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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I want a relationship, but he just wants to date right now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I have been seeing someone for over 6 months now and just found out that he is dating other people. We are not sleeping together just dating but I'm still really uneasy about it. When I confronted him he said that he wanted to still be friends...

I want to tell her I love her but don't know how.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - I want to tell the girl i love that i love her but i am finding it hard,what do i do.pls help...

How can I possibly be this happy after all the mistakes and bad choices I made?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am having trouble forgiving my sexual past and its eating me up inside. I have slept with 12 guys - only 6 of them were relationships - out of the others I was completely drunk and/or believed that we would end up having a relationship. All these ...

Long distance relationship - I'm afraid it's not going to last...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm curently in a long distance reletionship I love my bf but he lives 45 minutes away. I don't want to leave him and i hope it dosent come to that but im afraid I'm going to lose him because we only see each other for like a week or weekend ...

When will it stop hurting me to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, and today we had sex again for the first time since then, but once again it was really painful for me and I bled quite a lot, even though my hymen broke the first time. Why did this happen? Did ...

Does my cousin still like my boyfriend? (Her ex!)

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19 November 2008 (F) - I am with my cousin's ex boyfriend and I have fell in love with him and he says he is in love with me. Every time I talk about him to my cousin she goes all shy and changes the subject. Do you think she still likes him? What should i do?...

I took too long to make a move and now she has a boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Man, I'd say I'm feeling like s*** right now, but lemme show y'all my situation: I met this gorgeous girl.I loved her at first sight.I think she loved me too, cause she started gimme signs, for instance: keep staring at me all the time, giving m...

I feel so down and keep crying all the time. What is up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - For the past couble of weeks I have been feeling really down, low, I've got no energy, I just can't be arsed to do nothing, but I push myself to because I have a 4 year old boy to look after, he is good as gold bless him, he has even been asking me ...

I don't like giving and getting gifts from my boyfriend, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I know this is a strange fear but I don't like giving and recieving gifts from my boyfriend. I don't mind giving and recieving gifts from my friends either the same sex or opposite sex but it's happened with all my past relationships. I am with a g...

She keeps ending it when her period is due!

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19 November 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with the most beautiful woman but she keeps ending the relationship when her period is due. She says she can't help it but she hurts me so bad. Don't know if I can take any more hurt. I love her more than anything. What ...

My boyfriend is so lazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I love him with every beat of my heart, he's amazing, he's everything a girl wantss in a boyfriend, I'm 19 I work part time every day, he doesn't work nor go to school, I brought it up to him once and ...

She says she just wants to be friends, but I want more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - I asked the girl I liked out, but she says she just wants to be friends. So how do I get her to be my girlfriend?...

Are we moving too fast with the "I love you"s?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am in the best relationship I have ever been in; he makes me really happy. It's as if he's the male version of myself, we get on that well. We have been in this relationship for nearly two months, and we tell each other we love each other often...

Tips for asking my friend out on a date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys I was wondering if you could help me out... You see I'm at college, there is this girl I met and 4 months onwards we are quite alright friends... I mean I talk to her a few times... we flirt... we're close and stuff and she's really g...

Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...

I do not know what to do to prove myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Over the period of 3 years or so I was talking to a guy (lets call him Bob) I met online through a band. We had always wanted to meet but we didn't until this August when he came in from Iraq on leave. While he was here I met his best friend of 13 ...

Motorboat at the stripclub

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am 25 years old and my fiance 33. Last weekend we went to a strip club with my friend, let's just call her Sally. Sally and I were wondering if the strippers boobs were fake or real so we asked my fiance to go ask her and find out. He gave her ...

How should I act around this guy who might like me but has a GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - ok please please please help me im beginning to go insane trying to figure out whats going on in this *certain someones* mind. i will first tell u about about me and him and u can decide. well i didnt know this guy at all until less than a year ago...

I said I see him as a close friend. Does this leave room for being more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - hello. ive been talking to my best lad mates friend alot recently, weve became really close friends, weve just been talkin about my best lad mate i said i saw him as a brother, the mate of his asked what i saw him as. i said close friends, what i ...

We're not going out so why doesn't he like me hugging other guys?

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19 November 2008 (F) - I don't understand, right this lad i am really close fiends to, and he always hugs me and stuff, and when other lads want to hug me he gets dead over powering and doesnt let them or gets like dead protective and obsessive and jealous, like he will ...

Is he just taking things slow? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I met a really nice guy few days ago. He says I can come over anytime I like. I have been to his place about 3 times now. We aren't exactly dating but I guess you can say we act like a couple. When we sit he sits more towards my way, we have given ...

I'm stuck between boys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Well. this is such a long question! i liked this boy and he asked me to kiss him and i said yeah but just before i was going to, about a day, he asked someone out, but then she dumped him. Now he goes out with someone else but he flirts with me and ...

I really want to make it work this time, do you have any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was stupid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other et...

Why do I have so many feelings for so many guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - One lad is in love with me, and two there lads fancy me. We shall call the lad that is in love with me GUY 1, Well i like GUY 1 as well, in fact i love him too, but he has really hurt me before and i am so scared he will hurt me again. GUY 2 fan...

I really like him and I'm so confused as to what to do!

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19 November 2008 (F) - Hiya Ok this is one of those long essay things, but i really do need your advice! Right well, i really like this boy. I see him at school but he is a year younger than me (thats ok right?) so im not in any of his lessons or anything. But i ...

I feel excited when people mention my ex's name, but not my boyfriends! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Il apologize in advance if its a long question. Well heres the basics, im 16 and have been with my boyfriend for a little over 9 months. Ive never felt love like this towards anyone before, its kind of like i'd do anything to make sure he didnt ge...

My girl doesn't like to be touched!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly a year. We both love eachother very much and have no plans to break up. However, she has an unnoticable case of ADHD to the human eye, and I think it's from this I have my problem. She doesn't like ...

I feel like I've been given a label by the person who I have grown to love deeply.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Yesterday my boyfriend said in a heated conversation that he thought I'd been 'ruined'. This has upset me terribly and I'm wondering how I am ever going to get beyond his remark. He won't retract it or apologise. When I asked him if he would choose ...

My boyfriend is not active in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Dear friends, My boyfriend is not active in bed? What remedy do you have for him. He does not perform well during sex and as a young girl like me I need it. Please is a serious matter, I need your help!!!!. ...

I feel like I am being asked to wait too long for something I want NOW! Should I tell him I'm not waiting any longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I am involved in a frustratingly undefined relationship with a man who is in the process of leaving his girlfriend. She gave birth to his son 5 months ago, but they have only been together 17 months in total... She doesn't believe in abortion. I...

We broke up also because I was needy, now we are building friendship, could this develop into a relationship... again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I rushed into another relationship shortly after ending a 10 year relationship with another man. The new guy had also recently ended a long term relationship and he realised that we had rushed into something that was too much too soon for him so ...

Why is he so angry at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I would really like some advice on this please if you wouldnt mind ! :) I met this lad at a party and we really hit it off. Then spoke through texts and on computer and we was getting along find until I found out he has a girlfriend! But he asked me ...

Do I dump him as my best friend still has feelings for him? (He's her ex)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - So recently I began going out with my best friend's ex-boyfriend (lets call him John). They broke up about three weeks ago, and John told me that he liked me and I liked him back, so he asked me to be his girlfriend. Before I said yes, I went to my ...

Broke up with my boyfriend and now my best friend is seeing him!

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19 November 2008 (F) - My ex (we were on/off for almost a year) broke up with me almost 2 weeks ago and he re-asked me out about 1 week ago, I said to wait a week to see how we feel being single and we did, so he asked me again on saturday and we decided to stay single in ...

He's telling me I'm hopeless in the bedroom!!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a very high sex drive, and is now saying I have to improve our sex life or he will end the relationship. (basically he told me he doesn't enjoy having sex with me.. I need to get into it more and seem like I'm enjoying it) I would ...

He gets annoyed because I'm quite shy and don't talk much to his friends.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend always gets so mad and angry at me when we go out with his friends because I don't talk much. I told him I'm really shy when I first meet people and it takes some time for me to be comfortable with people. He should ...

Is he looking for sympathy or what?

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19 November 2008 (F) - After my boyfriend showed no interest to me lately I decided to give him some space. I assumed that, he needed it because he didn't call me for about a week but all of a sudden he calls me 24/7 and wants to come and see me but I am not in the mood ...

Do you think I'm cut out to be her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Just wondering if I have anything to worry about here, I don't think I do. I've started a thing with a girl and things are going great, but I can't help but to feel a bit selfconscious. You see, I'm a somewhat out of shape white guy, and all ...

Should I date my ex-friend's ex-husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5552 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - I was reasonably good friends with a girl for almost 10 years until almost 6 months ago when she tried to cause trouble between myself and a guy that I had started seeing. Her and her husband have broken up in the meantime and he has been showing ...

Will it ever happen for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Ok so, I've never had a boyfriend. I have guys who are friends, personally they are easier to get along with than guys, but i've never actually had a relationship. I can always seem to be friends with guys, but nothing beyond that. I'm about 6 foot ...

Am I fooling myself in thinking that it might actually work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - After reading the "Married Man/Single Woman Syndrome" article by Older Sister, I have a question that might throw your theory on its side... I have been dating a man for 10 months now. During a chance encounter, we had some chemistry betwee...

Should a girl talk to a guy and if so, what should I say?

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19 November 2008 (F) - hey! ok so, i know im too old to be asking this but here i am, thinking about it. i feel like a school girl. theres this guy at college, we have conversations with our eyes, everyone around me can see it, i.e my friends. its the feeling nervous ...

With someone new but still have feelings for my baby's father.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Well see I'm just about 8 months pregnant and I'm not with the father. I have a new bf but I know it's been about 8 months I havent been with the father. I still have strong feelings for him. I'm not sure what to do. My bf hates my baby's father ...

Because of our age difference he won't date me, but I'm so into him!

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19 November 2008 (F) - Okay so i like this guy who's 18 and im a 15 yr old female. i have such strong feelings for him we've met and have hung out and text 24/7 non stop and we know each other and have good times, when were together. i love this boy alot and when i told ...

I really want to kiss him but he would think it's weird, what do I do?

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19 November 2008 (F) - ok, here it goes. ive recently started dating a guy, we were friends first.. we hang out almost every day, and lately every time we're together, i just wanna touch him and kiss him (we havent kissed yet) but i know he would consider it inappropriate ...