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Nothing I do helps... My boyfriend is addicted to games!!!

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Question - (18 November 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

To put it simply my boyfriend is addicted to games =,= and I love sex but usually after he's done going out with his buddies he's on his games UGHH! and he's so hot I can't resist.. and I've tried a lot of things, teasing him showing up naked even though he does do me quite a bit, I would like more, I don't know if it's just me being selfish... but I think he should get off his games D: advice and help pleasee!

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A male reader, Everoth United States +, writes (19 November 2008):

Everoth agony auntthis might sound harsh, but how about you tell him how you feel about this and if he doesn't stop after that talk, leave him. at some point he is going to have to choose between the virtual world and the real world. either be with you, a REAL loving woman he can hold in his hands and be with or people over the internet who help him obtain quest items that don't actually matter in real life.....speaking as a game addict myself, there isn't much anyone else can do for him until he decides to break free of it himself. perhaps if you leave him, this will be the motivation needed to show him what he is neglecting in his life and what he is missing because of his addiction?

Good luck with your situation and i hope things work out

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

Well have sex games with him and make it fun sexy so he will play with you, that works for me, my guy was always playing his games all the time it made me so so mad but I made a sex game out of his favourite game he played so fine which game he loved the most and make it a sex game, it works well for me it does and now I get to play more with him and as for his games he don't even play them as much. I have to put on his game so I could rest a bit so hope all goes well.....good luck...xoox

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (18 November 2008):

Fatherly Advice agony auntI must confess right here at the start I'm a game addict too. And, you are right to call it an addiction. Game addiction can lead to more serious problems in the future. Some men abandon all their responsibilities, Job, family, relationships, and do nothing but game 24/7 they usually find some gullible girl to keep them supplied with games and snacks. Anyway as to advice, You want him to play with you instead of with his tv. So introduce some games into your foreplay. Make sure to include rewards for wining and punishments for losing. I know that this really works for me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008):

What kinda games is he playing? Some games can lower mens sexual drive, i recommend a holiday somewhere. If you can afford that then chuck all his games away :P If he's got mates around all the time try and make a rota but designate an evening where he and his mates can get together and play on his games. You could go out for a drink with your girlfriends while he does that. If you know any of his sexual fantasys try at them :D Gl

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