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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can he say I'm his girlfriend then turn around and say he's single?

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12 November 2008 (F) - I'm 43, dating a 53 year old guy for 3 months now, he refers to me as his girl-friend. (but he says he's not ready for a commitment...) Also, I've found him on 3 online dating sites, where he lists himself as single seeking a women/activity partner. ...

Can I cope being a friend to the woman I love?

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12 November 2008 (M) - Okay, let me outline the situation - i'm 28 years old and until august was in a seven year relationship with the mother of my four year old daughter. for years she had ruined my life by stopping me going out, stopping me seeing my family, stopping ...

A Christmas present for my boyfriend that doesn't cost anything...

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12 November 2008 (F) - ok. so my boyfriend told me he already knew what he was getting me for christmas. So i told him that i wanted to get him something for him too, and then he said that he didnt want anything. So i told him i was gonna get him something anyway, and he ...

My boyfriend wants to make out with me, any tips on how to be less nervous?

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12 November 2008 (F) - (I'm 13) Well basically, I want to make out with my boyfriend and I he wants to make out with me. (He told my best friend because he was hoping my best friend would tell me... which she did) Then he asked me if I would mind if he wanted to make out. ...

Fellas - what do you mean when you say you want a break in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - What do you guys mean when you say you want a (time defined) break? You may have told her you wanted the break because of the fighting, or because you had things to figure out in your mind and needed space. I know it depends... but... on average? ...

Emotionally Abused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I am with a guy that is emotionally abusive I guess. I don't feel like I can trust him at all. For some reason I just can't get myself to leave him. I love him so much, but he makes me hurt so bad. He broke up with me many times and says it is ...

I didn't like her until my friend started to date her.

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12 November 2008 (M) - My friend is going out with this girl that i used to like. i didn't like her until my friend started dating her. What do i do?...

She doesn't appreciate anything I do, should I keep her?

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12 November 2008 (M) - ok so i have been with my girlfriend for about 1yr and 6 mon. she has been living with me for 6 mon. this whole time i have been the only one working and i pay for everything food, if we go out, cigs, everything. i mean she does housework like ...

After everything he still acts like he loves me, what's up with this guy?

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12 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, For the past 4 years now this guy and i met we became best friends i told him i liked him but back then he was so busy and he was too shy and gave me a letter saying we shouldnt go out because he didnt have the time he thought i deserv...

She didn't say she missed me. Should I be alarmed by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

12 November 2008 (M) - I have been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now, we get along great. we are on our fifth date now, we have kissed quite a bit, but nothing more than that. She has been very busy studying for her exam, so I haven't seen her in about a week. ...

He got meningitis and it made me realize I have feelings for him.

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12 November 2008 (F) - Last week one of my good friends got meningitis :( he was in intensive care on a ventilator and no joke i just couldnt stop cryin :( i was so worried about him an visited him in intensive care and on the ward! i sent him wee msgs everyday for him to ...

I asked him out and now everyone is mad at me!

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12 November 2008 (F) - I need some advice, help, ok this really cute, nice, ect. guy in my class has a girlfriend, but i like him and he said he likes me but for some reason everyone thinks i asked him out but i didnt really. I just said if you and your gir...

I'm in love with my boyfriend's best friend... any advice?

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12 November 2008 (F) - i have been in a relationship for 4 years now and i love my boyfriend very much and im sure he loves me but a for a very long there has been another man i like, i have liked him before i meet my boyfriend when i was in school. but lately for the ...

Why do I have to be shallow- I want to be attracted to him!

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12 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is very charming, caring but physically less than average. I have never considered myself to be shallow and really don't want to be. I have always taken a lot of pride in my appearance and would be considered above ...

He borrowed bus money, then said he loved me... does he likes me?

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12 November 2008 (F) - There's this boy I really like at school. We're quite good friends and I'm wondering how to take it alittle further. Today (this might sound a little sad) he was in my double lesson, Media Studies. We were all waiting outside for the teacher to ...

Hey guys - how would you feel about a gf who sings you to sleep?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I'm curious and I would like to hear from guys. How would you feel about a girlfriend who sings you to sleep every night? I've always dreamt of having a boyfriend who would love that. I wish I could sing like Mariah Carey but my choir teache...

I feel like I'm no good to a man when I'm single and wasting space.

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12 November 2008 (F) - I'm 24 and I've been looking for love since I was 16 and yet to find it..as I get closer to 25 I have just become numb and even more depressed. I have always been a sad woman. I am getting older and soon guys are going to start to want girls younger ...

How to I get rid of shyness to kiss my boyfriend?

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12 November 2008 (F) - ok i asked a while ago how 2 kiss for the first time but now i know how i dont have the courage 2 do it can someone plz help me? does anyone know how to get rid of my shyness???????????? (it would really help my relationship my boyfriend is really ...

Is this a case of long distance destruction? Could he really change his mind so fast?

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12 November 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little less than a year now. Everything has been wonderful. He's sweet and kind, he loves doing things for me, we have tons of things in common and we have so much fun when we are together. About a two mo...

Help! Best friends and boy trouble!

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12 November 2008 (F) - I have started to fall for a boy in my year. We are really good friends but one of my best friends has fancied him since the beginning of the year. Also his best friend fancies me. I kissed him for a dare and I admit I loved it (lol cringe!)...

I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years and I'm not sure why he hasn't proposed yet!!!

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12 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years and I'm not sure why he hasn't proposed yet!!! We practically live together and when we are not working we spend all of our time together. I know he really loves me and wants to marry me, I ...

I was trying to forget him but I just can't stop loving him.

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12 November 2008 (F) - I dated this guy for 5 months but things didn't go well and he went back to his ex (they broke up because she cheated on him). We still talk 2 each other. I tried to have him back but he just said no. He told me that he didn't stop loving his ex ...

Should I let the age gap affect my decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

12 November 2008 (M) - I am 52 years old and the girl I love is 30. We have been seeing each other on and off for 4 years. The time has come where she wants to get married and have a family, this both excites me and scares, is this a natural feeling given the ...

Just had sex for first time and it hurt! Will it be better second time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ AND ANSWER I just had sex a few hours ago for the first time and it hurt a lot which I was expecting I didn't bleed... I dont regret having it but I did not feel any pleasure at all and now that I think sex is all talke...

Is it common to feel discouraged that you'll never find the one?

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12 November 2008 (M) - Is it common to feel discouraged that you'll never find the one? I finishing my seventh year of university studies this year and I expect my dating prospects to plummet once I'm working full-time meeting the same pool of office workers on a dai...

He is witholding sex from me because I'm friends with his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I have been with this one man for 2 years and I just recently moved from a big city to a small town to be with him. He has lived in this small town his whole life and doesn't understand I need some time to adjust to the life change. I have only one ...

I don't think I will ever be able to have a proper relationship again...

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12 November 2008 (M) - I first dated this girl in high school.. kind of fell head over heals for her then she broke up with me which sucked.. a lot. Now I have been intimate with many women and not wanting a relationship even though I know they want one... I just ca...

Boyfriend - baby mama drama how can I end it and still have a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I am 24 years old and I just moved to Atl from Cali, my boyfriend is going overseas and he wanted me to be close to his family while his is away. I am starting school in Jan and I just started a really good job. My boyfriend has a little boy ...

Do I risk wrecking our friendship by telling her how I feel?

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12 November 2008 (M) - there’s this girl that I really like. we’ve been friends for 5 years. we worked together and I have always had a little thing for her but I was married at the time and never would have cheated. I think she felt the same way we always were very ...

Weird orgasm!

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12 November 2008 (M) - It's crazy, I've never felt like this during an orgasm with any girl.. but with my girlfriend it's different when I cum, it seems like everything goes completly numb or starts to tingle and I can't move at all!! Is that normal or what??...

If I don't contact her, will she change her mind about our break up?

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12 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out over 4 years, she is in her 2nd year at university studying psychologly, it's been 2 weeks since she split up with me, I called her last night 2 see how she is doing, she says she still thinks this is a ...

I've recently started having sex with my boyfriend, but we don't really talk about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I've recently started having sex with my boyfriend, but we don't really talk about it. I've tried talking about it with him but he's not giving me any information so I don't really know if he's enjoying it, if maybe he doesn't want to, I don't know ...

We are engaged, getting married and have much sex, is this a problem?

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12 November 2008 (F) - is it wrong for a me and my bf have sex like 2 times a day? we just got engaged and are getting married after uni we were meant to be together and lately our sex life is out of control we do it inbetween classes and after are there any consiquences ...

We broke up, but we are still attracted to each other, what should I do?

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12 November 2008 (M) - My ex and i have been dating on and off for a year yes im gay...but me and him broke up and dont really tlk the other day we were going down the stairs and we stoped and were just starin at each other i left him on the stairs because i was so ...

Other than the fact he was a lying cheater, things were perfect...

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12 November 2008 (F) - About 6 months ago I found myself in really bad situation. I had started seeing a guy and after a couple months of dating I was starting to fall for him. I don't know how I didn't see the signs or suspect anything, maybe I did and I was just too ...

Should I keep doing this or is he getting annoyed?

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12 November 2008 (F) - We were together for months but didnt go out cause he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his gf. We only went out for a week before he told me ...

She's afraid to fall in love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

12 November 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, well the problem is that I have known this girl for a good bit and we've been the best of friends and I have been wanting to take it to the next level and have a relationship with her. The problem is she is afraid to fall in love!! ...

Was he just being friendly or does it sound like he still likes me?

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12 November 2008 (F) - If you could help me out with an ex-boyfriend of mine it would be great, my friends haven’t been very useful at helping me out with him! I went out with a guy, 4 years ago, we were out for about 8 months, but had liked each other a year or so bef...

Giving the ex a second chance, but it's awkward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - I had a boyfriend who was great, the sweetest guy alive. Until one day he broke up with me out of the blue for another girl. It was bad. We didn't talk again until after he and the girl broke up. Then we became really good friends again. We have so ...

I don't want to scare her away by moving too quick

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12 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I just met this girl online, I really like her, she has everything I have always wanted in a woman. We are up to the fourth date now, are dates are affectionate, but not over the top, everything still seems ok. Here is the problem, i think i am ...