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writes:Hi everyone! I have a dilemma. I have a date this week with someone who seems really keen on me, but I am getting cold feet and don't know if it is fair of me to go and meet this guy cos I'm not over my ex. My ex and I split up over a year ago amidst a lot of nastiness and heartbreak (he finished it) and he now refuses to have anything to do with me. However I would do almost anything for us to rekindle our relationship, but don't know how to do this. Part of me is thinking that by going out with this new guy, it will help me to move on with my life, because I know I shouldn't be waiting around for my ex indefinitely. On the other hand though, I don't want to hurt anyone by giving them hope of a relationship when my heart and mind is elsewhere. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWent on my date-he was nice but not for me. Let him down gently and have decided I'm just not ready to date yet. Am going to give myself time and enjoy being single for as long as it takes. Thanks everyone for replying x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWent on my date-he was nice but not for me. Let him down gently and have decided I'm just not ready to date yet. Am going to give myself time and enjoy being single for as long as it takes. Thanks everyone for replying x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): It's over with your ex and you can't just hang around feeling sorry for ever so just enjoy yourself. Keep it low key and if it starts to look serious see how you feel then,
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): wow, you still carry a torch for a man who wants nothing to do with you? and for a whole year? please move on with your life. your love runs deep, and that's a good thing, but there's a man out there who will Love and Want you for the woman you are, if you give 'him' the chance. the longer you hold on to feelings for your ex, the longer it takes to meet your true love
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