A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now. before I entered this relationship I was dealing with rejection from another guy and was kind of depressed so I was trying to focus on school and stuff. So this guy I am with came along and he liked me and I fell for him. At first let me admit I didnt have any strong feelings for him but he gave me so much attention I went crazy about him in a couple of months. He was so jealous and possessive about me. It annoyed me sometimes and scared me but I loved the special attention of being the only girl in his life who he truly cared about. Now 7 months later when I am totally crazy about him and can't imagine a life without him he tells me what he feels isn't really love he really likes me and is hoping it will turn out to be love, but he doesnt feel that excitement we had when we just got together. I am completely shattered because 3 months ago we bought each other rings - his idea - and I really fell for this guy. Does anyone have any suggestions. Does he love me? Will he ever? Should I move on ? Seriously, I dont know what to do. He tells me he is not looking for any girl he just wants us to be together and have fun and not take things so serious when its too late because I have pictured my whole life with him and a life without him is a really bad nightmare I would rather die.Please help, any advice would be great.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 November 2008):
 At your age some guys just like the pursuit rather than a committed relationship. Relax and whatever you do NEVER come across as clingy and dependant. Do as he says, be together and have some fun, try to not take things so seriously. If your relationship is meant to develop, it will.
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