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Archived questions from: 2 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My bf went back to his ex wife without saying a word to me! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 months, has in the last month has gone back to his ex wife without even telling me,i dont know what to do or think, we did not live together but i thought that he could have wrote a letter or something to tell me but i have not ...

Should I deposit money in her account without telling her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend works as a nanny for a large family, which for some reason in the last 3 months have somehow not paid her on time, sometimes her wages are paid 1 week late, meaning that she sometimes is low or runs out of money, i have offered her ...

Two guys -one is a pothead, the other is taken! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - UGG.. i know i already put one up but i really need help.!!. okay so i am 14 years old in high school, a freshman to be exact. and i like TWO GUYS!! the only problem is there obstacles in the way. GUY #1-- He is 17 and is a sophmore at the ...

He was cheating, so I kicked him out! Now his parole officer is looking for him...am I to blame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - its the same old story of cheating and hurt feelings. my bf is on parole, he cant live with his family due to their abuse of drugs and alcohol, so he has been living with me. i have a history of childhood sexual abuse, so im not fond of love and ...

Should I apologize for stealing their bf's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - okay, the end of my sophmore year in high school i hooked up with a long time friend. the only problem was, he had a girlfriend. we started hooking up more regularly and eventually his girlfriend found out. she got really mad, yelled at me, and ...

Torn between two really nice, decent guys! Whom do I pick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - im torn between two really nice, decent guys and im unsure which to choose: i think i need to make a decision or at least do something about the situation pretty soon otherwise its unfair for everyone involved. guy 1 I haven’t known him long. ...

Married man broke it off with me! I'm heartbroken-should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I know this is a long post, but I am desperately searching for some advice. I started dating a guy back in March. I had known him for about 5 years, and also knew that he was married. He had flirted with me before, but I always kept my distance...

Was I in the wrong here or was he? Advice appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things..i wish my ex would come back but i have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years i was with him. i wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a ...

She keeps telling me "Nothing is wrong" So should I let it go, or keep pushing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - Ok well me and this girl I have been going out for three years are going good, but I am having trouble knowing when something is wrong. Are there any signs to show that something is wrong because she keeps telling me "nothing is wrong" or "its noth...

No period yet! Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - i had intercourse on the 23rd of september but the condom broke but he DIDN'T ejaculate so i took the morning after pill, the next day. Before that i was waiting for my period to start, once i took the pill (on the 24th) 5days later (29th sept) i ...

Should I ask her face to face, if she likes me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - I know this girl through a friend. I met her about 8 months ago in a party. We partied hard that night. I really like her. She knows that i like her. I have told her through texts. I dont see her very often and we text each other quite frequently. I ...

How do I get over an abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Here's my story, I'm going to make it short. I really need help because I'm loosing it. I was in an emotional abusive relationship for about four months..when i got out of that relationship i felt so alive i thought i was over it after a couple o...

What do I do if my ex blackmails me so I can't date anyone?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - Hello, I am in stuff I don't want to be in. My ex girlfriend keeps pulling that 'if you loved me you would kissed me or hug me or agree with me.' I did love this girl but she is using it against me, and I have some friends who know about us, and ...

Could there be something in the works with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - How do I know if this guy is interested in me or not? He's in one of my lab classes, and we talk and kind of flirt a little bit during lab, but we never hang out or talk outside of class. We barely know each other, but he invited me to this part...

Why does it hurt me so much that he's not a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Hi i'm 18 and am in a wonderful relationship. Don't get me wrong I love him, I really do, but he's not a vigin and I am. I know it shouldn't bother me so much but it does and I don't know why. He knows I want to wait to have sex untill I get married ...

I just wish I could have untouched lips again!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I've never kissed my boyfriend, but i kissed another guy, my first kiss, and i hate to think i did. I feel awful and it makes me want to be sick! I just wish i could have untouched lips again. What can I do to forget?...

Can I still consider myself a virgin, even if it didn't mean anything to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - i was a virgin recently and my so called boy friend came over..we were casual flirting and then he started to get a little too flirty. he layed me on my bed and i told him i didn't want to have sex and i tried to move my hand to block his penis. i ...

After his unrequited love I fall in love with him... now he doesn't love me any more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I had a guy madly in love with me, at first it was unrequited love and then I began to fall for him had agreed to go out with him even though i didnt feel as strongly for him as he did. But deep down I knew i loved him so much! When he'd come round ...

My life is finished and I don't know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - This is my first question cuz I just signed up... sorry if this is long. My gf and I met when I was 17 an she was 16 we started dating and we both were always excited to see each other an plan days ahead. We didn't go to the same schools and we ...

Is our relationship a lost cause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I've been in my current relationship for a year and a half. I love my boyfriend, but I'm not sure if I should continue to invest in this relationship. Since a few months after we began dating, he has become extremely possessive and has absolutely no ...

Unrequited love - what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Well, how to start... I've fallen in love with this one guy (we'll refer to him as Joe). Now, Joe (to me) is perfect. He's an amazing musician, he's funny, and he's extremely intelligent. I'm one of those people who is quiet, shy, overweight and ...

I really like him - should I wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - hii, theres a boy in my year who i havnt known for very long but we seem to have a connection, when ever we see each other we both smile and it feels so right, my friends always say he blushes when i hug him, but i dont no where to go from here, i ...

Any advice will be appreciated!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - i have just joined a new group of friends which are boys and girls. I go to a girls school so this is pretty cool for me. unfortunately when i came into the group most of them were already coupled up but there was this one guy who wasn't. I had an ...

How do I get over my nervousness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Please help me out, i feel so down! Everything goes wrong for me and my family, and i emphasise the word 'Everything'. We never get any luck, things go wrong all the time!!! It's becoming unbearable. And i'm going through yet another situat...

Copying GF

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - Hey all kind of a trivial matter, love my GF lots shes awesome lets me do what i want doesnt winge (much :P) really sexy and i wouldnt trade her for the world, now heres the problem: weve known each other for about 3 years ive liked her for al...

Does he still love me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my treasured and beloved boyfriend for over 2 years now. I've had my share of bad relationships. But none of them turned long term like this one. I am a picky person. Down to the some of the hobbies or interests he should have. ...

Did I make a move forward by calling him on the phone or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I met a guy 2 years ago in a tech event. We became friends that day and since he had to move away after wards, we started keeping in touch by emails once a month. I emailed him and he always replied back. The once a month thing became in a twice a ...

I’ve run out of ideas of what to do - please give me advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I've liked the same guy for two years At the beginning of last year we were sort of a couple Our parents are friends which made it so much easier to see each other we all went away on holiday..there we got even closer not knowing what was still t...

What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - wouldn't say I'm a bad looking guy. I'm funny and reasonably confident when I want to be. I've got ambition and passion. I am friends with a lot of girls. Usually what tends to happen is I'll meet them on a night out and then progress to text...

Ex-boyfriend a bit too friendly? Am I being used or pulled into a FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Ok, so me and my ex-bf have been split for about three months now. He broke up with me for some internet friend and said they were so in love that she was going to move down here next year... then she broke up with him a month after they got ...

Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - Is sex with your loved one a major part of the relationship?...

I'm miserable and in love with someone else.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, ok I have a sitution thats a little different then a lot I've read so far. I am a female and I'm with a female, I've been with her off and on for 3 years and she is a wonderful person but she doesn't trust me and she has some serious ...

Is the perfect girl I met from the internet cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I am currentley dating a girl that I met from a dating website. She onley lives 10 minutes away too. It's been 3 weeks now and everything is going ok but she always seems to be busy. She will arrange to meet me and then right at the last min...

My girlfriend has gone off sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for 6 months. We live together and have a dog but for the last 2 months she has gone off sex. I keep asking her what's wrong and she says she doesn't know but it's not me so don't worry but I do!...

How can I convince my fiance I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 25 years old and have been in a relationship for 5 years. We've know each other for seven years and now we are engaged. The problem he is very possessive and now becomes a lot more then before. I used to share things about my male friends ...

Is this normal after having anal sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Last night I had anal sex for the first time but it's like the guy didn't know what was happening, I don't think he realised it was my anus or not. But he kept alternating between the two. I've heard this can cause disease, does anyone know how ...

I'm really shy and insecure and afraid she will never like me, what to do here??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - Okay, so... I like a girl who I talk since a couple of months. I never confessed because I'm really shy and insecure... I also suffer from BDD (at least I have some of the symptoms). So, I guess I'm a shy and ugly teenage boy. That's why I don't ...

My question is what is the easiest way to have sex the first time with least pain? and what do you think about our decision

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend dated for over 2 years. Its been months since we broke up but we havent gone out with anyone since, we've had little "flings" but there over and meant nothing. We hang out all the time now and remain best of friends. We still ...

My boyfriend took me to a swinger's club !!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I went to a swingers club and he wanted to join a couples room of course not knowing what it was I said yes the woman opened the door and there was like six couple having sex or just oral sex. I told him I couldnt do this and he ...

Why cant I be the one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - i dont know what to do, i'm tired of just being the friend. i've been in love with this girl i've known for the past 2 years now and she became my bestfriend. i've never felt so comfortable around a girl like i am whenever i'm with her. i've helped ...

He broke my heart! :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 5 and 1/2 years. Everyone always said that we were great together... we were so in-love. Two weeks ago we broke up. He said that he no longer could be with me. He gave me no explaination. Needless to say, we ...

Be Yourself, No Matter Who That Is.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I've heard alot about how girls/guys are afraid to be themselves around their lovers, because they feel that they'll lose interest. I think you should be who youare, no matter how you dress, act, talk, or think. Love is love, no one should be judged ...

Does she actually like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Okay so, a bout 2 weeks ago there was a girl who randomly came up to me and asked me if I was actually a lesbian or if it was just a rumor. I told her I was and she said something like "thats cool and don't worry about the people making fun of you ...

She used to like partying, but since I go along, that has changed !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - hey everybody well im here because i wanna know whats wrong with our relationship well my gf used to be a party animal and me i never went to parties..and now that i wanna go we have went to some but she doesnt enjoy it..i mean is it cause i dont ...

He shows an interest in me, then has sex with my friend ! how do I handle this ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm 20, so over the summer I lived in another state, met this guy. He told me he liked me, but we knew I had to leave for school in a few weeks, so we couldn't start anything official. Everyone told me that I was all he talked about. I let him ...

How do you kiss or makeout with a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - How do you kiss or makeout with a guy? I am 13 and too chicken to kiss or makeout with a guy. Someone please help!...

How do I know for sure that he likes me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I have this friend that is a boy and we,ve been friends for 3 years now i really really fancey him and we have kissed and all that a good couple off times but am not shure if he fanceys me back and i really want to no if he does cause i really like ...

I found out she was raped... what should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - Hi. I been with this girl for 2 months. last month i found out that she's been raped 7 months ago. No one knows about this except me, she didn't tell her family. We cant have sex coz she don't let me. I don't wanna dump her but the relation...

I don't feel attractive enough to get a nice guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - hi everyone:) i have a small problem,id like to change it if i can.im single and really hoping to find someone soon for the long haul.my problem is,most guys im attracted to are ( in my opinion) wayyyy out of my league.im not ugly by any means,but ...

I really, really like a girl but she don't want to be any more than friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 November 2008 (M) - i have really liked this girl for a couple of months, and she even went out with one of my best mates and they seemed to make us spend even more time together, as we were friends before that. yh i really like her and she split up with my best mate ...

I'm going crazy, why wont he talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 November 2008 (F) - I dont understand why I can be pushed aside like this! I havent been able to sleep lately because I am unsure why talking to someone is so hard to do. I understand people are busy, including myself, but this guy talks/flirts with me and appears t...