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Archived questions from: 27 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Me and my boyfriend are so different, should I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! First I just want to say that I love this site, it's very helpful to hear others' opinions on things... Lately I've been questioning how I feel about my relationship with my boyfriend of almost a year. I really do love this guy ...

Do you think he will ever get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Me and my bf finished on sunday I had already written a question on sunday there sayin that we always argue .. we still toked on the fone on the monday a cppl of times and then on the tuesday and wen i was at college on the tuesday afternoon he had ...

Help! What on earth should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I have been calling on a 49 year old man for a few months most weekends. To start with he adamantly pushed me away. He has never had a relationship before. He has a dependant sister a few years older than himself. Both parents dead. He has slowly ...

He calls here at 3am and they have random talks, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - First I'm sorry this question is so long~! I'm thinking or starting to go out with this guy. He's amazing in every way and so special, he's really sweet, generous and just a good person. He wants the same type of future I'm looking for and want...

How should I initiate things regarding sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's taking me out to dinner tonight and I want us to have our first time (we're both virgins). we've talked about it before and agreed to if we're in the right mood and lately if he says one thing dirty I get wet.. and I've always wanted ...

Why did the other boy work better and not this one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke ...

Is it okay to feel contempt for the man that is dating my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Is it okay that I feel great contempt for the man that is now dating my ex-girlfriend? They had been together before she met me, but had separated because he had 'a lot of baggage' (her words). We started dating and then he comes crawling back 'a ...

Help...hot tempered girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is kinda hot tempered...she blews off for unwanted things..even if its her fault?? there is one time where she lied to me and blew off at me as though it was my mistake..but we did talk it over..my question is why.?? How can you blew ...

Should I keep on fighting or just stop being friends with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - i need help. so my friends are pretty much telling me we should go our seperate ways cuz i have a bf. they say i think boys are more important then themm but thats not even close to true and i always tell them that. so whenever i hang out with my ...

How do I ask him without sounding dirty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - my bf and i have been haing sex using a condom and he cums inside of the condom its okayy with me but id much rather him cum on me ( i find it a big turn on..) but i dont wanna make myself sound dirty or anything.. should i just ask him? ...

How do I split my time between my boyfriend and friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hello, right well i have this prolem, me and my two best mtes were so so close done everything together, tld each other everything but then i got a boyfriend, i hve never felt like thid for anyone before, he means everything to me but so do the girl...

Could she really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - sorry for my bad english. will i meet this girl and shes in all my classes and am not sure if she likes me she's allways giving me mixed sings like some days she toroally ignores me and other days she stares at me alot and when i talk to her she's ...

Should I break up with her before I go to the university?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Hi me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year now and i'm going to university in 2 years time. I keep thinking i want to break up with her when i'm at uni. I know its a long time off but i'm gunna be miles away and i'm always thinking ...

Did I have a right to feel insecure in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a c...

Do all women expect you to read their minds to some degree?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Girls keep leaving hints, sometimes I get them sometimes I don't. Of course I don't really mind when it comes to little things, but when it comes to huge emotional issues it seems to come out at an unexpected moment. Unexpected as in "how was I ever ...

Was he looking at her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - this is going to sound really crazy but its really getting me down! ive been with my bf for 6 months and never had any probs with him. the other day we were outside our flats when a boy and girl walked past. he was fiddling for his keys and i saw ...

Did the girl of my dreams write down the wrong number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Back in August this gorgeous girl came into job and I was too nervous to talk to her, but another guy who works there got her number. For months I've been wallowing in regret thinking of all the things I should have said but didn't have the nerve ...

He wanted me to stick my finger up his bum! Why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - my bf and i was having sex the other day when he wanted me to stick my finger up his bum, why did he want me to do this, he said he liked it mut my nails where to long, i was going to do it again last nite but he said no why did he want me to do it...

We're just sex buddies...even though we broke up 2 months ago! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hiya everyone, i now this is sounding stupid and desperate but, me and my ex broke 2 months ago for the past month we've been having sex as in f**k buddies, the thing is we both we not getting any and he hardly has any money and so he puts it ...

Not sure if he likes me or he's just playing with me...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm Cheryl and I'm 18 this year. I knew this guy who's is a year older then me from my very close friend. And this guy is from my school, schoolmate. He used to like me before, from the start of the year, he got my number from my friend. But I ...

My period came twice this month and I'm really worried that I could be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 16 years old and I had my period twice this month :/ first on the 2nd of November and it lasted like 7/8 days and again yesterday on the 25th of November.. :/.. I am scared that I could be pregnant because on the internet I found you can be ...

Is my relationship over? Loving someone and to love someone...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for granted, don't ...

What's the easiest way to get out of this without having to deal with his crap?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I am currently in a relationship. I have been in this relationship for a year in December. I moved out with this guy in March - as we clicked so well, and it felt as though it could work. While we have been living with each other we have had lots of ...

Am I being too hard hearted here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much and yet have never felt so confused as well. We have been in a long distance relationship for just over a year. He has gone from being the most attentive, affectionate and wonderful man who wanted to spend time just ...

Massage techniques.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Hi My (fairly new) partners had a rough time at work lately and has been poorly though she is getting better now. I've done my best to cheer her up (flowers to work etc) but when I next see her I want to give her a relaxing massage, help her unwi...

Baby fever

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (?) - I don't know if this is normal or natural, but I really want to have a baby. I'm only 18 not financially stable, I have a flat to pay for but I can't stop thinking about babies. I haven't been with my boyfriend all that long but my broodine...

No penetration - could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I'm really scared!! =\ One day I was at my boyfriend's and after some time we were kissing and he was laying on his back and I was on him [no penetration] I was with my underwear but then he started masturbating. After some time he ejaculated and ...

Is he waiting for me to make the next move?

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27 November 2008 (F) - I went on a 1st date which went really well. He kissed me at the end of the date and said that he had a nice time. We have messaged each other a few times since and he said that he would like to meet again soon but he is not sure when. I told hi...

He got what he wanted from the start so why play this role?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - A year ago I got my heart broken by the first guy that I ever gave my 100 percent all to. After being with him almost every day for 11 months, I found out a day before his wedding that he was getting married to his ex girlfriend. I felt my world ...

Why is my boyfriend so sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I'm having problems with my boyfriend, I have to count every word I say when I'm with him because he easily gets upset with things I say, even though I honestly thought I was only conversing, he thinks I can't talk to people and he's the only person ...

Does she sleep with me because of love, a bond or is it just lust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - How would you know that the girl is having sex with you because of love, the bond or just because of lust and desires? It's kinda hard to predict someone's actions nowadays... especially when it comes to romance and sex... I do love my girlfrie...

We're dating but he like another female...how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My bf and I been together for 2 yrs now and he recently met a girl he really likes. Now, we're not planning on breaking up with each other but she does apparently "appeal" more to him than I do and this is what got me freakin out. How do I win m...

Any tips about dressing to look funky yet rich?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - hello friends, i am 5'6" male weighing 72 kgs. though i am overweight and my lower body fatter than upper body, i dont look fat. both casual and formal wear suit me. my girlfriend is not impressed with the way i dress up. can anyone suggest ...

I have dated men who treated me badly--so how do I gain a man's respect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - why is it that I am 25 years old and have never had a meaningful relationship in my life? The closest I ever had was in my teens but I had to break up with him because he was abusive. It seems now I go on a date with a guy and they are all over me ...

He constantly tells me that we would be together if he wasn't in a relationship already, do you think we can be just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy over the summer and we became fast-close friends ever since. We like each other very much (not just a friendly way). However, he's in a 4-year relationship. We have not done anything with each other; not even holding hands. Yet, he ...

I believe in fighting for the one I love, but how do I do that in this situation? Any Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for approx 18 mos, we had a slow, deliberate start for a few reasons. We both had been burned in prior relationships (not recent though, I felt we were both pretty far moved on by the time we both got officially going, ...

I broke up with my boyfriend of 10 years, met someone else, still interested in my ex, confused, which one would be better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 years. We broke up 2 years ago and since then have gotten back together and broken up many times. In the meantime, I met someone else that I've seen off and on over the past 2 years. ...

He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore ..what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend whilst on holiday, I stayed at my aunt's (not biological) and he is her husband's nephew. Anyway, I decided I needed the holiday after my previous long term relationship ended. I was with my aunt for about two months when he told ...

He likes his sex rough! And it hurts me...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I really love my boyfriend but when we have sex he is really rough... even though e trys to be gentle he ends up going really fast and i end up crying from all of the pain. He knows it hurts me but he cant seem to go slow because he slips out and ...

My bf gets turned on by asphyxia and domination fantasies!..and it scares me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend gets turned on by asphyxia and domination fantasies. I am aware that fantasies are harmless and did not worry unduly about this but he has recently incorporated putting plastic bags over my face when we are having sex. I know that he ...

When we try anal sex, I have bad pain, is there smething we can do to stop the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have tried anal a couple of times and sometimes it really hurts and this has put me off it. i want to know what positions will stop it hurting or will it take time to get used to and then it wont hurt anymore? i have this really ...

No dating in over 4 years, and I run out of things to talk about on a date now, any suggestions, don't want to be boring?

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27 November 2008 (F) - I'm 42 yrs (young) and about a 1 month ago just started dating a man I met on myspace. That is something I thought I would never do, but I did and it's so far been real nice. The problem is, I haven't dated in over 4 yrs. (Mind you I said dating) My ...

My boyfriend is constantly being told by this girl in his class, very sexually oriented things, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - my bf has a female friend at collage and she is wildly innapropriate. This is some of what she does: asked my bf what his tongue technique is like she details about how she gives head she always talks about how big her boobs are she tells him...

How can I tell when he's ready to ejaculate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and I know he wants more than what we have currently done in the past (furthest we have gone is with the hand). I want to give him a bj but for some reason I can't stand the idea of him cumming in my ...