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Dating: Help and advice

Need help choosing between two women

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21 November 2008 (M) - There are these two girls I met recently that I like at the moment and I'd like your opinions on what I should do. The first girl is a kind hearted girl next door kind of girl that your mom would LOVE you to date, but has been cheated on in al...

One lass, two lads and a friend.

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21 November 2008 (F) - Well, I am a 14 year old girl, and emm I was going with this lad he was really sweet and kind but then his friends started saying I was going behind his back seeing another lad, but I wasn't and he sacked me for it and I was so depressed but I got ...

He's cooled down towards me since I've been pregnant. Is he going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 19 and I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, at first everything was amazing he told me how pretty and amazing I was but a couple of weeks ago I found out I was pregnant. We was both happy with this and decied to keep it but ever ...

How can I nudge him to want to get out of his parent's house?

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21 November 2008 (F) - I started dating a friend of mine about 6 months ago, and he has mentioned moving in with me. Now that we are getting even closer he stopped mentioning it and avoids the topic of us getting a place together. A dear friend of ours is pregnant and ...

Why is he so huggy to my friends all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - I have a boyfirnd and he has a lot of friends that are girls. When I am standing talking to him and one of them comes up he stops listening and talking to me to give them a hug. But if I come up when he is talking to one of them I have to wait. He ...

He wants me to talk to my mum and dad before we have sex.

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21 November 2008 (F) - This guy I am with now, who I have been with for like 2 years has asked me if I am ready for sex. I said yes and he told me to talk to my mum and dad about it first because he don't want to be on the bad side of my parents. He is really close to ...

What to do if you're stuck in a relationship?

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21 November 2008 (F) - So I'm 17 years old and recently moved in with a guy who is 20. When I moved in with him I also ended up dropping out of school. Prior to doing that I was a really good student with a 4.0 GPA. I only knew this guy for about 2 weeks before I moved in ...

Is this just friendship or are we dating?

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21 November 2008 (F) - Ok, so I just broke up with my boyfriend about two weeks ago. I'm going out with this new guy..a male friend of mine who I've kept in touch with for months. He knows a lil about my ex. We're going out to watch a game this weekend..is this...

I went away to university and with the distance I start feeling confused about my feelings for my boyfriend since 5 years, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - Dear Reader, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now. But im 19 and just started university and things have suddenly taken a turn for the worse. I feel like I live a seperate life here and I really like the indepedence and freedom ...

Lmfao at my girlfriend who's upset because I don't want to talk to her 24/7

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21 November 2008 (M) - haha well this is pretty funny but i need help lolz ok my gf of 6 months calls me like every hour evry day 24/7 even when im in school i receive calls andi text her saying i cant answer im in class so shes like ok and next hour she calls again lm...

Do I attract women on the rebound because I am seen as the nice guy?

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21 November 2008 (M) - Do I attract women who are on the rebound because I am seen as the nice guy and they don't think they'll get hurt with me? Would this explain why I only have short-term relationships? I invest a lot in such a short time and it really hurts when ...

Are some guys REALLY afraid of commitment?

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21 November 2008 (F) - There is this guy who Im seeing. We're not official yet because he says he will feel pressured in the relationship and he just got out a 3 year serious relationship. I know for sure that I wont sleep with him until I have a commitment but I feel ...

An anyone tell me what it means when a guy has "blue balls"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid - I'm in this wonderful relationship with my boyfriend (I'm a virgin, he's not, but it's not a problem for either of us). Although we're not having sex yet we often do things like dry humping, fingering me etc. And I just heard abo...

Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

21 November 2008 (M) - Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship? My ex girlfriend of 10 years found another girl's earrings at my place. She had moved out two weeks prior after I told her I needed a temporary break. She came over to do some laundry and found th...

I think I've screwed up our sex life!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

21 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend's sex life has gotten strange lately. We used to have sex like twice a day for the past few weeks and then accidentally while we were having sexing my finger rubbed past her anus while I was grabbing her butt, and she freaked ...

I know you will give me the best suggestion.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

21 November 2008 (M) - Helloooooo dear Auntyzeeeeeeeeee Hope you are in best of your health and wealth, so that to answer my question. Naaw the story begainzzz like this. I was having an relationship with a married women for 4 years. We have seen many ups and downs to...

What is to be expected on a first date?

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21 November 2008 (F) - I need some help, I am in the early 20s and have never had a boyfriend. This guy I work with has asked me out and I want to say yes because I like him, but I am scared because I have never been on a date, and as I am older than most I would lik...

I feel that me and my daughter are in the way.

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21 November 2008 (F) - I am a 22 year old mother of a two year old, who just got a divorce with my daughter's father after a three year marriage. For the past five months I started a new relationship with a man who is ten years older than me but has been treating my ...

Do first relationships ever work first time for good?

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21 November 2008 (M) - Hi! I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 17 and nearly 18, lol, so I'm ten months older then her, though taller, and many have said considerably more mature :p lol I'm her 3rd boyfriend however she is my first. Her first one broke up with because she woul...

How do I get her to come to my place?

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21 November 2008 (M) - i took a girl i like on a date. i want her to come to my place. what must i do to achieve this feat.help me....

How can I get my 4 year younger girlfriend's parents to trust me?

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21 November 2008 (M) - ok, my question is: How can I get my girlfriends parents to trust me? I am 19 and my girlfriend is 15, the age difference is a problem to them and I understand that. I really care about this girl and I want her parents to knw that I truly care abo...

How to stay strong after a break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - I finally realize after 2 years my boyfriend won't have sex with me because of his insecurities of pregnancy so I need advice of how to deal with this breakup! He was everything that I wanted but won't make me happy since he is insecure and unhappy. ...

Why does he sign on to his messenger showing he is online to me? Is this a game to see if I will contact him first?

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21 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, please help me! I was with my guy for 2 1/2 years, and I love him dearly. But he was to go to Russia or Virginia the first of December, and I asked for a committment before I either waited years for him or traveled across America w...

I feel so unwanted by him...

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21 November 2008 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy for almost a year we broke it off like once or twice. He told me he loves me and cares about me and the way he's been acting lately doesn't seem like he wants me to be around at all. It seems like he doesn't want this to ...

His mom is so strict about us when I'm at his house.

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21 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (who is 18) and I (turning 19 in a just a couple months) have been together for two years and lately, things have sort of... slowed down for us, sex-wise. It also kind of has to do with his mom wanting to interrupt us all the damn time ...

Could he have moved on that fast?

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21 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just broke up and yeah he was my first everything basically, but I found out he cheated on me... again. Yeah he cheated on my before but I believe in second chances so yeah but like he says he still loves me and if I ever need ...

Every time I try to leave him he always makes me feel sorry for him.

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21 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we broke up about 4 times and it's always the same reason because he drinks too much, I have lost a lot of feelings for him, I really can't stand him any more!!!! Every time I leave him he comes crying b...

When I leave the house my parents want it to be when I get married!

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21 November 2008 (M) - I am 29 years old, single and I am going out with a seperated girl. She is 33 years old and has a kid but it doesen't live with her. I love her with all my heart and I want to go and live with her but my parents want me to go out from the house by ...

Paranoia setting in big time?

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21 November 2008 (F) - I'm really scared.. I made a big mistake. I'm 15. Me and my bf had unprotected sex.. I know I'm stupid for letting it happen.. but shit happens ya know? Anyways I can't remember when I last got my period or when we had sex. I know I had my period ...

What would be the best movie to watch with a guy you love and hope it sets to mood to see if he has similar feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - What would be the best movie to watch with a guy you love and hope it sets to mood to see if he has similar feelings? And, in watching a movie, which would make him more comfortable: watching a movie in a theater or at his house? He's a very shy ...

I feel disrespected by her.

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21 November 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my bf for about 8 months. We have a strong relationship i think, and stay with each other 5-6 nights a week. My hairdresser and him hooked up a few times before him and i met. She is best friends with his ex girlfriend. They...

I am not bi or lesbian but sometimes women can turn me on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - I am not a bi or lesbian. I have a bf and we love sex with each other. But I get turned on by female body sometimes. When I was young, me and my cousin sister used to feel each others bodies and it was a real turn on. We never continued it for two ...

What to get my boyfriend for our first Christmas together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating Mr. Wonderful for approximately 8 months, and I am just wondering what to get him for Christmas! We are both pretty shorthanded, cash-wise, so I am desperate for inexpensive, yet clever or romantic ideas for gifts! Help please! ...

Was I played a fool or is there still hope to fix this?

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21 November 2008 (F) - Hello all, I have some problems that are really wearing on me concerning my ex boyfriend. I'd like some input on what his feelings might be because I'm completely lost. We've been broken up for three months since he cheated on me and broke it off...

How long should I wait to have sex with him?

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21 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. I am 17 and I've already sex once before. He has not. We have talked about it. How long should I wait to have sex with him?...