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Archived questions from: 1 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I really like her, but could I share her with her boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Hey, I'm 14 bi and in love with a 15 yr old. She's in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. She's also bi,but has a boyfreind. She dates girls and boys at the same time, normally I wouldn't date anyone even if neither them or there bf/gf has a problem, but I ...

Is this love or just pure lust? please I need help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - hello I am a little bit confused with the kind of feelings my boyfriend and I are having for each other, we have been together for 9 months, the first 6 we was living 2 hours away, so we would only be able to see eachother once a week. The last 3 ...

My man wants to do my backdoor/butt? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - The guy that I am seeing has been asking me for anal lately and I have never ever done it. I heard it really hurts, but it is ok if you use lots of lube. I am kind of interested in trying it as he is always poking around back there with his cock...

Love or friendship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Well I have a big problem my very good friend is dating A guy I really like. I know it won't last because they have gone out many times before and he dumped her because she won't touch or speak to him in school. He has asked me out before but I ...

I'm in love with my boy best friend, were both 17 I wanted to tell him how I feel, but hes going out with some other girl.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Im in love with my boy best friend, were both 17. Weve been friends for about 4 months and i recentley started liking him so much. and ive always knew he thought i was pretty. But i wanted to make sure i did have feelings for him and i finally de...

Question for the guys - Do you like a girl to make the first move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Around 6 months ago I was dating someone, however due to work commitments I spend the past 6 months out of the country. Now I have arrived home I have seen the man in question on a night out with mutual friends. Nothing happened, but I would like...

Can our relationship work if he cares but doesn't love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and asked him about his views on marriage and children, he gave me answers but also told me that since a situation in his past he has never been able to love anyone since and although he cares for ...

My fiance chooses his friends over me

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1 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 21 years old and a junior in college. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We got engaged after a yr of dating, he is 19 and we both attend the same college. This summer he was gone for 3 months for construction work. He works with ...

This guy always sends me mixed signals! Do I need to make the first move ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - This guy always sends me mixed signals! We have known each other about a year now, and we do flirt with each other! He has showed me many times that he like me! Trust me, the signs were there..and we are friends...but we just never seem to go beyond ...

How can I change my appearance without spending a fortune?

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1 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old (turning 19 in just under four months) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. My general appearance is that of a punkish, hippie(ish) Luna Lovegood. My boyfriend's into Kat Von D's and Liz Vicious types. I want to ...

His friend told him I like him but it seems he only likes me as a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Okay, so I'm liking this boy, but he only likes me as a friend. The bad thing is I don't really know him. So I have no reason to like him. I just think he is adorable. Anyway I told his friend that I thought I could trust, but he told the boy I ...

Hero!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - hey you guys it's me lotmoney 13 and i have another situation. well about three days ago we had a temporary schedule at school. so he , the straight guy, was really late to class. he was running down the stairs at schoool and felll down and s...

He doesn't show his love to me...

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1 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm in love with someone that doesn't show his love... that means he never calls unless I do.. ans these stuff.. everyone is telling me to dump him but I can't... What shall I do and we've been together for 4 years...

I'm a virgin, but how can I get my more experienced guy to take it to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a 19 year old female, college sophmore, and a virgin. However, I don't want to be one anymore! I have been going out with this guy for some time, and I want him to be my first. But I am so nervous! I am pretty self-concious about my body, ...

Since my holiday I feel so alone. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Sorry if this is long, I just need to tell how i feel to some one and them not judge me straight away or tell me what to do as it would be better for them. 3 weeks ago i went on holiday with two of my mum and dads friends familys, when we went i h...

Ladies, what does my ex gf mean in all, she says to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - Firstly i know this is rather long but i would very much apperciate it if you took 2 mins to read it! thanks in advance! me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago, we didnt speak for about 2 months then she got back in touch with me. We met up a ...

Are we just too different to make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - I'm hoping someone can shed some light on some feelings I'm having lately as well as what my girlfriend might be thinking and/or feeling. I fear this will be a long read but hopefully I can keep it reasonable. I've been living with my girlfrie...

He says all he has is me! How do I tell him I don't want to date him anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for the past year and its been great but recently i feel i really resent him, i don't want to talk to him, text him, see him or anything. I feel as if i want to see other people and have fun. I don't know if ...

First time sex jitters! How do I get past this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now. I really want him to be my first sexual partner (he is not a virgin). He never pressures me to do anything; he always ask. When we attempts of having sex, I always get nervousness. How can I get ...

He asked I wait 4 years, to meet him, until he's done college.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - my bf and i never had a date since we know each other. we fall in love thru handphone. messaging and calling. but i know him before. We were studying in a same college for a year. At the moment, we haven't been a couple yet. not even friend. AQ...

Jealousy is ruining what I have with the perfect guy! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - hii x ive just started goin out with a guy who is jst perfect for me =) my problem is that i get jealous of the smallest of things. lyk if he doesnt text bak, i think he's with another girl or doesnt like me anymore. in the past ive been cheated...

Ex bf wanted me to stay over last night... What does this mean? He said he wanted to be single

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Hi all at dear cupid, Im really stressing out at the moment, im still really in love with my ex bf,we split about 3 weeks ago now, and i use to ring him every other day when we split, but this week, we've spoken every single day this week, and i al...

Had sex with ex bf. My fiancee is now excited to be a dad but I don't even know whether I'm pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - I have a question - Me and my ex-boyfriend were having sex and it was 2 days after my period and he might have precumed inside of me. Is there any way that i might become preg.? I dont know i have been feelin weird after we had sex.We never used a ...

Every guy wants her... could she like a fat guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - Is it possible for a pretty girl to like a fat guy when nearly every guy wants her and can pretty much get any guy she wants? ...

I don't want to go out with her and realise I don't like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - Hello Ive recently started to like this girl and i have only started to realise this when we were apart on half term from school. Ive missed her and havent been able to go to sleep because ive been thinking about her. Now as quickly as that ...

She's so CLINGY I can't stand it! Should I break up or tell her I need some space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - alright well iv been dating this girl for like only 2 weeks now...and we both live in a residence at our college. Well pretty much since the first day we met she is soooo clingy..we always have to be holding hands, hugging, rubbing or whatever the ...

Does he actually like me and what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - I like my best friend a lot. He knows how I feel and nothing had been done. I am afraid that he doesn't like me like that. But we have shared a kiss. He said he thought he was kissing his ex-wife thats why he kissed me. During that kiss we cuddled. ...

I don't want just sex !!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - Okay maybe someone can help me with my dillema, I'm 21 and gay, open about it. Now whenever it comes to relationships I always hit a wall. Most guys approach me and compliment me on my good looks and appearance and then immediately ask me for a ...

I have developed a serious crush on my co-worker, but am not sure if he likes me back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - So, I have developed a serious crush on my co-worker, but am not sure if he likes me back or even what I should do about it. We make eye contact a lot, he writes on my facebook wall, we've joked around some at work and he makes me laugh a lot. But i ...

Who is right ???

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1 November 2008 (F) - me and the guy i sit next to in my english class were arguing about this today... and i just wanted some opinions as to who was right. i was wondering if guys consider it awkward when girls ask them out, instead of the guy asking the girl out. ...

Why didnt he just do it? I really wanted him to !!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. and the other night while fooling around we started talking about our first night together.. i told him i was ready but i just wasnt sure. so the next day we both we knew we were gonna be ...

How can I ask him out without making a fool of myself?

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1 November 2008 (?) - i really like this guy from my school named dillon. i've liked him for a while. he's the big man on campus even though he's only a sophmore. he's very good looking and nice. i'm only a freshman and am not the greatest looking girl in school. I talk...

I'm disgusted with this problem I have, please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - Hello every ; ), I have a really personal problem that I'm disgusted by. I have white vaginal discharge everyday and sometimes I get really smelly down there. Also. I've been to the gynocologist numerous times and they always say I'm fine. Its em...

Is 14 too young to be going out with a 17 year old?

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1 November 2008 (F) - im 14 years old and i met a guy at my families halloween party who is 17. he is the son of a family friend, and he gave me his email. do you think i am too young to go out with him? i really like him and he isnt some sort of player or something lol....

My ex broke my heart and I still love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

1 November 2008 (F) - My bf of over a year, we really loved each other when we were together and we were so perfect together. We got really close, he was my best friend, and my everything not to mention my first real love. But we used to really argue about littl...

I may have an opportunity to get back in a relationship with an ex/best friend. My friends say I should move on. Should I pursue her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

1 November 2008 (M) - I may have an opportunity to get back in a relationship with an ex/best friend. There are a couple of things holding me back...I'm not absolutely positive about the future of the relationship and she wants someone she can build a future with. My ...