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Dating: Help and advice

The baby daughter I never knew about...

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8 November 2008 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me in the begining of our relationship with his child's mother. Not only that, she got pregnant and he has a daughter that me and his family knew nothing about. He has kept it a secret all this ...

...he has taken money from my bank without asking and completely abusing my trust.

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8 November 2008 (F) - ok here goes, 21 years ago I met and fell in love with the most gorgeous man on the planet, after 3 happy years I fell pregnant and was promptly abandoned! He has no contact with our son until a month ago when we met up again only to discover all ...

I don't want to see him any more but how do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for the past 7 months, and they've been great, with a lot of happy times, but i feel its come to the point where i don't want to see him anymore, i don't feel like i want to talk him, text him or see ...

I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend said he fell in love with someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - First of all, thanks to everyone who is participating on this forum. It is very helpful. The disclosure of my long distance bf has had me in a state of utter misery and confusion. I met my boyfriend a year and a half ago in Japan. We only spent ...

Am I the cat who wants too much cream?

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8 November 2008 (F) - Hello! Bit of a dilemma. I was going out with this guy from work when all of a sudden another (better looking and sexier) guy (who did not know about the first guy) asked me out. I did not give him a reason for turning him down. A few months later ...

He always talks about bondage and stuff, how can I get him to do it to me in our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life, we try a lot of positions and have a lot of fun. I'm into bondage very much, and he's always talking about it during sex, what he'd like to do to me and all but he never accually wants to do it, how can I ...

He's lied before, should I trust him now?

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8 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. This winter he is going home. We literally live a world away and in two different continents. He is going home for a month and I am going home for a month. I am afraid he in not ...

She told me she wants to date other men as well as being with me.

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8 November 2008 (M) - I have been dating this woman for only 3 weeks, but in that time we have spent a lot of time with each other. She seems to be really into me as I am to her but she told me she also wants to date other men. I am newly divorced and have not been in a ...

I love him but there are still so many problems in our relationship.

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8 November 2008 (F) - I have been going out with this guy for about a year now. In the beginning things were good but weird. He was cheating on his girlfriend (at the time) with me. He did not tell me openly at first and we had already done "it". We continued to have ...

Why won't he show me where he lives?

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8 November 2008 (F) - AM I HARD ON HIM I am 25 years old and I have been dating a 30 year olg guy for five months. The problem is that he doesn't want to show me where he lives. He knows where I live and he visits me every day. I feel like he is hiding somethin...

Is my 10 plus year relationship coming to an end?

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8 November 2008 (M) - I have lots of good in my life – a person who loves me, a loving family, a job that I mainly enjoy. But there is something missing. Passion, desire, the excitement of life – I only realised how much these things were missing from my life recently...

Should I tell her or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

8 November 2008 (M) - i've been madly in love for this girl for a lot of time. and i guess she feels just a bit attracted for me. but i suffer from an early case of borderline personality disorder. it makes me a very problematic person. but i care so much about her that ...

Am I being a fool to stay with him ?

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8 November 2008 (F) - i have been with my bf for 3years.he was married for 15yrs. divorced 2yrs. he has no children, but had a horrible marriage. he told me it started the day of their wedding and they ended up coming home early from there honeymoon ( which was in ...

He asked me out, I said no. How do I tell him I am now interested ?

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8 November 2008 (F) - 4 Months ago this guy asked me to go out with him and I said no, and its been on my mind ever since. Problem is how do I tell him that I want to go out with him. I cant get him out of my mind and dont know how to approach him. he is 45 and im 27 ...

I Can't concentrate on my studies an am much disturbed.plzzzzzzz help!!!

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8 November 2008 (F) - I am a silly girl of 23. I have tried my level to run a smooth relation with my boyfriend. Well it is a long story. We met by a wrong call. He just dialed my number and asked me to be his friend. At first I refused but then after his continuous ...

Advice on calmly bringing up a problem with boyfriend?

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8 November 2008 (F) - My problem is that my boyfriend doesn't reply to texts if he's out having a good time. When he goes away for a weekend or just a night with friends/work he won't bother to text me back if I text him for example asking if his gig went well. This u...

I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years last October. I found out that he'd been lying to me the whole time and cheated with lots of different women. Now he calls me all the time. Help !

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8 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I really am just heartbroken right now and have noone else to talk to about this. I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years last October. I found out that he'd been lying to me the whole time and cheated with lots of dif...

Boyfriend dictating having a break caught me unawares… Should I trust his reasons and wait for him or protect myself and try to have some fun on the side?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - I am so confused and need help. My long term boyfriend has asked for a break recently. We have been fighting because of being frustrated with life issues ( we work opposite shitfs, we don't get to see each other that much, he still lives in at his ...

Does he want to go out with me or just be my tennis coach?

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8 November 2008 (F) - i hung out with this guy alot in first semester in college. We kinda knew we liked each other but we're just to shy to make a move or show it. Eversince we got back from christmas break it's been different. I don't even know why. It's been ...

I want to tell her how I feel but should I tell her now?

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8 November 2008 (M) - I have been hanging out with her about 5 months now. For the last 6 weeks i have been renting a room from her. I am 28 she is 35. We have become very good friens over the last 6 weeks but im falling head over in Love with her. She tells me (when ...

How do I convince my older girlfriend that age does not matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

8 November 2008 (M) - I am a 19 year old guy who has been dating a 27 year old girl for 8 months. She has recently been concerned about the age difference because she believes we are in different parts of our lives even though we have talked about or future and agree on ...

Is it me or the other girls?

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8 November 2008 (?) - I have a slight problem.... Some reason, i get along with guys more often then other women. Im not a huge fan of attention; i hate being babied when im hurt. Im not trying to cause a problem or anything, i mean i would be talking to a guy then along ...

Good and bad news and 3 problems.

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8 November 2008 (M) - My girl friend is no longer going to a new school but the bad news is that i found out due to a good friend that she does not like kissing me because i had chaped lips for like 2 or 3 days i now use chap stick daily that is only one problem there ...

How can someone change their outlook on life so quickly...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - 9 months ago my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. We lived together for the 2nd half of our relationship. While we were together he told me that marriage scared him; he would need to know someone for a very long time (and live with ...

I just kicked my boyfriend out of the house for trying to choke me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - Confused, just kicked my boyfriend of 3 years out my house cuz he tried choking me 2x's with my kids in the house. I know he loves me cuz he tells me but why should I want this man back in my life being that he has a short temper, violent and I have ...

Earlier today he asked me if him and one of his friends could..."play" with me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

8 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend asked me to dress in something sexy before we..."play".....but other then langerie what else is there? Earlier today he asked me if him and one of his friends could..."play" with me....um..what do I say? I wouldnt really mind it... but ...

In his cupboard I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

8 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a cupboard in his bedroom which he locked. In it I found butt plugs, a mouth gag, huge dildos, handcuffs, double penetration toys and other things I can't even put a name too. I haven't said anything to him, but it's put me right ...

I'm scared to have a boyfriend because the doctors don't know what's wrong with me.

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8 November 2008 (F) - this is sort of complicated.. i bet its a new question.. anyways. im 14 and i have VERY bad stomach problems. ive had a colonoscopy to get checked for colon cancer.. and they found a polyp but thats besides the point. they cant find whats wrong with ...

I don't know how to date any more.

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8 November 2008 (F) - Ok, here I am once again needing your advice. I really like this guy I'm seeing, we've known each other for about 4 months and have been dating about 2 months now and I really want to tell him how I feel but am scared that he will run to the ...

Men and Commitment

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8 November 2008 (F) - What is it about commitment that some men fear? I'm just trying to understand, because the guy I was with had commitment issues, and wouldn't even try and talk or explain himself to me. Is it the increase in responsibility? Fear of getting ...

She hates when I touch her, she hates flowers and candy... what can I do?

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8 November 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (of a year) hates it when I touched her breasts (she finds it disrespectful) or try and eat her out (she doesn't really like it). How can turn her on? She also doesn't like the traditional flowers and chocolate. She thinks its over ...

I dumped the love of my life and want him back more than anything!

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8 November 2008 (F) - ok so i dumped the love of my life. i love him so much and im the one that got hurt really bad. i cried for four hours straight, so for awhile i was with another guy and trying to get over him didnt work so i dumped that guy to go out with the love ...