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My feelings for him seem to have faded, what should I do?

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Question - (18 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a relationship problem, i don't know if i even have feelings for the guy I'm with, at first everything was sooo good but when he told me that he found out he had a baby mama [he got her pregnant before he got with me] that's when things started to change, i was heart broken but decided to continue to see him, but now its like i don't know any more I'm not sure if i even like him, i tell him "i love you" but it don't feel real, and i really don't feel all that happy but i don't want to tell him because i know it'll brake his heart he tells me every day how much he loves me.....yet it don't seem to make me feel all happy, and we always got through this topic and i just get mad

what should i do ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

obviously you lost feelings...and if you're not happy; regardless what the circumstances are...you leave! why be in a relationship if you don't have feelings for the guy and you aren't happy? i rather stay single then be in a relationship where i'm not happy...it's better to get out of it now cause in the long run...it isn't going to work out anyway

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