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Archived questions from: 28 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I feel like he doesn't care about me anymore...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - well, I've been officially dating this guy for 10 days. Before that we were basically together for like 3 months but he never officially asked me out. We always used to talk about a lot of things and really deeply too. I felt really into him and now ...

Why don't white guys approach me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I'm a good looking, outgoing latina who is highly attracted to white men. My question is, why is it that they'll check me out - but not approach me? ...

How can I tastefully approach this young woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Hello everyone! I have known a young lady, Vivian(22) in September who works in the same field as I do(we met at a trade exhibition). I recommended her to some students for lessons(she tutors privately), and we see each other on a weekly basis ...

How to kill 2 birds with one stone - birthday/christmas pressie!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks and I know its not that long, but his birthday is in 2 weeks which is really close to christmas. So I was going to get him a birthday/christmas present... but I really don't know what to ...

Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Is it normal that I am 20 and still a virgin? All my friends have been in serious relationships, however, I have not. I have been on a few dates but I have never felt attrated to anyone. My friends say im picky but I dont want to hurt anyones ...

Was what I did really bad or am I overreacting here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together only for 3 months now, we work together and he was engaged twice before and his 2 ex-fiancees also work at the same company and we have common friends, however since our relationship started i've been hearing ...

Is he living a double life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend had just split up with his wife when i met him. We had a great relationship, he moved in with me but several months later he devastated me by going back to his wife. Shortly after returning he was back in touch telling me he had made ...

I like a boy but he doesn't meet my standards, should I let it go or wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Have a boy I like, but he don't meet my standards n by this i know for sure it wont work. But I really like him. Should I let it go or should i wait it out?...

I'm afraid I will mess this one up because I don't know how to make out! Anybody have an advise on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - i dont no how 2 make out and i dont want 2 mess up i love this boy...

Her parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Okay so I'm 23 years old and I've been with an amazing woman for about a year and a half. We do everything together and ts been by far the best time of my life. We get along great and share almost identical values, ambitons, political views, ...

What can I say to recover the relationship...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Is there anything I can do/say in order to get my girlfriend back? Last week i got a bit down and kept my girlfriend at arms length,she was supposed to be going away for the weekend and i felt that i would get better when she got back. My mother...

I was just wondering what type of things make a girl feel good...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Alright, so I know this might not be the most appropriate question, but I'd rather ask it anonymously to people I don't know then directly to somebody I do know. Well here's the story, I'm a 15 year old guy and have had a serious girlfriend for 2 ...

Why can't we just stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years, the longest I've ever had. But we break up and get back together all the time. I'm tired of that because if he wants to be together why can't we just stay together? another problem that I ...

Mom says if I choose to be with him now I can pack my things and leave with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Okay, so there's this boy.. he's amazing. A little age difference.. he's 19 and I'm 16. I've never had a boyfriend so it's no wonder why my mother is freaking out. She knows of other boys I've talked to and usually is a cool mom BUT now that me and ...

Should I ask her out again or just stay close friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Okay, there's this girl that I liked ever since school began. Ever since the very first da I met her. I got to know her a little bit and thennwe got closer and closer until the school dance came up then I asked her to the dance. It took some time ...

Why am I still feeling like this over a boss that fired me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - ok a while back i got a really good job that i liked fairly well, as much as you can like a job where you make 7.60 and hour. 7 months later we got a new manager. I really fell for him. i mean completely. i was having a lot of family issues, s...

Are there any obvious ways to tell if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hey. I've got a teenage boy trouble dilema i need advice on: Of course, i like this guy in my year at school (no problem with age incase you were wondering, he's only a month older then me!) Anyway, i'm mates with him and we have a laugh- he's re...

How do I speed up my period so it will end sooner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have the whole house to ourselves on Sunday and we hardly ever get the whole house anymore. It should hopefully be good but there's one small problem.. I'm on my period. My periods normally last about 5 or 6 days and on Sund...

He's offering his friendship back. Should I take it even though I feel more for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - A mate and I were really close (friendship wise only) I fancied him at first. I didn’t know he had a gf till 2 weeks after we first met. Thought it a stupid reason to break a potential good friendship over, gambled and stayed friends. Was hard but ...

Why won't he walk away from me and save his current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hello aunts...i know what im doing isn't right...ive been seeing a guy who has a gf for almost six months...and have made 3 attempts to cut him off and obviously have been unsuccessful... i truely don't know what to do...he seems to be kind of we...

How do you tell someone to lose weight without crushing them?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now. We're going through a number of problems, which I addressed in another question, but in thinking about the possibility of us getting back together, there is one issue i just don't know how to deal ...

He said he has forgiven me but I haven't forgiven myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - me and my boyfriend met at the beginning of the year and before we met i had booked a trip to go trevelling for almost a month. we moved in together a week before i went travelling and within the week i realised that he had a problem with coke. he ...

Am I the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i liuve together, he is was divorced decades ago. my problem is, when his ex-wife calls or i hear her name being mentioned, i feel uncomfortable. when i try to be honest with him and tell him how i feel, he tells me that im the ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend love me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend met 2 years ago. He exposed his love to me at the beginning. He loved me so much at that time. About 6 months later he is starting to change. I really love him so much. I always agree and accept whatever he wants. He even knows ...

I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I'm having trouble getting over my girlfriend's past. She is a virgin, so with her being a virgin, I believed she had never done anything remotely sexual. I was wrong. Within the first 3 months she told me about flashing some random mexicans. I...

I think my best friend is flirting with my girlfriend!! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now, and i really like her, but my best friend is not the tallest guy around and hears that my girlfriend said she would never go out with him because he is too small so decides to confront ...

She shared a bed with her ex... I want to trust her, but I don't trust HIM

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I've recently started seeing someone. We've been together for about a month now, but something bothers me. She told me recently that she and her ex boyfriend booked tickets to go to a concert together. That was fine, I had no problem with that. Then ...

I'm starting to fall for him, but he is so young - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I have problem, I starting to fall for this dude, but he is young, its a 3 years differents n age. I know for sure that he liks me as well. But Im payin hard to get, b/c his so young. What should I do? ...

I'm soooo in love but miserable and confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Dear agony aunt: My boyfriend hasn't been having the best of luck these past few months, he says he has problems in his life because everything hasn't been going right for him. Now I try to help him but he pushes me away and because of this we ...

Should I be worried that he's cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Well here it goes again my 3rd question in 5 days guess I needed more help then I though or I just think way to much either way here it goes. My b/f who just turned 18 and I had been dating 3 months everthing was going great I loved him he lov...

My boyfriend is overprotective of his phone but checks mine non-stop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Something isnt right. My bf (who is 19 and so am i) of 2 months seems overly protective of his phone considering how he goes through my phone non stop and always has to know who im calling/texting etc. When he gets a message, if I ask him casual...

Why can I never get a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Hello aunties, Hope you doing fine. Well I am a 28 year old man, I have had a few failures in my life; been an average student; working in a gas station, put petrol in people's cars, although an MBA by qualification.. as I am looking for job, ...

Is it right to date married men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Hi Friends, my question is this almost all men that approach me are married men. It is right to date married men? I find out that these married men i love so much more than the unmarried. Show i go on dating them please help....

I can't ask her to quit her job here - but I don't know if I can live in this city forever either. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Ive been with a woman for 8 months. We're very much in love. She's Spanish and I'm American, and we live here in Spain. The problem is I don't much care for the city we're living in, and have a better job opportunity with a lot more money, in ...

Does he still care or is he using me?

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28 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy a year and a half ago when I was in a bad relationship which ended and he was there with me. Around this time we were like the best of friends but he had asked me out and I had hesitated because he's like 8 years older and is my ...

Should I call it quits with my boyfriend and give this other guy a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years recently things are just different... I get so mad at him for picking his friends over me when I feel like I'm the one that does everything for him. Also there's been this other guys who's ...

She's just not herself since we broke up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - hello friends, We broke off a month ago. She still behaved like before but I brought myself to the friendship boundary and she was often hurt by this but soon she adapted herself to this to some extent. Since then we have been having hard time acc...

He had sex with other men in prison!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now and he spent 1 year in prison, He admitted to me he had sex with other men while in prison, but he says it won't happen since he is out of prison now. But I wonder could he be gay? or was he ...

Do I let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I was with a girl for 18 months and it may not be a super long period of time and we are still young but i knew she was something special. Not like any girl i have ever met. I love her with all my heart. Well at nights for the past couple months i ...

How can I tell him I'm not comfortable on top when he's just trying to protect me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - When I was younger I was sexually abused. I have had help to get past this and now I feel comfortable with the idea of having sex with my boyfriend. He has told me he wants to also, but is getting a bit over the top when it comes to his idea of ...

What do men think of women that sleep with them on the first date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - What do men think of women that sleep with them on the first date? Are they considered a slut and not girlfriend material or is there a chance that it can work?...

When is enough enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - If someone has said that they have some feelings for you, but they feel there is too much getting in the way (distance, family etc), is there any point trying to win them over, even if you really like them?...

Will it cause too much trouble if I start dating my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Okay i have this best friend. the whole i tell him everything and he tells me everything. He can make me laugh forever. over the thanksgiving holiday we talked on the phone forever. 7 hours in two days!!! and at school we meet up between every ...

How do you know if you're ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Everyone always tells me that you need to be ready before you have sex, i get that. How exactly do you know if you're ready though. I feel comfortable with the idea of having sex with my boyfriend now but I get really embarrassed talking about it ...

He says he doesn't want a fling, but doesn't want anything serious - what DOES he want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Can anyone enlighten me to what a guy means when he says he doesn't like flings but he doesn't want anything serious. He doesn't want anything serious because he's going traveling and claims it might stop him. But then he keeps saying how he wants ...

He is so good-looking it makes me feel like a troll. Can he possibly like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - There's this guy I like who's a friend of a friend, but he's too attractive. We get on really well and make each other laugh, but he is really really good-looking and although a fair few guys tell me I'm attractive, this guy is SO attractive that ...