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Dating: Help and advice

I have a feeling she likes me and I like her too... should I go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - So there this girl i met when i was 13 at my cousins party she was a good friend of his and we really hit it off we've kept in touch all these years and whenever i went to my cousins i would spend a few days at her place. we told each other ...

My fiance thinks he's a problem at the funeral but he's not. Am I being horrible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I dont want to ask my family or friends about this, so i want some opinions from people on here. okay, im very mad/upset and a mixture of other feelings here and i need someones advice. My grandad died 2 weeks ago and his funeral is next ...

Have I played it too cool or is he just not really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Have I played it too cool? Well I am totally in love with a guy who I met up once with and when we kissed goodbye I was wanting a big passionate kiss whereas he just hugged and gave me a peck on the lips!! Anyway, because he acted so co...

Is this lad friend one to stay away from?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - this one is bit complicated but i will try to keep it simple guys ! :) well i have a lad friend he told me he liked me when he was going out with his girlfriend. Hes really close with one of my girl friends who he talks about all the time, and it ...

My husband of 12 years packed up and left... what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Here goes..Today My husband of 12 years packed his clothes and left. He told me he didnt love me anymore and has left me with our 2 boys. I know we haven't been seeing eye to eye for some time but i honestly never expected this. after all, what ...

Why is he avoiding my questions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My question was Y when I asked my friend if I could see him soon he begin 2 talk about my son. I told him he doesn't have to b afraid 2 tell me NO! I've explained 2 him that he wouldnt hurt my feel'ns. Y do u think he avoid'n my questions? D...

I'm worried about travelling with her family - is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Alright. Well first, I have to tell you that this is about my girlfriend and me having not really problems, but my head is twisted. Okay. I am only 13 years old, she is 14. She asked me to go back to both of where we are from. This is overseas a...

My boyfriend is so selfish when it comes to us sexually.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so selfish when it comes to us sexually. We've been together a year and a half now, and recently he's been asking me to spice it up a bit with how I do uno stuff with him.. But he has never once or gone down on me or properly...

I'm very shy, how do I let him know I really like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - How does a shy girl who has never been the type to flirt respond to a guy she is talking to when he flirts with her? He makes me feel good when I'm around him, but I don't know what to say or what to do when he winks at me or tells me I am ...

How do you think he really feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Trying to understand his feeling.. we dated 20 years ago and recently started seeing each other, but three hours away. I am currently separated. i have visited his home several times, when I’m there it is like I’m the most important person. He ...

The signs guys give to girls....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Heya, This is a question about guys and the signs they give to girls. And do any of these situations fall into the 'does he like me category'? 1. We are at the bus stop. Since he reached it before me, and I didnt want to stand next to him ...

At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - At what point in a relationship do you reveal your past? I'm 20 yrs. old and this is really my first attempt at a serious relationship. I was a troubled teen. I used drugs and alcohol. I became sexually active at 14 and had literally dozens of ...

Should I commit forever to a relationship that started with me as sloppy seconds?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - The first two times I hooked up with my girlfriend she had slept with her ex boyfriend earlier in each night. These two times we hooked up were a year apart, and the 2nd time a few months before we began officially dating. Once in a while she talks ...

Is it possible for a man to not like sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I'm confused. I started things a little late, but since I've reached 30, I've been with three women one time each. The first time, even though the girl I was with was attractive, I didn't feel turned on. I couldn't finish, and the whole ...

I can't get over the fact she killed my child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - My Fiance and I Have been going through a lot. In the beginning things were perfect, she got pregnant and things were still fine but she was becoming distant. I was sitting watching a football game one night (this was the day before we were going to ...

I told her I liked her and she said she felt a bit smothered by me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for about a month now, the first three weeks she was studying really hard, we hung out four or five times and I knew she was really focused on the studying more than anything... can't blame her. Anyway, this week is ...

He wants to kiss with tongues and I haven't a clue what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I am 14 and I have just got with this new lad. I had a strict upbringing and have never kissed a boy before, my boyfriend has told me he wants to kiss me with tongues awkward! Please help, I do not have a clue what to do!...

Why bother making the dates in the first place if he doesn't want to show up? What's going on in men's heads?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy and we had one date - it was great. We had an awesome time. He made plans to meet me Saturday for lunch, hang out during the day. He called at noon and said his cat got into the garbage and was vomiting all am and he had to take him ...

She ignored my message in which I wrote that I love her, what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - There is this girl who is close to me and i love her. She doesnt know that i love her.but recently she saw one of the msgs i sent to her telling her that i loved her,she didnt say anything. What should i do. Should i tell her bcos she now knows....

Is he a shy guy? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Im really into this guy but hes so shy its hard for me to tell if he likes me.. I want some advice on how i can tell if he does without asking him.. we meet at my old job.i always thought he was rather attractive.we then started talking that was...

How can I answer them when they say horrible comments about my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Hey all! Me again, so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years. Everything's been going great and whatnot but I recently started high school, the thing is, people.... are just....assholes. Since the first time I've gotten with my ...

Can I ask my boyfriend to marry me while he's getting divorced?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Can I get engaged while going through divorce?...

Why do I keep getting these urges to worry about what other people are thinking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I just recently starting dating this girl, she's so sweet and I actually like her for more than her looks, she's really just an amazing person but she does have a kid and only 17, I'm one of those people who usually doesn't care what people think ...

I want her to try something new.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I'm a 22 year old male and have been seeing this girl on and off for quite some time. We have a relatively deep connection and are completely comfortable with each other sexually and have sex quite often without exclusively seeing each other. She ...

I'm pregnant and have just found out my partner has ANOTHER baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I of almost 7 months have gotten pregnant. This isn't the problem though. After he left his wife September of 07 he immediately began shacking up with this other chick for a little less then 2 months. Well she up and left him ...

Am losing or lost her! She said she needs space...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Been with this girl for 4 years now and suddenly things are going down the drain. To cut the long story short, she bought a house and wanted to move in, being this is my first realtionship I was scared and freaked out and told her I was not ready ...

Promise/purity rings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - Promise/purity rings. When you see an older person wearing one, how do you feel about it? I'm 21 years old, and I have worn a "promise" ring since I was quite young. It was given to me by my mother. I don't consider it a "purity" ring per say. I ...

Are girls more serious and emotional then they let on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I was upset over something, you know, just some bad luck and stuff, so I decided to talk to my girlfriend about it. She made me laugh and I told her to grow up. However she took this very seriously and got offended. Are girls more serious and ...

If I can't have his whole heart then I don't want any part of it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man for the past couple of months and we have fallen in love. We both feel like we've known each other in another life. Everything just happened so quickly. Problem is I found out the he is married and has a newborn ...

She constantly worries about everything including that I will break up with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (of 4 years) is extremely nice and always helpful and she will let me do whatever I want like if I want to go hangout with friends she will let me. She constantly worries about everything including that I will break up with her. I ...

Talking to my ex as a friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - My ex broke things off with me and a month later his ex-girlfriend said she was pregnant. He married her and now they have 2 children together and now realizes that she is not the one for him. He has apologized to me and admitted his mistakes and ...

My boyfriend wants me to shave around my vagina.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (?) - I want to too, but should I use hair removal cream or shaving cream? I have hair removal cream, but it says on the thing not to use around bikini/vagina areas.. should I anyway? What's the point of hair removal cream if you can't do it there? will ...

Male/Female Masturbation: Double Standards

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - This isn't really a question, but a comment that I'm interested in seeing people's thoughts on. This is about male/female masturbation. My girlfriend woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep. She tried to wake me up but apparent...

Do you think he's really over me and that it will work with this rebound girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - So I was engaged to this Marine for over 3 1/2 yrs. We were living in Maryland and he then wanted me and our son to move back to Florida while he stays up there for the last few months of his duty. The plan then was for him to move to Fl. Five days ...

How to be porn free

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Hello I have a porn addiction and last year for the first half of the year I was able to abstain from porn and I was able to focus more think clearer. However, I have ventured back into the porn now because I'm in the offseason and have more time. I ...

Technique for going down on her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Hey, I am sexually inexperienced and my girlfriend has given me head and I have fingered here and I want to go down on her, but any advice on how to get that going without it being awkward. I mean the first time for that will be a little awkward ...

Just found out my ex-girlfriend is dating someone else, whom I know. This is bothering me more than it should.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - Just found out my ex-girlfriend is dating someone else, whom I know. This is bothering me more than it should. How do I get over this?...

We fight all the time! How can I avoid this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 November 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship with a woman I'm madly in love with for 1 year and two months now. Throughout the relationship, we've had some ups and some downs, and a lot of those downs have led to breakups and makeups. the truth is I had a real big ...

I feel betrayed and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 November 2008 (F) - hi everyone my problem is that I'm so parrnoid I've been with my boyfriend for a while and I love him, he says he loves me but I think it's just because of the way I look and our good sex life... he complains about me as a person quite a lot... I...