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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's my teacher and I've fallen pregnant to him!!!!! HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Ok.. here's the thing.. I've been seeing this guy for all of nine and half months now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He...

My girl wants sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about 4 years and shes suddenly we've been talking about taking our relationship "the next step" and im not sure if i hsould because were both 16 would it be illeagle? and if so im afraid im gonna hurt her... were ...

How do I get my mum to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, From the dawn of time my mom has told me to save sex for marriage, condom's don't always work, and guys will say anything to get sex. so now that i finally have a boyfriend my mom constantly asks me if he's been touching or grabbing...

He doesn't need to use a condom, how can we find a compromise?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi aunts, I need some ideas from you. My partner of 6 months and I enjoy what we think is a healthy sex life. I am on the pill and take it between 6.30 and 7am every morning (rain, hail or shine). The problem is, my partner insists on putti...

I can't stop thinking of this older man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi there I am 19 years old and I am in love with a man that is 40 years older than me, he is married and has children. I don't know what to do, I have a boyfriend that I also love, I want to be with them both, but I know I can't. I can't stop ...

Just found out my boyfriend of 5 years is calling chat lines.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I just found out that my boyfried of 5 years is calling chat lines and he has given his number out to this women. He didn't know that I had his password to his cell phone. I told him about the massage I heard and he told me he just does it when he ...

I am falling in love with you, so I think we need to stop seeing each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Concern for many years. I have had a few casual boyfriends and a couple relationships in my day, so I am not new to this. There has been a nagging question that I want to have a male perspective on. All my male friends give me answers lik...

She gets mad at me all the time, what is going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - hey everybody i really dont know whats going on between me and my girlfriend, she goes to college and visits me every week. shes 18 im only 16. were going to be 6 months tomorrow. she visited me yesterday so we can be together for our anniversary, ...

How can I get this man 'out of my life'? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - I am 52, my live-in bf is 50. My bf is the problem..I can't put my finger on it. He seems very insecure, clingy and always needing desperately, some validation but it's constant and I am exhausted. I have tried reasoning with him, tried to ask ...

I'm dating a girl 4 yrs younger than me and everything is fine now, but when I turn 18, will our relationship then turn illegal??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Well I'm dating a 12 year old and I'm currently 16 years old. And I'm always hearing about when I turn 18 it'll be illegal, but I can't find the law that say's this. I just want to make sure I won't get arrested when I turn 18 and what is the law ...

How long does hearbreak last for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Still heartbroken after 6 weeks!! How long does hearbreak last for? I have really strong feelings for a man that I didn't really know too long but we did ring and meet up! He's not the best guy in the world and doesn't worry about keeping ...

Is there anything I can do to encourage his feelings for me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Please can you help me with my current situation? A few months ago I had a brief relationship with a guy I had known for many years. We were both fresh out of long term relationships and things between us seemed to move very fast. He recognised th...

Feelings toward the ex what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I went out with this guy for 7 months from january 17 of this year through august 12 of this year. I hated him for the excuse of "god told me to" that was his reason to break up with me. Now i went out with his friend and everything was fine until i ...

Hurting and want it to stop.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Well, well where to start... I started dating this guy almost 2 years ago, it was amazing he swept me off my feet made me feel like no other guy has ever we spent all of our time together, then all of a sudden he changed and was very protective ...

I'm having problems with my fiance and his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hello I met my fiance and have been with him for 2 year now. We get on usually very well. I have a son who has special needs and is 13, but I have always treatined him as noramlly as possible especialy with dicipline. My fiance has no problems ...

Wow! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend tells me he feels no pleasure during sex and the only reason he does it is to get an orgasm out of it. Is something wrong? +we're quite young....

Losing my virginity...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 21, we've been going out for over 4 months and we are both still virgins. Tomorrow we've decided to go all the way but I'm scared it will hurt and that I won't know what to do can anyone help me please. I love him and it ...

How could I make her love me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - How could you make someone you love fall in love with you?Ive been dating this girl but had to be separated from her due to business.I've stayed in touch with her through phone.And i knew that i love her in the two months we stayed apart.Now i'll be ...

Fiance distant while I am in Iraq

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Ok here's my deal. I am in Iraq and I have been with my Fiance for almost 2 years I try my hardest to call IM and email I even text and send her flowers once a month to let her know she is still on my mind and in my heart. the problem is she ...

I think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. Should I talk to him about it or simply just move away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - hi, have been seeing this guy for 2 months but never been to his place. yesterday he took me to a lodge. i think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. should i talk to him about it or simply just move away. he doesnt answer my...

I feel he takes advantage. What can I do as I'm so fed up right now ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hello, my problem isnt huge, but i feel like from your profile you can help me with my situation. I am so fed up at the moment and sometimes tearful. Im 29 and live with my boyfriend, and he does absolutley nothing to help me around the house apart ...

What can I do to speed things up to the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I need a bit of help! I'm 27 And my boyfriend is 24. We've been together for more then 2 years now. I'm getting a bit depressed, cause he doesn't want to take the relationship to the next level! He says he's too young for that and I should have ...

Weirdest break up ever!

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11 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my bf for 2.5 years and we just broke up. We broke up because we're in transitioning phases of our lives- leaving uni, he's going to medicine and going away for two months and i'm trying to get a job interstate and we've both been ...

Why was he so pissed off at me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I am in a relationship that started almost a year ago. I am 23, in college and recently lost my job suddenly which has been causing me a lot of stress. Before I lost my job, my boyfriend (he's 24) and I used to argue sometimes,...

He sent his gal pal a picture of his penis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together right at a year and been living together for 6 months. He's 26 I'm 22.. I've dated way more guys than he has girls. He's been in 3 serious relationships his whole life me being one of them and the one ...

Is he really shy or just not into me that much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a month now... we're on date 7 lol! My problem is I'm not sure if he is just really shy or not into me that much. Now I am quite a shy person when it comes to guys and don't like to make the first move when we are ...

My love for him burns bright.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - I've been in love with the same guy for about a year a half. At one point in time he liked me, and a lot, but he also liked another girl. He chose her over me, and I still don't know why to this day. But they broke up after six months, and I ...

What to do about sex when you're in a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now, and starting this June we have been in a long-distance relationship. I get very horny sometimes and just want to have sex. And when I get horny, I think all kinds of thoughts. I'm sure it is p...

Do I really love my boyfriend? Or is my pride more important to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i get into little arguments once in awhile. we've been together for 7 months. it usually starts because of something he does or say that just irritates me. and the way i deal with it is just not talking to him. i know that's unfair ...

How can I keep my relationship exciting?

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11 November 2008 (M) - im always myself but what are some good ways to keep my relationship with this girl alive. we like each other we have fun. but i want to keep it more exciting bc she is a very attractive outgoing girl.. i want to be consistant and not mess it up.. ...

Unwritten rule of dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - One unwritten rule of dating is not to bring up sensitive subjects. Current US policies, or other social questions, or deep philosophica/religious subjects are supposed to be taboo. This unwritten rule seems especially strong for men. It's somewh...

My girlfreind is so depressed because of me .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfreind have been going out for one 13 months now and i really love her alot infact i could pretty much say i cant live without her. Im 14 yeah young but madly in love. When i was high i mistakenly tried to make out with another girl. ...

He wasn't that hard! Am I unappealing to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - ok so i theres this boy who i been talking to the past 2 or 2 1/2 years but we only see each other over the summer when he comes by where i live and we hangout alot then but during the year when hes not here we talk on the phone almost every night ...

Depressed since he dumped me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I had my first real boyfriend for a long time and then i cheated on him with his friend and i dont know why really. But then he broke up with me and he is going out with this slut and i just want to him to be with me again and ever since we broke up...

Something came out of my vagina..after we had sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I had sex with a guy without a condom while I was intoxicated. I went to the bathroom after and went pee, and after I pee'd something came out of my vagina. He claims he didn't cum, and he promised if he did that he would pull out. I'm kind of ...

He lied about watching porn for 3 years. Should I dump him??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend have been together for nearly three years. The topic of porn is something that has come up in our conversations before and he knows it is something I really do not approve of. I found out back in June that he has been watching porn ...

She's not texting or calling me! Is she hiding something from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - hello, i have a question concerning if my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been dating a month now and at first when we were going out we were together i wouldnt say all the time but most the time. i would come stay by here house 4-5 nights...

I like him but we barely talk..any conversation tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi guys! I'm in desperate need of advice. Well, I kind of like this boy that goes to my school. But the problem is that we barely talk. I don't even think he notices me! :[ I'm pretty shy and I have no idea on how to get his attention. I only ha...

I found out my boyfriend send a video of him jerking off to his ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - So last week my boyfriend and I were sitting on the couch and he had his laptop. He signed into his email and plainly let me see his password. To tonight I decide to be nosey and just look in his email. I'm really paranoid about the things his ex ...

I don't seem to please her sexually!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys I need a little help with something you see I met this wonderful girl... she used to be all depressed but now she says that I make her happy. But now all of a sudden we have had sex and I gave her a lot of pleasure but now... She says that ...

Will this girl I'm dating make my depression worse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

11 November 2008 (M) - I've started a relationship with a girl that has major depression problems. She started different but every time I see her now she just cries and says how she wants to kill herself. She takes medication and sees a psychiatrist. I don't want to end ...

I'm stuck on deciding if I should break up with my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

11 November 2008 (?) - My so-called boyfriend and I have been going out since Oct.14,08.He does some things that I don't like. For 1,he won't show me any affection.He won't even hug me or put his arm around me or anything.I know it's only been a month,but he could be...