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writes:well people hello. I'm a 16 years old and need advice from you people. It's just 3 days since my ex and I got in touch. We are friends for now..!! met hi yesterday.. talked lots.. do you people think that I should get back into this relationship again as he's showing signs of asking me out agian. Days of when I broke up, I suffered a lot to come out of this pain and now after 6 months I just don't know what to do. I'm scared where he'll leave me again... then I'll be a total loser in life again!!! Lots of things going on in my mind. What do I do?? If I say no I'm scared that I'll lose him again as a best friend also.. it's 6 months I've made my life again.. what do I do?? People help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Bryanz...Hmmm where did I hear that?
Isn't the same Bryanz who yesterday asked advice about his girl friend having sex with him when she walked in and erm...caught him redhanded?
Isn't it the same Bryanz who asked us females to stay away from his post regarding erm... the size of something?
People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): You don't say who broke up with whom, but it must have been for a good reason. Whatever the reason was, it's likely to re-appear once more if you were to get back together. I predict it wouldn't last, and I'd advise you to avoid getting involved with him again unless you want to go through all that pain again.
By all means stay friends - but don't get any more involved than that. An 'ex' never does make a very good 'best friend'. Best friends, *REAL* friends, you should be able to count on the fingers of one hand, especially at your age. I suspect he's nothing remotely like a best friend should be, so make sure you don't elevate his status in your life above what it really is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Dear May I please say if a guy ditches you,you don't become a total loser.In India where everyone's IQ almost breaks the meter you need to be pretty competitive.If you study well you become successful.That makes you a total winner.
At your age its very natural to feel that everything is lost when he left you.No it isn't.Its a new beginning.Ex-es cannot stay as friends.The tension is a bit too much to handle.
My humble advice is to stay away from the guy even as a friend.Its better to make a clean break.you don't need him as a best friend.you are your best friend.I am glad you came out of the pain after 6 months.I hope you are intelligent enough not to go there again.
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reader, Bryanz  +, writes (18 November 2008):
Okay. Due to the fact you're only 16, you shouldn't worry about your love life. Not trying to be mean or hurtful but, there's a big chance that you guys won't last.
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