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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I being a hypocrite wanting to meet up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Just recently I have got back in touch with many of my old school friends via Facebook. One of them (who I shall call J) confessed to me that he had fancied me at school but had been too shy to tell me. I explained to him that I was very flattered ...

Is he worth it when he lets me down all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Do you think hes worth it? when he lets me down like all the time. Right well my ex bf, wants to get back with me and i told him i would get back with him if he showed me he can change because, he never used to spend time with me. But now he see...

If he didn't want to be with me, wouldn't he just tell me upfront?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - i have a super huge problem me and my boyfriend (well ex i duno) have been together for 8 months. and for the past 8 months he has talked to me either by seein me text or email everyday. he texts me every morning before he goes to work because ...

Shall I do the sexual stuff and hope for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is always asking me if we want to do sexual things(Not sex!) He has not done things like this before, i have with my previous relationships and they all ended, i want to stay with my boyfriend i have got now and i want to do stuff wi...

Am I stupid and not seeing something that I should?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - Dear all, My recent attempts for help have failed so i have come back another time for help. met the dreamgirl of my life, the problem was she had a really popular boyfriend. I have always had popular friends but im not that good lookin...

We can't afford to break up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I've lived with my long term boyfriend for a good few years. We do have a lot of problems that have come up over the course of that time, I've discovered we're very different people, with very different priorities. The spark may not completely have ...

Would it be a problem if I told him directly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I am almost depressed because of being single for a long time. I had just 1 boyfriend in whole my life that we broke up 3 years ago. everybody agrees that I am beautiful, friendly and sociable. I have a lot of boys roaming around me and all of my ...

Is she trying to do the right thing or is there another agenda here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Hoping people can give me a bit of a hand here. I broke up with a guy at the end of August. I was feeling bad about it for a bit but am much better now and am dating again and having fun. He has a new girlfriend. I have seen them together and I have ...

What do I do about his high sex drive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - hes really into sex while i would rather hang out and do stuff even though sex feels amazing i would do it a few times a week but he wants it every morning i asked if he could masterbate instead of sex but he said it doesnt cut it and i find when we ...

His gift was more expensive than mine!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Im 15 years old and my 18 year old boyfriend of not even a month bought me a $200 gift for christmas. I had like a $50 budget for him. But I don't know anymore. I don't want him to feel like I don't care. What should I do?...

I can't go out with him as I can't do that to my parents.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I am a muslim girl and 15 years old. This might sound stupid, but please read the whole story. 2 years ago I met this boy. I never liked anypne before, and wasn't very intrested in having a boyfriend but he was different. I started liking h...

He said the distance is too much for him and wants to end it... I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Hi, Ive got a little bit of a strange situation but I would be grateful for any advice. Just over a month ago I was introduced to this guy through a mutual friend and we got on so well that night and I ended up staying up to 3am talking to him. The ...

I just can't get over his past, am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and things were great, but we have recently started arguing all the time because of his past. I know it was before he met me but I cant get over it. His ex had an abortion which I'm extremely against, he ...

Have I just messed up the signal-reading again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - A good six months ago I met a woman at my evening class - although obviously I couldn't help noticing she was attractive, when we first started chatting I wasn't all that interested in romance (I've been happily single for a while now). Over t...

Rushed into bed on the first date and now I think I've blown it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - im a 18 year old guy and ive been on a first date with a 22 year old we got along fine but i rushed it too fast we ended up sharing a bed but we didnt have sex, alothe we dont mess around (foreplay). as you can imagine this killed the conversa...

How do I tell if it meant anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I was at a party yesterday and met this guy. I known who he was but not know him to talk to but my friends use to be really good mates with him. We got talking and then I sat on his knee and then we went outside and started kissing. We went into ...

Is this for real?

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22 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been seperated from my husband for 13 months(pending divorce). 8 months ago I was sent to a nearby and familiar city for a 2 week training program. I lost weight, chopped my hair, and bought a new wardrobe. I was looking and feel...

I like my boss, I think he feels the same, but we both have partners and he has kids!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - What do I do, the chemistry is there, the eye contact is there, we still blush even though we've been working together 3 months now. I think about him almost everyday and when he goes home on a friday im the last person he says goodbye to and he ...

How can I get him out of my head and have him not affect me in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I cant get over a guy i met couple months ago. When we first was talking everything was going good, till I found out that he was bestfriend with my Ex.... Of course ex's get jealous so he basically brain wash the guy i liked n told him differe...

Can a boy kiss a girl he doesn't love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - hey everybody this question might be stupid but i am really thinking about it i kissed a boy on our 3 date but i knew him for 3 weeks before that i am afraid he doesn t love me or he just like me he did not said i love u but he asked all the time ...

I'm not attracted to men themselves, but their body. I still like girls too, am I gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - hey, im 16 okay so here goes, i like girls, well at least i thought i did, and i think i'm starting to fancy men. so i've had a rough time, 12 months since my last relationship and not really close since, i've only managed to kiss a girl twice, an...

So many guys, only one of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - ok i have this problem were im wiv this guy who is really nice but a load of guys have been asking me to go out with them i mean about 8 guys there all really close m8ts so i let them down gently but when i see them they tell me how much thy like...

I am depressed, have a girffriend who understands me, but I don't want to lose her by talking about my problems, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - I'm a freshmen in highschool and me and my girlfriend have been going on a good six months now,and we love eachother.We don't see eachother alot,but we don't care because we're both willing to try and be comitted. But the problem with me is that I'm...

I am attracted to this guy, in my class, how do I get to know him better, maybe date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - i'm a 24 year old single lady that is in need of dating advice. i have this man in my college class that i have a serious liking to. i do not approach him because the other women are desperately in his face. i want to get to know him by being his ...

What should I get my boyfriend of six months, for Christmas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - What do i get my bf of 6 months for christmas? thanks!...

There are things my boyfriend does that upset me, am I too sensitive?

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22 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a year in febuary. Thursday night we we're on the phone talking about someon on the telly and he said what the one with masive boobs and I said yeah, how do you know shes got massive boobs and he said well ...

We decided to have sex, I had terrible pain, how can I stop this from happening again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been knowing each other since we were 8 and 3 years ago he proposed...we are now 17 each and we have decided to have sex...we love each other very much..but the thing is that..for my first time, when he actually penetrated ...

I want to be in love with him so that sex won't be for the wrong reason.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I'm 15, it's been 3 months with the boyfriend and we have had sex once and I know we're going to do it again. I know I have strong feelings for him, I tell myself I'm in love but how do I truly know? Because if I didn't love him I wouldn't have sex ...

Partner's ex pregnant with his baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my partner now for 6 years and in june of last year we split up. We were apart for about 12 months..... I had a couple of relationships in that time nothing serious and he also had a brief relationship with someone. During the time ...

Sex sex sex... yet he still jerks off and sends nude pictures???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Something is wrong with this picture, we have sex every night and some mornings, on weekends sometimes 2-3 times a day, yet he jacks off to porn daily and he has just sent a girl he doesn't know nude pics and videos of him jerking it. ...

Unprotected sex at the end of her period. Could I have caught something from doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - Hi, something troubles me. Earlier this week me and the girl I recently started dating had sex. We'd used a condom the first few times we had sex, but we've been together for a month now, and so have recently started doing it without protecti...

Peer pressure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - Hi everyone... My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months and we do really love each other :), but her older sister who's now twenty did something maybe some would consider rather silly. She had unprotected sex with her boyfriend, she got ...

MMF - is this a common fantasy for men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have always had a very good sex life, we have always been experimental but have never tried a threesome or anything like that, though we have discussed them before. Tonight we were talking about th...

Grandad of 71 hitting on my girlfriend of 19!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - I have a real problem..... My grandpa (father's Father) had been acting so stupidly around my girlfriend that I started becoming very agitated. He would always tell me to calm down and that he just really admired her. Then he began bragging t...

Nerves and doubt in my relationship are eating me alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Ok, so me and my boyfriend that I lost my virginity to have been together off and on for 2 years. We recently broke up for 7 months and just got back together. About 3 months before we got back together he had gotten a girl pregnant. He claims he ...

Guy advice on dating.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am after some general advice.. as I have been single for an age until recently. I met this guy, we had a rocky start.. and I really just don't know where his head space is. Like, i so enjoy him and his company.. so we hook up, and ...

I was an idiot, but I have changed. Now I want her back !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

22 November 2008 (M) - Ok, I'm 25 and had lots of girlfriends in the past.. I started dating this girl "Nicole" April of 2007 and we got engaged August of 07 and moved in together.. I love her with all my heart but made dumb mistakes with finances and being irresponsible ...

I don't want to lose my friend, but I want to have a relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - I have a classmate...i like him very much....we both are very good friend but i want to have love relationships with him...he always has his concentration on me..His concentration on me is more than what a friend has over her friend...We both have a ...

I like her, but everyone is telling me that I shouldn't get involved with her!

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22 November 2008 (M) - I'm 15 (16 in january) and I go to an early college highschool. There's this girl I usually sit with at the cafeteria, she's 20 and in college and today she told me that she loves me... I do like her but everyone is telling me that I shouldn't...