being single and a bachelor while at the same time he wants to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hello ladies and gents both of your answers are very appreciated. Heres my story. I met a man back in 2001 I was 19 he was 21. Our relationship then was strictly sexual. I liked him alot and if I could choose who I wanted to be with/marry/have ...

I've never had a date or a boyfriend, is there something wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi I'm a 25 year old female and I've never been on a date or Had a boyfriend. I feel like there's something wrong with me, is there?? Help would be good, as I feel alone in this problem....

Does the fact my girlfriend sleeps over a lot bad for our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now and we both love each other but she lives about 30 mins away and until a couple of months ago she didn't drive so she usually just spends the night about 3-4 nights a week. I'm 20 and she ...

She's said she's in love with me but it's not working... she's terrified of committing here. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - To all you girls out there, I have a question/scenario. Here is your chance to give some good advice to a confused man. I had been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything thing was going FANTASTIC! I played it cool - didn’t rush anything - ...

I feel he's never gotten over his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend he kept from me that his best friend and business partner was actually his ex, I found that out around our third month dating and made him confess, he said he didn't want to worry me for nothing. She was his ...

I'm in love... and I HATE it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I hate feeling this way, I'm in love and I HATE it... I think it's because my parents split up after 30 years together so it's drilled it into my head that nothing lasts and eventually everything will crash and burn. I hate to let my guard down and...

I found some more forwarded emails from her to my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend secretly kept in touch with a girl he once worked with about a year ago. They exchanged emails, chatted, and text and he hid it from me very well. He wanted to date her sometime ago, but he was rejected. They however stayed friends. She ...

Dating an older man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old and I'm dating a man who is 25 years old than me. I always ask him if he has a problem with our age difference. He says he doesn't. So am I the one with the problem? Sometimes I feel like our relationship is only sexual and I feel ...

Break up with my boyfriend and give this friend a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I know it's wrong but I force myself not to believe it. I slept with a guy that I really like and he really likes me also. We talk every day for hours on end, we always hangout and we both love spending time with each other. He even calls me on his ...

Am I a lesbian, bisexual or just perverted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2497 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi!I have a question for you.Well,I am 25 years old,and over this last months I think...I ve changed. Since I was 7 years old, I masturbate, and think about sex at all times. I also remember thinking about sex before that age. So, since then,I e...

He's got a GF and resisting my offers to meet up. Is he just messing with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - What is up? Ok - I'm a good looking older woman with a good figure and personality! - I have recently got involved with a younger guy who I would do ANYTHING for and he knows I really like him (but unfortunately he has a girlfriend who he says ...

Can a guy just be shy or is he avoiding being questioned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - What does it mean when a guy doesn't answer a question? - I really like this guy who stays in touch by phone with me as we live apart! - The thing is - he rarely shows any emotion and sometimes when I ask him something outright he just doesn't ...

I want to go out with him to get over my ex, but is it not fair because my heart is elsewhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! I have a dilemma. I have a date this week with someone who seems really keen on me, but I am getting cold feet and don't know if it is fair of me to go and meet this guy cos I'm not over my ex. My ex and I split up over a year ago ...

How do I come across as the saucy temptress he thinks I am?

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18 November 2008 (F) - ok here goes...i am going out with my good friend in a few weeks time and i know that a guy i know - through her will probably come and meet up for a drink later on in the night. We've been talking over text and phoning and recently the texts have ...

Men: why do you ask about a woman's past if you're just going to judge her for it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Men: Why do you ask about a woman's sexual past if you are going to (intentionally or otherwise) judge her for it and hold it against her? ...even when she has never been unfaithful, she has always been honest with you, she is with you and doesn't ...

Is this a sign of him flirting and that he likes me again? Any advice on flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi all at dear cupid, Im not really good with this dating part but how can u tell if a guy is flirting with u? Theres this guy i really like, we where in a kind of relationship which only lasted a few days but that was last yr well recently ive beco...

My ex sometimes acts like we're together, I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hi guys, im real confused at the moment im still in contact with my ex and we are really good mates, but he sometimes acts like we're together las nite he was touching my leg like hitting it, then on the phone earlier he said he was going to ask ...

Is it too much to ask for pleasure after he's done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been together for 3 years are 16 now and have been having sex for past 2 months, we do use protection just to be safe (condoms, the pill) but lately im not that into it even though he is. he can never seem to get me to orgasm. its ...

She accepted me back after I doubted my commitment, how do I make the best of it this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was stupid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love eac...

Are condoms still necessary even if I'm on birth control pills?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I was just wondering if I was on birth control should my boyfriend still need to wear a comdon so we don't get pregnant? Thanks for all the help....

Now I'm reticent to express my feelings to her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I know there is a social idea that people who are inexperienced with relationships get attached too quickly and think what they are feeling is love. I haven't had many relationships and I know that I definitely fell into this category for my first ...

Am I REALLY ready to get married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - My fiance and I have lived together for 4 years and I asked her to marry me about 3 years ago. Lately our relationship fell apart where we don't talk about things. My fiance is 6 years older than I am and I love her very very much. We had some ...

The past is the past... why does he want to know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating someone for almost 8 months. I have never been unfaithful to him, nor in any of my other relationships. I do not carry myself in a classless manner, and I have respect for myself. However, he has been asking how many men I h...

I need to find proof she's cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I've been told by people my girlfriend is cheating but I have no idea! How can I tell and what should I do?...

I won't be used... but I still want him and love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Three weeks ago my partner of four years left me. He went back to his ex wife. They have no kids but his mother always wanted them to get back together and his ex never gave up on contacting him. He was very torn as he loves me and loves my company ...

Improving is needed... HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together almost 4 years (in April). When we were in high school she would right me love notes an she always had said she and I would be together forever, now it's down the line I have made my screw ups and have ...

Does he love me? Will he ever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now. before I entered this relationship I was dealing with rejection from another guy and was kind of depressed so I was trying to focus on school and stuff. So this guy I am with came ...

I don't get how he's gone totally different it's like he's had a personality change!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I would never dream of cheating on my boyfriend! We've been together for a long time! At the start of the relationship things were PERFECT and I'm really not kidding, he was the most amazing boyfriend I could ever dream of but just within 7 months, ...

Nothing I do helps... My boyfriend is addicted to games!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - To put it simply my boyfriend is addicted to games =,= and I love sex but usually after he's done going out with his buddies he's on his games UGHH! and he's so hot I can't resist.. and I've tried a lot of things, teasing him showing up naked even ...

Why has my boyfriend changed so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year, within about 8 months he changed A LOT! sometimes he treats me as a mate more than a girlfriend, he will come to see me but just sit downstairs have a cuppa tea and then leave, I'm not ...

Lost... one minute all lovey dovey, next minute the bomb is dropped!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend has told me he wants to break up because he is tired but is hoping we can be together after some time alone to pick himself up and recharge his mind body and soul..... I miss him terribly and all this happened so suddenly that I didn't ...

I've made my life again and I'm terrified to go back with him in case he hurts me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - well people hello. I'm a 16 years old and need advice from you people. It's just 3 days since my ex and I got in touch. We are friends for now..!! met hi yesterday.. talked lots.. do you people think that I should get back into this relationship ...

I'm so scared about leaving school... did anyone else feel like this when they left?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I am a graduating student and about to leave school this week. I have just got a house that me and my partner are renting... I'm just so scared about leaving school! Did anyone else feel like this when they left? Did anyone else have any really ...

What do I do? I'm out of options and I can't figure this girl out!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys, I stumbled across this site in search of an answer... Backround, I go to University of California at Berkley, and there's this girl that lives near me in my dorm. She's a floor below me, but we have become really good friends. I would...

I don't know whether or not I should move in with my boyfriend when I am just "not feeling a spark other than friendship between us!"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - My boyf and I were together 4 years before i broke it off for one year. I didn't feel our relationship was going anywhere, and felt we needed a break. We got back together 4 months ago, and have recently signed up for a place together (1 year on the ...

He didn't want commitment so I will try to move on but feel to exhausted to date a new person and afraid it won't work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I finally decided that i should move on from the man i was dating this year and start looking for someone else. As there wasn't a normal relationship and he said to me that he didn't like a commitment between us i wasn't happy about all of this. I ...

How can you tell if a guy likes you from reading body language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Hello everyone I've heard that you can tell if a guy likes you from body language... but I don't know the signs.... so if anyone out there could tell me anything about this subject I'd really apppeciate it :) thanks ...

Any tips for doing a good back massage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I really want to give my boyfriend a good back massage-the last time didnt go very well as it was my first time doing it. Any tips?...

My feelings for him seem to have faded, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I have a relationship problem, i don't know if i even have feelings for the guy I'm with, at first everything was sooo good but when he told me that he found out he had a baby mama [he got her pregnant before he got with me] that's when things ...

Should I just forget this crush and focus on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Im with a guy at the moment, but have had a crush on another guy at work for about two years. My current boyfriend and I have been together on and off for a number of years, however recently had a 9 month break. During this break, i did som...

Is it wrong for me to like him, because he is my friends ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm in a weird dilema... Me and this girl were good friends. And she had a boyfriend. She graduated last year and me and her boyfriend and our mutual friend started hanging out a lot, since she wasn't at school, her and her boyfriend weren't ...

It's hard for me to come onto guys and know if they feel the same...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - okay, i want to pursue this guy that i find really attractive. But i don't know if he's attracted to me, so i'm a little hesitant. I'm a shy person, and not very outgoing. I find it hard to come on to guys. So i would like some advice on how to. ...

I'm wondering if I should finally come clean about my feelings with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I had a very intense yet short relationship with a women I know from work. We stopped seeing each other when her ex came crawling back claiming he had changed. (OK, I'm a little bitter about that part). Nevertheless, we both still have feelings ...

19 year old virgin, will guys ever want to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - please help! I am 19 year old and a virgin. I have had one long term relationship, but have a total lack of experience! Will guys ever want to be with me?...

My girlfriend is pregnant but I also have feelings for another...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I am in the armed forces and left for deployment with my relationship being rocky at best. Half way through I managed to get home for a week and all seemed better. 3 weeks later I recieved the news my partner was pregnant I was overjoyed and still ...

Do I get out and lose the trust from both of them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I'm a horrible pathetic person, I really am. I should really have asked this question a few months ago, before I got involved. So, I'm first of all going to ask a question as I would have a asked back then, and then I'm going to ask what to do ...

I can't seem to get turned on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I can't seem to get turned on! I'm still virgin, but have tried fingering myself/rubbing and it does nothing! My boyfriend tried, I still feel nothing! It feels a bit nice, but nice is all it is, he could be doing it to me and I could just lay there ...

Not sure about relationship

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18 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two years. He is a great guy, and we have not really hit problems until these past few weeks. We have had a rough fall and I am going through some issues with school. We are an hour apart, but we see each other ...

How can I prove my feelings for her so that we never break up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was studid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other ...

Does she truly love me or is she just obsessed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years now. It is long distance, we dont see each other as often as we would like but we still have managed to stay together this long. Don't get me wrong we break up a lot because I believe it is the ...

I'm basically a dumbass and I'm in love with someone who doesn't trust me. Ladies preferrably.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - I was dating this girl for a while, and she was amazing. She's fun, and outgoing, smart, and utterly gorgeous to boot. everything I could ask for but about 5 months into it I had a drunken folley, if you will, and the relationship ended with large ...