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Dating: Help and advice

Playing Games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I wanted to find out if i could have some good advice on an issue i have currently with a boyfriend. We have been dating since March 08 and seeing eachother about once every 2weeks to a week at the begining minus two, two week hols he has...

I need more sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I wanted some advice if there's any out there, I've been with my fiance 4 nearly 3 years, he says I'm the love of his life and he's never loved anyone like he loves me, but there is just one problem - our sex life! He never wants sex, maybe ...

If he really does love her then should I feel threatened by this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hi. I've known this woman at work now for about 2.5 years and we have started dating for the past 12 months. Our relationship has grown out of friendship. Anyway, the other day she told me that she thinks that someone else (who may not know about me ...

I've not been intimate for 5 years and have become a bit self conscious about my body...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I haven't been intimate with anyone for almost 5 years. Since this time I have become a little self conscious about my body. I am afraid when I do have sex that it will hurt and that my partner will be disappointed in the fact that I am not better ...

What turns guys on and gets them in the mood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - My fiance has always loved sex but hates initiating it, feeling as if it makes him seem needy so I've taken the intitative to start things, what are some sexy things I can do for him to get him in the mood and to start sex? like whenever I want it I ...

I can't move from dating to a serious relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - I have a question here for those with some experience in dating and having a serious relationship. I keep having a recurring problem, which is I can't move from dating to a serious relationship. Every time I finally find someone to date, we go o...

How can I suggest to him we use condoms without hurting his feelings?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hey guys! Well I am gay and have been with my boyfriend now for the best part of 3 years. We've recently started having sex but I am a little concerned about using protection. I mean I know that we can't get pregnant or anything like that but I mean ...

How can I prove to him I won't kick him out again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Hello! I was dating my fiance for a year and we lived together until I looked on his myspace and saw that him and his co worker were messaging each other back and forth with questionable content and it clearly pointed to him being involved with he...

It's hard for me to find guy friends because of the fact that I have a boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I need help! It's hard for me to find male friends because of the fact that I have a boyfriend. I think this scares them away. Don't worry, my boyfriend is not threatening in anyway. It's just that once I start talking to a guy, hoping to build a ...

Is it bad that I look for the qualities I desire but my boyfriend lacks, in other guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I think I need another opinion on this because I don't know if I'm wrong for this or if other's feel the same... I have a boyfriend who I've been with for over 3 years, we're happy but he has some bad qualities which are normal because i...

Should I stop dating bisexual women? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Hello out there, I just want to say that thanks to the technology we have know in days I ran into my ex-girlfriend from high school. She was my high school sweetheart. As that said, we know that's when we get are young heart broken. My problem with ...

Unless I'm on MSN, I'm too shy to talk to girls.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Well I've been 14 for a few weeks and, well I can't get a girlfriend. Unless I'm on msn I'm too shy to talk to girls no matter what I do, I don't know whether it's because I'm ugly or something but it's depressing me cos all my friends r dating ...

How do I see if she likes me without losing a friend and upsetting her friend!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Im a guy and have had a couple of girlfriends and quite a few girls crushing on me. But there is this girl, a few years back we used to hate each others guts. But for about a year now we have been really good friends. I feel like i can trust her ...

Is it worth it to give him a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - advice please? Well, my times running out. This lad is ' totally crazy ' about me, he tells me he loves me almost everyday. He is my ex-boyfriend, and he was the one who ended our relationship, then when he asked for me back i said no, even though i...

Me and my girlfriend fight about everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend fight about everthing! Sometimes it's so little and it turns in to a huge fight, we can be just sitting around and she will ask me to get her something to drink or make her a sandwich etc and if I don't do it she gets pissed ...

Another possible pregnancy... or not?

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13 November 2008 (F) - Hi I was due to come on my period on 7th november... so far it hasnt happened. I have been feeling bloated, nauseous and keep getting cramps and headaches. Yesterday I started spotting brown. It stopped and then started again today. It's only very ...

Condoms stop me getting hard!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for around 3 months, and we get along great, but when we try and have sex, no matter how hard I am, when I put on the condom, I get quite flacid and I can't really get it in. Any tips on this? If she gives me a ...

I love my boyfriend but I could see my friend and I falling in love over time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I live in southwest va. Currently I have a boyfriend that lives in this area. I have a friend that lives up north and I really like him, we can sit around and talk to each other for hours about nothing. My birthday is comming up soon and he wants me ...

Should I stay with him even though he has a child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I recently just found out that my fiance has a 2 year old daughter. Me and him used to date back in 2004 and I have known him since I was 14. After hurricane Katrina we broke up because we relocated to two different states. Last October he moved to ...

How can I consider marrying him with this set up he has in place?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my divorced boyfriend nearly two years. He has two kids fom a marriage who live with their mother. I had nothing to do with his divorce. I accepted he had kids and that he seen them and paid for them. However two years later it's ...

My boyfriend is giving me mixed signals, what is happening here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Hello my name is Ana and I would like some views about this, I posted this a couple of days ago and I would like to have some other views. My boyfriend of 9 months is a very very good man, I feel that with him everything is always so perfect, he ...

My boyfriend wants a blowjob! Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob and I'm more then happy to but I have no clue what I'm suppose to do... tips/help please and do guys like to finish on their girls? or in privacy...

Whenever I think of things she's done in the past, I feel awful and sad. Jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hey, I feel really down at the moment due to my Girlfriend. I am 16 but I know I'm in love with her, and she's all I think about. It's just that whenever I think of things she's done in the past, I feel awful and sad. For example, I liked her ...

I want to stay friends but he's blanking me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I have another problem! The boy I like-that's going fine. But this time it's another thing. I used to go out with a boy called daniel. I asked him out last October and he said yes. We went out once over a half-year period and I decided i...

How do I say no when it goes too far without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but he is a little more aggressive than the guys I've dated previously. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, I just find it hard to say no to him. I have not felt like saying no to anything so far, but I'm only 15 and don't ...

My fiance got another girl pregnant while we were on a break

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - My Fiance and I have been together 4yrs now and things were great. well while I was at school 3 hours away from him we began having problems so we decided to break up til I came home for summer. well that meant we were seperated from Feb-may. ...

My boyfriend is missing a sensitivity chip

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I have the world's most awesome boyfriend, most of the time, but sometimes I feel like he's missing a sensitivity chip. Usually it's him ranting about something at work that has annoyed him and I'm the one listening and giving advice, but today my ...

Having trouble trusting her love me after getting back together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid I just got back with the ex after two months apart... everything seems to be going really well. We're taking it slow and when were together it has been great, alot like old times, but when Im not with her im finding that I am worryi...

He has a girlfriend but says he is bored without me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - im in love with a guy...that i should not be in love with, because he has a gf. but im to the point that i think he may be with me in the end. i try to go days with no contact in attempt to leave him alone, but it hasn't worked. we had a talk last ...

He is sending me mixed signals

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - why would a guy say one minute he wants to be "a friend" but say he used to have feelings for you more than any other girl? next minute he avoids you.. then talks to you .. then tries to hold your hand/be touchy feely..and always hugging you for ...

In love with a known lier and womanizer. Do you think he has changed for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - right iv been seeing a guy for 9 months on and off. but he told me weeks ago im the girl he loves and wants to be with. BUT he has a really bad reputation hes got 2 kids to two different mothers. i hear hes a womanizer, cheat, liar and caught lots ...

I like this guy from back in high school. How can I get to know him now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Ok.Hear's my problem.I have liked this guy since the last year of junior school and now that i have left high school i haven't seemed to get him out of my mind.I've barely even spoken to him and i have no idea about what i should do.We rarely see ...

I have not felt love only lust, for a long time.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I am hoping someone can help me. I have not felt love only lust, for a long time. I have been with some girls but they have never made me feel love for them. I had recently made up my mind to find someone I can love and settle down with her. ...

Should I I let the best thing that has ever happened to me disappear or should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I finished with my boyfriend in in July. We had been going out for 6 months and I loved him soo much. I was soo happy with him because he would do anything for me. He meant the world to me but then we started to argue and then my grandad died and ...

Why do guys and girls never understand each other?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Why do guys and girls never understand each other? I thought I had it figured but I am dead wrong. please help......

I'm embarrassed that when I get into a relationship, she'll think I'm a loser.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hi im 23 years old and unfortunately still a virgin ive never had a girlfriend and barely have any experience. Its especially embarrassing because on paper I mean there is no reason why I shouldn’t of had a girlfriend…I mean people say funny, ...

What do you buy a guy who you like as a gift without it getting awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - what kind of birthday gift do you get a guy friend,who you are madly in love with, but don't want to make things awkward? He's into working out, being active, six flags, math, and (i know you'll laugh) he's a male cheerleader, a damn good one i ...

How do I go back on the fact that I told my mom we are in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I know this sounds weird, but in the heat of the moment a few weeks ago I told my mom about this guy I've been seeing and told her that we were in a relationship. To be honest, we're more or less just booty calls for eachother. It's known that ...

Is this a good way to approach a girl I've never met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm in need of some advice. There is a girl at my college that has recently caught my eye. I really know nothing about her other than she has a class after mine and likes coffee (I've seen her in the cafe). I've also seen her around campu...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I want jewery for Christmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I don't know how to tell my boyfriend i want jewelry for christmas. he's asked me but i don't know what to say. from what to say what to say?...

I've got the Christmas blues and it's not even December...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm 14 and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for christmas. we are currently at the 3 month mark but by christmas we'll be in to 4. I want something meaning full but not completely mushy. from, Christmas blues...

Will I bleed on our wedding night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I'm getting married in exactly a month to my long time bf! We both have not had penetrative sex ever since we have been saving it for our wedding night. We are both 29. I'm worried that the first time will be uncomfortable. We are both familar very ...

My best guy friend keeps asking me out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (?) - My best guy friend keeps asking me out. I just want to be friends and don't want to ruin our friendship. I rejected him before, but he won't leave me alone. I'm trying to be nice and sweet but it's not working. I really don't want to be the b...

We're having twin boys, I'm delighted but inside I'm freaking out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (?) - I'm 21 years old and my fiance is 20 and 3 months pregnant by me but didn't tell me right away because she was scared. but we got over it and she moved in with me. we went to the doctor to see what we were having and we are having twin boys. I am ...

I am going on my FIRST ever date and I'm so nervous. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I'm with my first boyfriend. I'm 13 he's 14. We're going on a date soon... my first one. I'm super nervous! That explains it all...HELP!!!! URGENT!...

Why is he acting so strange now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost seven months now and we used to hang out all the time and spend time together, but now lately hes been acting really strange and I dont know what to do, everytime I try to talk to him we just end up getting ...

Genital warts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Okay, I just recently found out that my b/f has genital warts but he only broke out with one wart unlike the horrific pictures I have seen in my nursing book.... since he noticed the bump on his penis he made sure we used a condom until he knew for ...

Should I hold on in the hope his family come around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 11 years family and I don't get along, we were really good for 8 years but we fell out and now they won't even speak to me, because of this we didn't get married. Now we have a baby and we believe that it's only right that we get ...

In love but lost in love... does this make any sense to anyone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I wrote about 3 weeks ago about this girl after 5years she wants to be with me we were high school lovers but becuase of our age and doing what my friends thought i should i lisen to everyone else and not my heart what i truley felt inside and i ...

I want to care... how do I fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I'm confused because to most people including all my friends sex is a "big deal" [by that I mean emotionally like they always really like the person] and for me it's kinda just a thing. I want to care about it but when it comes to it have no ...

He seems to be putting his friends and video games before me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now. The first month was amazing. He was super cute, and sweet but lately (after we started having sex) he's been putting his friends and his video games before us and our relationship. I don't know ...

Feel pretty stupid sitting around waiting to hear from him. Should I just end this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I don't know what's up with this guy. I love him dearly. He's not the type to express those feelings unless he really and truly feels it. So supposedly he's in love with me too. Thing is, I'm starting to question his meaning of love. We used to ...

How do I prove myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this guy I met online. Every phase of this relationship was so rushed and unexpected. It was after about 4 months of serious long distance relationship did we meet. First meeting and we ended up in bed. He thinks I ...

My stupid ape-looking boobs

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend have been getting pretty far in our relationship, sexually wise. On our last make-out session, we both took off our shirts. He wanted to take off my bra. I told him no because I'm not altogether comfortable with the way my ...