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Archived questions from: 3 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Neither of us is wiling to jump in first. So what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I feel so pathetic coming to a website to blab about my life’s miseries to millions of strangers, but I made this account and I might as well go on with it. Well it all started last year in my Math class. I had this male teacher who was a ...

How do I get her to like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - im trying to get this girl to like me, shes a year below me and im 16. i have met her once but we have been texting for a few weeks now. i think she think likes me a bit as well however the downfall is im not very good with women at all. could ...

I hate to be away from her - should I leave before we get too serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for 3 months now... for the past 2 months i've been an hour away at school but i come home on weekends and we see each other then... i know im falling for her and i am INCREDIBLY happy when i am with her... we have our ...

Are they being selfish because they have guys or am I just jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - Recently I have introduced my group of girl friends to a couple of my guy mates, there is 5 of us girls and 3 guys, since then all of the guys have got together with 3 of my girl friends, but now me and my other friend are getting bored of spending ...

Is my best friend overreacting to this situation or am I in the wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - My best friend used to like this guy when she was younger, she says she loved him for about 3 years, but nothing ever happened between them, she has now been going out with a different guy for a year and a half but has recently warned me not to get ...

What I really want is for her to move on and be happy without me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - Basically, I'm in that type of situation where we start off as best friends and eventually got to where my friend and I have got to now, in danger of losing our friendship completely. My bestfriend and I have been friends for about five years...

I was straight until I met her... now I'm happy, but my family will kill me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - Hello. I am 24 and I was straight, I just broke up with my boyfriend and now I met a girl which is strange. I have some kind of attraction to her like crazy. I don't want to label my self gay, but she asked me to be her girlfriend and I finally said ...

I just want fun but he's getting serious. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I've fancied this guy who've i worked with for years... but he's 15yrs older than me. He has a very volatile relationship with his partner and has moved out of their house loads of time. This past year we've got to be really close friends. He's ...

Is she interested or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5647 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - What happens when a group of friends approach this girl that you like and ask her if she has a boyfriend and says that I need a girlfriend when I'm right next to her and she says I'm on and off with her bf, but then again since I don't know her she ...

Flirty when taken, now single and cold.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I need help as there's this girl I really like and when she was preparing to dump her boyfriend we were really flirty. Now, she has dumped him she has gone all cold on me. What should I do?...

How do I ask a girl out and ask her to have sex with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I am looking for a girlfriend but I have a problem. I am shy and really smart and I have ok looks but I am really shy. How do I ask a girl out that I like and then ask her to have sex with me?...

I can't believe he stole from my roommate. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up. The reason we broke up is because I found out he had stolen some money from my roommate. He is a person I believed would never do this but obviously he did. He says it is because he felt like he wasn't providing ...

Tried to spice things up with a saucy shave and she flipped!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I've been dating a fantastic woman for about 4 months. Our sex life has been great during this time. I adore and respect her hugely but I've been dumped for stepping out of line. The woman has indicated in a number of ways a fairly liberal mind on ...

How do I get over a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - How do you get over a break up between you and the guy you think you have begun to fall for???...

I'm sick of being single.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - How can I get a man chasing for me?...

My girlfriend has become so horny and I'm starting to wonder why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I have a normal good sex life with my partner, we've been together 3 years but recently she seems to be a lot hornier a hell of a lot. We normally have sex about 5 times a week she normally cums before me, then I do afterwards or she offers to sorts ...

I'm in love with my stepbrother and can't let him go.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - Well. I'm done for. I am madly in love with my 16 year old stepbrother and he is the same with me. I met him only a year ago, and we love each other, but he's got a Girlfriend and he says he will leave her 4 me if I want, but I say no. I love him ...

I like him but he's married. Am I reading his signals wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - Hi all I'm 28yrs old, a full time mum to me gal aged 5yrs old. I kinda like a guy who works in the shop downstairs but he's married with a lil gal. Before I knew he was married, I sent him a note asking if he wanted to meet up for a drink. The...

Am I making a huge mistake by moving in with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I am 24 and recently got back together with my boyfriend of 4 years (we had a years break, as i felt the relationship was not progressing). Anyway, since getting back together, he has been making every effort to make things work out, and make me ...

We didn't have sex, I didn't ejaculate - could she be pregnant?

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3 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i layed in bed together with just my boxers and her panties on to take a nap. We did not dry hump very much if at all. Last month her period was late which caused a similar incident like the one im in right now. But i did not ...

Can his feelings change just like that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I am married and have been having marital problems for some time. My bf is a guy and we have been best friends for longer than I have known my husband. Recently, we shared with one another that we had feelings for each other. He told me that he had ...

Can I still consider myself a virgin or is it wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - i know this might sound like another stupid question...but is it really wrong to call myself a virgin even if he did penetrate me... i know the whole definition of being a virgin and all but i tried to prevent it...he was just to fast for me to stop ...

Hurt by the way I was treated before we started dating... can I talk to her about it after 13 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - In the few months leading up to the first date with my now current girlfriend, she was jerking me around quite a bit. she was getting over a relationship, and would get close to me then push me away and back and forth like this for quite some time ...

Am I being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my gf for five years,over the last year sex has become less and less frequent. She insists it's because she is tired a lot of the time. I've had the feeling there was more to it than this but couldn't be sure. Last Friday she went ...

Due to his family interference, I'm left with nothing. Now what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I am 23, my boyfriend is 20, we have been together just over 2 years, and have been so happy. We have done so much together, including go away on holidays etc. A few months back (Aug 08) his family turned against me and from then I was not allowed ...

Is she masterbating instead of wanting sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - Hi i hav a girlfriend and we had sex once,but now she does not want to sex with me any more so does this means she is masturbating? because she use to phone me at night and sounding like she fingering her self saying naugthy things ,so this really ...

We hung out, made out, now he won't talk to me , what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - tuesday i went out with this guy that i have been texting but never met till that day. well i went to his brother and girlfriends place, because he was crashing over there till he got his own place. when i went over there they had another friend and ...

I love him but he gets on my nerves sometimes!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - dear cupid i`m 24 years old and i`ve got someone who i really love but sometimes he gets on my nerves,like saturday we went to a friend`s party everything was fine until his brother showed up with his girlfriend my boyfriend`s attitude changed...

Its just hard as I really like him and its hard not having closure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - i wrote a few weeks ago about a man I had met at the end of july and had started to date. Well during this time his mum was very ill and she died in september. During this time we had carried on seeing him, but about a month ago he went very qui...

I am confused and don't know whether I am just a worry wort or a comitment phobic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5546 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I am in need of some advise. I am confused and dont know whether i am just a worry wort or a comitment phobic? My boyf and I were together 4 years before i broke it off for one year. I didn't feel our relationship was going anywhere,...

In love and confused...

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3 November 2008 (F) - hi...m really upset nowadays me and my boyfriend had a very good relationship with eachother since past 5 years we also had a physical relation only once he made loads of promises with me that he will never leave and after completing are studies v ...

How can I make her more relaxed about opening up to me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (?) - Well i have been dating my girlfriend for about a month now and really our relationship is honestly going no where because i really cant get her to open up and tell me things that are bothering her any suggestions as to how i can make her more ...

Did I do the right thing by leaving the place and not going further with the new girl? Or did I dupe myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I finally broke up with my needy, neurotic girlfriend of six months, and went out to a Halloween party that same night. Next thing you know, I'm talking to this new girl, one who really seems into me (probably because of my costume), asks for my ...

The fact that this guy likes me is screwing up my work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - ok, well i know this senior and we have never talked or anything but he likes me , ALOT. and i now this becuase he looks at me alot, he waites for me to look at him, he would get red in front of me. basicly girl intuiton. so know his friends are ...

Am I making a big mistake moving in with him for a year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

He never texts me or calls me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - This guy started talking to me and he eventually asked me out. I said yes because i liked him to but, i have plans for the weekend but Im free the next. He was like ok. But ever since that he dosent text me or call me. He talks to me when he sees ...

My gf never answers my calls, but she is active online!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - Hello everyone. My gf always missed my call. She off work at 5 and I usually call her around 9. Sometimes, I call her in the morning or during her lunch time just to say hi. When she finally pick up, she said she is busy and stressed from wo...

Should I try at a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - Okay, I'm in need of a few opinions here, to let help me make a decision. Not too long ago I got back in touch with a guy I used to be involved with, just seeing each other but for some reason I cannot even recall now, I ended it and terminated o...

I love my best friend and he loves me, but he has a gf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - Hi well i was at a friends house and i went through her phone and started to text her guy friends. so i texted this guy who is now my bestfriend we always hang out and stuff and im in love with him now and hes in love with me but he has a ...

Should I tell my colleague how I feel? She has a boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a university student, and recently came back to school from a 4 month work placement in another city. In the work placement I met a girl who I thought was special but avoided going further that just friends for a few reasons, mos...

He doesn't want a serious relationship but refuses to take his apartment key back from me. Very confused and hurt...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I started to date an old classmate. I will call him Mark (fake name), that I use to date in high school. We met up and started dating for almost 3mths. We both wanted a friends only deal in the beginning since we were both out of hurtful ...

Can anyone help me find the right words to reassure him that I love him?

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3 November 2008 (F) - Hello everyone I have a little problem I am in love with my boyfriend. I kinda used to be a player I guess but he's the one that makes me wanna quit the game I guess I should say. He lives in a different country then I do and I think he's worr...

I'm worried that to her relationships are rather casual because she has been constantly dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I have just entered in my first real relationship and am in my mid twenties but found out that my girl has been constantly in relationships with guys since she was 16 the last ending literally just before i met her. I'm crazy about this girl but am ...

After 3 months we are finally together but have not even kissed! I worry she's not into "us" as I am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - It took 3 months for me and my new girlfriend to finally get together after gingerly tiptoeing around, wondering wether or not we like each other. Finally i plucked up the courage and asked- we are now i believe official. However, we still have not ...

I called the guy I love and I don't know if I should believe in what he says?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 November 2008 (F) - I have deep feelings for a guy I met a year ago. We met in person but is one of those cases where you wish it could been more if it wasn't b/c he had to leave shortly since he is an active duty airman. So, we communicate via email. What started a...

Should I wait for her to make up her mind..is she stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

3 November 2008 (M) - I've just broke up with a girl I've been seeing for around 6 months. We previously broke up 3 months into our relationship, largely caused by too much drink and a lot of baggage on both our parts. We got back together after that but the trust ne...