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Archived questions from: 24 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What does he mean by "it wouldn't bother him if I cheated?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - help me untangle this weird love thing I am in please... recently I got together with a guy and its been great... we were talking the other day about a whole trust issue thing and he mentioned to me that if I cheat he wouldn't bother chasing me or ...

How do I react to this... I can't trust him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys I need some help plllleasee... Well recently I have just got together with a guy after a long open relationship (4 months, it's been great even though we've only been together for a short space of time... when we first got together i f...

I can't study properly for thinking about her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - I have a relationship with a girl for about three months(not sexual). both of us are in love but the problem is that we became friends through chatting and a few days ago i saw her picture, she looks too young and although she says that she is 18 ...

Boys!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have lately ended with my boyfriend of a year. I'm quite a young age and have been quite serious, during our relationship we ended on various occasions for a couple of weeks, in these weeks I was meeting up with a guy and one time I met him and we ...

I love him, but he is married... should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Ok.. well.. I have known this guy for almost 3 years now. When I first met him he became like a dad to me. but for the last year I have been having stronger feelings for him. He is married, and I am 20 and he is 43. We talk and text often and even ...

Should I confess my feelings to my ex when I have a BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - should i tell my ex i still love him even though i have a boyfriend?...

He asked me to dump my BF and get with him and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hey x , I have a problem, well it started like this... my bf was off school for a week due to a bad cold however during this week one of his friends started txten me again sayin he likes me blah blah blah... but as i got talking to him over the week ...

How can I signal him to start talking about our relationship without getting shy and stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have been very good friends with my boyfriend for 2 years now but we have only been dating for a little of that. It seems like longer, to both of us. We do the "normal" couple things, like movies and dinner. All of my family loves him. My mom ...

I'm always thinking about what she would be like in bed, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - Hi This is a serious question, I am a university student and there is a girl that goes there who is actually on my course, who i like alot she smiles waves and will stop and say hi, but for some reason i just think about having sex with her and...

I feel like he really doesn't love me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - i feel so bad and stupid. i love my boyfriend and he loves me. i came across an email of his and found out a lil bout his past. now i can't stop reading his emails and i feel horrible. he never really told me he was in love before, but i found ou...

We both live on campus and both like history. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I need helping dealing with his new guy in my life. Bit of a backstory; my last couple of relationships have been awful. Really awful. I've had really bad experiences with men, but the last couple were the nails in the coffin I guess. One forgot ...

His best friend is a girl! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Is it normal for a guy to have a best friend who is a girl? My boyfriend's best friend is this girl he has been friends with for 5 years, and any time he tries to tell me about how he can be he always says "just ask (friend's name) she'll tell you ...

How can I get a guy who's my type?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I'm mixed race but I'm quite light to say I am. I don't mind being mixed race but people always think I'm some urban/chav/fesity rude girl and I'm nothing like that I'm really nice, christian, I love rock music, I'm bit of a punk too :P Most of...

What am I going to do for the best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - What am I going to do? I would be so grateful for some advice..? I have been with my current boyfriend for a year now and I'm happier than ever.. only about 3 weeks ago an ex who moved away a year ago came back to the city, we bumped into each other ...

How should I ask him if he still likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I met a guy this summer and when he asked me if I liked him, I told him I liked him as a friend. The problem is that I find myself really missing him and wishing that I had told him that I really liked him. How should I ask him if he still likes ...

We aren't allowed to see each other, and my heart is broken.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - myself and my girlfriend split 2 weeks ago under strange a very strange situation. neither of us decided to call it a day but because of problems with the neighbours and a fight we had i was not allowed to contact her or go near the address. for the ...

How do I figure out if he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Well there is this guy and I really like him, but my friend had asked him if he liked me and he said he does not like me the way I like. But he is always poking me and smiling every time we talk. How do I figure out if he really likes me?...

Me, my boyfriend, and my ex-best friend / his ex-girlfriend have history, and he's still friends with her. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Okay, there is a long story behind this question, so please bare with me while I try to summarize it: Basically, my current boyfriend is friends with his ex-girlfriend/my ex-best friend. Me and my boyfriend (I'll call him Eugene), have do...

I met the love of my life, but he isn't ready to commit yet! How long do you think I will have to wait for him??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I desperately need guidance. My married of 17 years broke up a few years ago and one year later I met this wonderful man whom I believed was the love of my life....he was also part of my past growing up. We clicked instantly, fell in love, healed ...

Age differences and kids, can this relationship still work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - i started dating this guy recently. hes amazing so far. i just want to know im nor crazy? we go to the same college, he for audio and me interior design. he is 19 and has 15 month old daughter. im 21 and have no hildren have tried it just hasnt ...

What do you GUYS find sexy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hey! when i first had sex with tony* i pulled his tie to bring him closer to me and kissed him. was that that sexy? i thought i could make it sexy. FROM A GUYS PONIT OF VIEW! what do you think? and what are some tips on gow to turn him on and be ...

Can someone please help me to untangle my love life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Ahhhh I suck at relationships! It's pissing me off! I'm 19 and I love my ex boyfriend more than anything, and he's in love with me. But he moved away a while back, so we're not together. I don't fancy a long-distance relationship. So that's Guy #1. ...

I keep having vampiric sexual fantasies.. whats going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My problem is I've discovered some strange things about myself.I think I'm bisexual and I'm completely in love with my best friend (I'm female and I'm 16), I think about her all day and all night, recently I explained to her my feelings. She told me ...

My fiance of 6 years lies about porn problem, then blames it on me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. My fiance and I have been together for 6 years. We have a beautiful 13-month-old daughter together. Just yesterday he admitted to me that he was using my computer to look up internet porn. This is after months and months of lying to ...

Does he think I'm a slut now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hey Guys Any advice would help! I have been single now for a couple of months and have been out most wkends with friends but havent bothered really with men, Two weeks ago I bumped into a guy who I know likes me, he first asked me out about 2 ...

I feel really unappreciated and feel he wants to control me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my bf for like 8 months now and it was a long distance relationship at first for a month and a half, he was in isolation and I was always there for him, emotionally since we were far apart and he told me he'll never forget the ...

I love him so much but he just wants to be friends after 9 months together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have found someone that I love so much I would die for him. I have 3 kids they are not his. We had problems with a friend of mine who tried to split us up. We have been seeing each other for 9 months. The problems started about May and he is now ...

Do I tell him what I did in the past... or keep it to myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hi all, I am currently in my early 20s and just graduated, so I am looking for a job now. My boyfriend dropped the bomb yesterday. We have been dating for about 8 years odd and he popped the question. This relationship started when I was in my...

When, where and HOW to propose???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for the past year and a half now, we've had time to grow up, fight, cry, laugh and all the other good stuff together and I'm ready to tie the knot but the problem is, I don't know how to do it, do I do it on a holiday with ...

Lost erection... is this ED?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - Hi I have been dating for some months now, mainly seeing each other weekends. Things are going well, but today when it came to sex I completely lost my erection. Neither of us have discussed it, but we both know it happened. Was quite embarrass...

He wanted my number but never calls - I don't see why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - He told me he didnt want to be friends because I lumped him in with people in my past that hurt me but then talked to me for two and a half hours after he said that. I changed my number so a week ago I text him asking if he would like my new num...

So ladies, hairy chest or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - So ladies, hairy chest or not? Im like Steve Carrell hairy, is that too much? I would prefer answers from high school and college girls, as that is my age. Thanks....

I need to locate an ex, any suggestions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, Please help... 2 years ago I was basically date raped and ended up pregnant. I was 15 at the time and he was 25( I didn't know that until I told him I was pregnant and it slipped). I'm in a relationship now and I really am happy bu...

He wants an open relationship and threesomes! Should I give up on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two years now. He's 18, I'm 19. About a month ago, he met another girl (17) whom he really enjoys hanging out with. At first, it didn't bother me, but then he started hanging out with her a lot more than me and ...

Is there a future here for us?

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24 November 2008 (F) - I met a guy almost 2 years ago, he's military and was making a duty in my state (NJ) we just met for 2 times and it was business. But, we kinda made a click, we made eye contact, he laughed at anything I'd said, he stared at me, well he made me feel ...

He doesn't know that I'm a virgin..should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - okay, so here's my problem. I'm 17 and a virgin and I'm ready to have sex. I don't want to do it just to say that i have, but i'm just ready to have sexual relationships. For the past couple of months I've been "friends with benefits" with a guy. W...

Daughter's boyfriend comes over late at night. Do we trust them together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My 18 yr. old daughter's boyfriend likes to come over to visit, which we do allow but he comes over late when he works. We don't allow him to be here late when we have to go to sleep because we don't think it's appropriate for them to be left alone ...

Turned down having sex with her and now ..she thinks I am gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - This weekend I had my girlfriend over and we fell asleep on the couch after a quiet evening and a movie. We are quite affectionate with each other but this was the first time we had slept together, we were fully clothed and have been dating for a ...

How do I deal with her coldness and aloof manner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

24 November 2008 (M) - Hi, Thanks in advance for your comments. My problem is that my fiancee seems to swing from being all over me to chastising me for 'not doing enough' or 'not appreciating what she does'. I find her claims incredible, not only because the...

Should I just break this off before I get a broken heart?

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24 November 2008 (M) - Ok well Ive been dating this girl for about a month now, we get along really well:) She is great and I do have strong feelings for her. I have mentioned a relationship a few times and she told me that she didnt want to rush things, so I said that ...

How can I send him subtle signals to let him know I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I'm having lunch with a guy I really, really like. Unfortunately, I'm not sure if he feels the same way. He does seem to flirt a lot...joking around with me and constantly smiling at me, but he's also quite shy. I don't want to come right out and ...

I'm 14 and he's 19, is this wrong? Should I stop seeing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - hi dear cupid. so i started talking to this guy, hes 19 and im 14. we get along fine and we went out one night. The farthest we'ver gone is making out...but we're not in a relationship. My parents are most likely to find out if i start going out ...

How do I tell my friend that I love her?

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24 November 2008 (M) - Now, it's not a crazy love. It's more than a crush because we've hooked up a few times (no sex, a mutual decision) but there's not much of a chance for a relationship (long-distance). i don't know at all how she feels about me . . . she, on the ...

Why do I continue to engage in casual sex when I always feel crappy the next day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I have an issue with engaging in casual sex on occasion. Protection is used and things are safe, so there isn't a problem there. However, I always feel crappy (mentally) the next day and feel I shouldn't of done it. Why do I continue to do it? ...

Does he want me back or is he playing mind games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend finished with me a month and a half ago. I was desolate, and did the whole begging him to get back with me thing, which I now regret, but I was in a very bad way. He was reasonable and gave me a straight answer about why he was ...

I really like my boyfriend but he's a terrible kisser!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Okay, well I've been with my boyfriend now for 2 months, not that long I know but I really like him, and I know full well I'm not ready for sex, I'm a virgin but he's not, he slept with one girl but the thing is he cannot kiss! I hate kissing him, ...

Does giving blowjobs make a girl a whore?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - If I like giving bj's does that make me a whore...? I give my bf plenty of them cuz in my opinion I find it fun, my friends say that girls who do it a lot are dirty... and even though I try to ignore it, it always comes back... is it bad for a girl ...

How to know if your partner trusts you... or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - How can you know if your partner trusts you? or What are the signs that he doesn't?...

How do you create a strong, interesting and lasting relationship?

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24 November 2008 (F) - How do you create a strong, interesting and lasting relationship? It seems to me like all relationships around just wear off, no matter how badly this people wanted them or fought for them. I don't want that for me, but it seems that's just the...