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Archived questions from: 16 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She says she feels controlled by me... do you blame me for feeling the way I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - How to deal with a girlfriend that has feelings of being controlled, but upsets her boyfriend by having what appears to be flirty or inappropriate relationships with previous sexual partners or new male co-workers. Also when asked to refrain from ...

Dear Cupid I need help badly..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help. I have meet this man whom I thought I could have a relationship with, how very wrong I was... after 3 weeks into the relationship he told me he was married with 3 children, he told me he plans to leave his wife after xmas,...

I want to be involved here too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I've been with my boyfriend who I love dearly 4 about a years now. Before we lived together he got a girl pregnant. I knew about this and he said we would deal with this when the baby is born. Well the baby came and he told me they ...

I'm terrified he won't like me once I get my braces fitted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my bf for about 9 months and I'm getting braces soon, I wonder if they will make him fall out of love with me after I get my braces on? He is in a different grade level he will be going to college in a year. I fear that he will go ...

Can a Straight guy have interest in kissing/making out with other guys??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Just a little question that im interested in peoples' opinions on - ESPECIALLY MEN. Okay, can a straight guy be interested in kissing/making out with another guy? I personally think that no straight guy can have interest in doing that, but...

Any advice on what I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - I went out with this guy for two months and then we broke up. He said it was because it was hard staying together when he was in one town and Ii was in another.(He lived in the same town as me when we first got together then 3 weeks later he moved 2 ...

It was a genuine accident and now she won't talk to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

16 November 2008 (?) - I was skate boarding with my girlfriend yesterday . She was wearing a tube top. I kept offering my hoodie to her top cause her looked like it going to fall down. Well I trip on something and I grabbed the first thing I could her tube top. It came ...

Any males out there, who can tell me what this man is about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy in the beginning of September and we exchanged numbers. We kind of texted each other a little back and forth throughout the month. He mentioned to me that he wasn't looking for a relationship. In October I went over to his house ...

My boyfriend and I are having some sex problems.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having sex problems. When we have sex he tends not to get a "boner" and when he sticks it in it just falls out and its both frustrating for me and him because it just happens over and over till i get tired of it and we stop. ...

How do I stop calling my girlfriend by my ex's name, they sound similiar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (?) - I called my girlfriend (for a year) my exes name (they name sound very alike) while making love a few times. She gets upset every time when this happen cause she thinks im still thinking about her sexually (which I don't). We manage to patch things ...

He's creative and good hearted but slow, should I endure or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is a simple and sweet guy with a beautiful heart. We've been dating a few months and up 'til now have had a great time together and shown each other a lot of love. We're goofy together and laugh a lot -- in some ways he's got a ...

He NEVER has his cell phone out of his hands and I'm getting fed up with it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for about 1.5 years, and things were very rocky in the beginning. He is always texting on his phone. He becomes very annoyed if I always ask him who is talking to. It started off when I learned he was getting n...

I don't want to labeled as some 'sex freak.' Is there anything I can do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - Okay, this is a bit um... interesting. Here we go: I dated this girl for a very short time (I think it was about two weeks). We broke up because a. We weren't really meshing, and b. She was pressuring me to go too far too fast. The problem was,...

Did I ruin it for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - I am extremely confused.. My girlfriend and I met in high school and have been dating since senior year. We have now been dating for over 3 years and are both in our third years of college, but go to different colleges miles away. I visit her almost ...

Girls, what are some questions you'd want to be asked by a guy that would make you feel good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - Hello. I like this girl, blah blah blah, you've heard it before. I'm hanging out w/her as much as I can without seeming too clingy, but the problem is, is that most of our time is silent. Girls, what are some questions you'd want to be asked by a ...

He's going to jail for 3 months. Should I wait for him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Hey! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we care about each other a lot. But he is going to go to jail for about 3 months and he wants me to wait for him. I want to wait for him but I'm afraid I might get over him just lik...

I'm happy without a boyfriend, so why is it always on my mind?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Okay, basically, I'm EXTREMELY confused with myself. Honestly, I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend. Usually I am happy with this, I really don't care whether I have a boyfriend, and can be happy without one. I have my GCSEs comi...

Could I have caught something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Hi I asked a similiar question last week but am still confused. I had anal sex a few weeks ago and the morning after I had normal sex with my guy, both times we didn't use a condom. Could I have caught something still despite ass to pussy sex being ...

I want to dress up sexy for my boyfriend... WHERE to get the clothes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - I'm a big girl and my boyfriend loves my curves and has asked me to dress up sexy in stockings and a basque and I'm worried as soon as I walk into a shop that sells them, people are thinking ew look at her trying to be sexy, and I get this feeling ...

My best friend and my girlfriend are getting to close to each other..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - My english is bad but i hope you can understand the thing..i have the same problem...my girlfriend is flirting with my best friend..i know they dont have nothing right now but theyt are to close to each other...and they hide things to me..it hurts ...

I dumped my army guy for him, If I lose him I lose my music too!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - I fell into being involved a year ago with a good friend / band member. We were terrifically happy with one issue - I was still attached to a guy who had been deployed. I told my friend that leaving the other guy would be the hardest decision of my ...

Should I forget my first love who gave me drugs, and go the the perfect guy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - ok so we have a friend of the family and since forever iv always had a crush on him when we meet up id get all exited and not sleep the night before. the problem was he live miles away and so i only ever saw him 2-3 times a year witch was a prob...

He says he doesn't believe in love but still kisses me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - he has been hurt before and now he doesn't want a serious relationship,we kiss each other everytime we're togther,how can i make him get into a serious relationship?he says he really likes me but doesn't believe in love..is there a chance i might ...

Friend Zone vs relationship coming out of 'friendship'....????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - I still don't really understand the difference between the dreaded 'friend zone' and a relationship that develops from friendship into something more. What exactly makes this happen? The 'friend zone' means, to me, that if one of the two involved...

Teen needs help to flirt by text.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - what are cute or flirty thigns to say to a guy in a text message that lets him know your interested in him but won't come on too strong ???...

Ladies - if you fancy a guy do you talk to him loads or find yourself tongue-tied?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - Hello! I'll keep this brief since there are far more important and interesting questions on this web-site for you to focus on, but I was just wondering that if a woman fancies a guy then generally speaking does she A) talk to him much more than ...

So please tell me what "good luv'n" means to u?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Ok, I guess another reason I'm slightly confused is b/c I asked him even in the beginning what it is that he wants out of this and he told me 2 get 2 know me 4 me, so I stressed 2 him if this is about sex only then make it clear. (I can prepare my ...

How do I get over this if he's my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - I told my Best Guy friend last night That I've had feelings for him. Even though I know he didnt feel the same. He played me along the past year because he wanted me to be his best friend with benefits.. we stopped doing that.. but he was the first ...

Co-worker crush - does he like me, or am I just being too anxious??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - CoWorker Crush - Does he like me? Need some advice if my co-worker likes me or not... We work in different departments, but we work on some projects together. When I met him, immediately I thought he was cute and developed a little crush. Si...

I just don't get why he would say it if he didn't mean it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Ok so the other day my crush and I were talkin and I said that love is a very strong wrong. he then agreed and said that he loved me and my friend (we were all talking). they way he said it was awkward because he started scratching his neck and ...

I can't ask her to be my gf because she's skinny and I'm fat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - I have a crush on this girl, but I don't know if I can ask her to be my girlfriend. I can't tell my mom and dad, because they would just say "my baby is in love." I try to ask her out on Fridays, but I'm just too nervous. I mean she's skinny and I'm ...

Confused and wondering what is next!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (M) - I am a 31 year old guy who has been in a steady relationship for 3 years with a woman who has a young daughter. I have grown close to her and especially the daughter.. The father is not involved in her life at all and never has been so she sees me ...

What should a female be able to offer in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - What should a female be able to offer in a relationship?...

Does a player/cheater like some girls more than others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

16 November 2008 (F) - Does a cheater/player like one girl more than another? This player I know had a brief 'relationship' another girl. He recently sent her some presents, texted all the time, planned to spend time at christmas with her and fly to see her on his sprin...