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Archived questions from: 29 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Struggling with a break up. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I'm not really sure there is answerable question in the following, but I need a place to express myself and if you feel you can help me, please do. Again I woke up to a text message from J (my ex). "How was your day today?" I know she's not l...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think I love my boyfriend's brother, and I don't know whether I should tell him or not?? I want to so bad, cuz I hate hiding my feelings, BUT I do not want to cause drama between family. Its getting to the point where I really dont care though... ...

He was seeing his ex the whole time we were together!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Please help, I don't know what I should do!! It's quite long I'm sorry! I've been with my partner for over a year now but broke up for 2 months half way through the year after finding out he was cheating with who I thought to be his ex but turned ...

Past love comes back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - hey Quite a hard situation, and I feel like a dick for some of it, get that out the way first. I was seeing a girl about a month ago called, let's call her J, and I really loved her but we didn't see each other much (she goes to college, me 6 fo...

I need to draw a wedge between them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm Peridot. I was in a relationship with this great guy, but now it's somehow falling apart. I don't know how to get him back... And plus, there's this girl, who is trying to make problems between me and him purposely. She calls him up, chat...

Am I expecting too much from my boyfriend with responsibilities, and is love enough?

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29 November 2008 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Apologies for the ridiculously long essay, but I am feeling very sad and sorry for myself tonight, and am using this process as therapy! Some background: I have been with my bf for a little over a year now. It star...

My attraction grows stronger every day and it's making my relationship hectic!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 6 months now with my boyfriend who I love very much, But recently I started having second thoughts about us. I have been spending alot of time with his brother lately who I have known alot longer and have always ...

Is she being very friendly or does she love me?

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29 November 2008 (M) - I have a female friend who is very attractive and friendly,she has a lot of male friends although she says they are childhood friends and family friends. I told her i liked her and wanted her to be my gf but she said she was not ready for a ...

One second I want to be with her and the other I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I don't know what to do with my relationship. Sometimes i want to be with her and other times i just want to be single again. We've been going out for more than a year now and although she does make me happy i'm getting bored. One second i'll...

Would you say she loves me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - If a girl who is my close friend allows me to hold her hands,laughs always when with me,comes to visit me,phones me and always talk to me whenever she sees me but have lots of malefriends. Does she loves me...

Want to get engaged before buying a house, is that wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are planning on getting a house next year together. We have been living together since we we first started dating which will be 4 years in March. We have known eachother for about 8 years altogether. I'm 26, he is 24. I love him ...

4 Girlfriends You Never Want To Be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - We’ve all seen that ridiculous girl with her boyfriend and wondered how he puts up with it. Male and female alike, when we see someone so utterly clueless as to how irritating they really are, the urge to walk up and shake them is sometimes hard to ...

I think it's funny now... is it normal for me to think of it this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - About 9 months ago me and my boyfriend had a major fight as he lied about where he was one night, following it we both went on a night out with friends but seperately, and met up later, when we met up I caught him on the phone planning to meet up ...

Do I stay with my wild boyfriend who loves me or go back to my ex who says he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have found this site really useful and have read it recently to help with my situation, however, I have joined today to be able to get some real advice for my exact situation. I cant talk to my family as they just change the subject (although we ...

From 100 mph to 0 in 15 months....!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - So I started going out with my current girlfriend after meeting her at the bar, she was a rebound for me at the time so things didn't really start off intending to turn into a relationship but it did- and that made things tough. Anyways the sex was ...

I'm afraid to let my parents know that I have a boyfriend as they think I'm too young.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been talking for a while now and I'm afraid to let my parents know because I'm not allowed to date until I'm 18 but I'm afraid that if I make him wait I will lose him. I really love him and want to keep seeing him he ...

I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex,

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm nearly sixteen and I'm so scared of having sex, although I haven't got a boyfriend, the thought of it just scares me. If I got into the situation, I wouldn't have a clue what to do, it's not like I ever have boyfriends or stuff because my ...

My boyfriend is super shy!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is SUPER shy, and I don't know why! Like before we started going out we would talk ALL the time and now its just like...i dont even know. When he is around his friends he talks all the time and is really funny! And i like him alot, but ...

He likes to chat with other girls online and says I have nothing to worry about...????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - good evening I don't know how to say that and I know I am an understandable person but it really bothers me that my boyfriend likes to chat with other girls online and when I told him how do I feel about that, he assures me that there is ab...

We have had a sexual relationship for 4 years now, what in the world could be his problem? Why don't we advance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - i have had a sexual relationship with a man for over 4 yrs now and in a recent conversation i made a coment to him stating that i feel i "scare him". not to say i am a scary type of woman but because of the type of person that i am. he kind sorta ...

I might move out of state and I'm scared of losing her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about going on 3 years. Her parents deceased.... lived with aunt... lived with me... because of my mom's problems(anxiety).. she moved to best friend's house(girl), an hour away...(I don't drive... both 18 ...

My close friend who fancies my boyfriend threw a fit, is this my problem?

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29 November 2008 (F) - Hey Im in a pickle ive just started going with someone. I really like him. We went out together for the first time and my close friend whos been depressed lately kept hugging me and pulling me away and crying on me WHILE I WAS WITH HIM. I was gett...

She said she wants to make out but doesn't know how to initiate it, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - My gf and i have been together for nearly nine months. We love eachother very much, however, because of her previous relationships (this is my first), it has taken her along time to be intimate with me, and she knows this. I've respected her wishes ...

Dilemma!!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - Friends, Me and my English girlfriend decided to get married in Jan 09. Our love started 4 years back and thats why we decided to get married after living together. I came to India in Jan 08 because of expiry of visa. Being in India, I was renovati...

Do boys like it when girls call them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Do boys like when girls call them? ...

My boyfriend insulted my colored hair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I am very angry and upset with my boyfriend. We were out with some friends of his at a bar. They commented on my colored hair. I dyed it black. My original hair is dark brown almost black. My boyfriend said I reminded him of Rosie O'Donnel...

I like a girl that beat me academically, and I dissed her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - Here is my problem; first, I have a girl I liked before. When I got beaten on GPA by her, I have been cold toward her, I ignored her whenever she asked or said something to me. But recently I thinking of her a lot; make me harder to breathe whenever ...

Wanted to get married and made HUGE mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and I had been together for five years, but he always changed the subject when I brought up marriage. One night, I broke down and told him that I thought we should either get married or split up, but he didn't respond well to the ...

How do I show a girl I'm interested?

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29 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 14 and in 9th grade. In elementary school I was a bit nerdy but in middle school when I started changing my look I became more attractive and less nerdy. However I could not get any girls in my school because they remembered how I used to ...

Does my roommate's friend like me?

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29 November 2008 (F) - I just moved in with a room-mate of mine and her friend used to come over every once in a while. Since I moved in he's been coming over regularly. Does this mean that he likes me or am I crazy? ...

What to do if a boy is flirting with other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - If your boyfriend is flirting with other girls , does that mean that he likes them or no???? What should I do?...

He doesn't sound as if he means it, when he says I'm sexy, how do I increase his desire for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we're getting really serious. He tells me how I'm beautiful, sexy and a lot of other stuff but he doesn't seem like he thinks that I'm as sexy and hot as he says. What can i do to make him want me more?...

Seeing his ex behind my back, can I ever trust him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are both 25 years old (The age on my profile doesn't update for some reason). We recently broke up because I found out by going through his computer that he has been seeing his ex behind my back for ...

I'd love to try anal but it hurts!!! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - And it's not b/c my boyfriend wants it, either--I'm single anyway. Anyhow, since I was like 16 I have always had an interest in anal, but it's too painful whenever i try to do it with an average sized toy! Is there anything I can do? I've tried l...

I feel like I'm falling apart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - This is quite complicated but I will shorten it to my best ablilty. Basically I met this guy. We have met once previously a few years ago, but the contact this time was purely online. I find it a safe medium for me as I am still coming to terms ...

I got a job and he's gone all quiet on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriend has split up with me, but hasn't told me. I saw him a week ago, when he said he would text me the following day but he didn't. I have thought for a while something was a bit 'off' but thought he would eventually open up as to ...

Miscarriage???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months. we haven't been having sex long but I think I'm pregnant even though we used a condom but it broke. I truly do love my boyfriend with all that I have and I really want to marry...

How Do I Convince Him????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - Okay, here goes...I'm used to doing the answering, but I am feeling troubled right now, and there are so many wise Aunts out there, I've decided to reach out... I am in a LDR, very long 3,000 miles. We have visited each other and fallen in love. I...