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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm dating an older man but falling for his son who's my age.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few months who's alot older than me. Recently I've been spending alot of time with his son who is my age. I've found myself developing feelings for him but don't know what to do....

What should I say or do to get my necklace back without being suspicious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this new guy for a few months now, and we are doing really good so far. I have recently found myself in an awkward position though and I need some help. I am best friends with my ex-boyfriend (don't worry he has a girl now) and we ...

I don't want to come off as clingy, so what's the next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - hey i recently posted http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-i-still-have-a-chance.html and no one seemed to reply. i have: I rang him today, and asked him out on Tuesday, he said he didn't know what he is doing for Tuesday so I just ne...

Leave it or wait and approach her in person in the near future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I saw a colleague from work on an online dating site.I don't really know her other than to say hello to.But I get the impression she likes me. I decided and reasoned out that rather than ask her out directly at work,I would join the site and...

I don't want to be a 40 year old virgin! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I am in my late 30s and have never had a girlfriend. When I was younger I was painfully shy and suffered extreme anxiety in social situations. I have now overcome a lot of my shyness and have gained a lot of confidence just through life experience, ...

We've been flirting non-verbally... when is the right time to get verbal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Hi all, I like a bloke in class and he likes me. We haven't spoken yet, we dont see each other very often, since he doesnt come to classes regularly. We have had eye contact so far, but the first couple days I knew he liked me (him flirting with me ...

My friends say it's time for me to date, but I don't like anyone enough.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - my friends say it's time for me to date but i can't find anyone that i like enough that likes me back. wut should i do?...

How can I look attractive or am I screwed for the rest of my teen years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Im not really wanting a relationship right now but I still not 100% on why girls don't like me. Right im a bit chubby but hey a lot of people are. I've got light blue eyes and thick blonde hair, I play rugby so im not out of shape. Is there any way ...

Should I text him to say I miss him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Hi Aunts/Uncles I went out with this guy for a month in September, things were amazing, I really liked him and lost my virginity to him. It was my first proper relationship. We broke up just after we turned one month, he dumped me by text and stil...

My friend has told me we're just friends yet he goes all weird whenever I talk about my dates.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I have had an interest in my best male friend for a while now. I have been honest with him about my feelings and we still maintain a friendship. He has said he does not have romantic feelings for me. Recently I have begun dating someone else and ...

How can I orgasm easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Recently me and my boyfriend have started penetrative sex, we both talked it over and stuff (we were both virgins and we are using protection) personally I love it... and with him he gets really sad because he thinks he not doing it correctly, he's ...

We've set our wedding date but I'm having second thoughts about it all...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I am engaged to be married in 2010. Everything in our life is perfect except for a few things that are HUGE in my eyes. We enjoy doing the same things, our family and friends are perfect and everyone gets along very well and we have the same ...

I think my boyfriend is seeing someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and he tells me he loves me and how he wants to settle down with me, have kids ect.. but I still have that feeling he is seeing someone else.. He is very secretive and won't let me near his ...

How hard do you have to be to penetrate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - How hard do you have to be to penetrate? Usually when my gf gives me oral for example, at the beginning I'm not that hard but as you get into the motion you become more and more hard, however you can't apply the same trick to sex because if you're ...

She says he won't get to see his child if he ever leaves him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a guy who has a bbaby mama. She threatens him with not being able to see his baby if he leave her. He's not happy at all but he's scared to leave... I love him so much I have his name tatooed on my body and I want to become his ...

What should I do... give this new guy a go or get back with my ex ????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Arghhh I'm so confused, so let me explain my problem to you then. well .... My ex boyfriend still likes me and wants me back, and I was considering it, But now there's this other lad that likes me. But the thing is I don't know what to do because,...

My friends tell me to run from him but I don't see him in that light at all...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a little dilemma. I met this guy online and we hit it off from the very first meeting. I told him from the start that I was not looking for anything serious and just wanted someone to have fun and a casual relationship wit...

I want without my parents negatively judging me for it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years. I'm 23 (almost 24) and he's 25. He works for an airline company and is always saying we should go places and travel, especially since it's free for us. I would love to travel, but my parents are very ...

How can I decide? I feel like I love them both!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I have been searching everywhere for answers and it appears I'm not alone by the postings I have read... My problem is this, I thought I loved my Girlfriend who I have been going out with for over 8 years. We get on quite well; we have similar vie...

She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live togethe...

They won't let her leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend needs out of where she lives. She's in Germany, 19, with people (very bad kind) and she wants out. She's a U.S. citizen but the people she lives with won't let her leave. They have her passport, it's abusive there. She's scar...

Is this a serious relationship or am I just going to get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I'm wondering if the relationship is going anywhere with my guy. He has told me he doesnt want a girlfriend in the past but I wonder if things have changed. We have been dating 7 mths now. We are exclusive and everything feels like I'm in a ...

Is there a right way to have sex and what mood should we do it in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 2 years and I really love him and we know we're both ready to move onto the next step of our relationship, we both know about protection and all that but is there a right way to have sex? or is it bad to plan out ...

She wants me to take her to meet my parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I need help please. I met a lady and we became friends. We exchanged contacts and on the same day she text me saying "I love you dear" I replied thank you. After a week she told me she wanted to visit me. She came and we had sweeet k...

Is he ashamed to take me out in public or just simply scared that someone else might come along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. We've always been very close and honest with each other. But recently it seems like he's ashamed to take me out anywhere, or even show me affection in front of family. I've told him that a ...

Was I right in dumping him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - I am a 20 year old female. I was in a relationship with a guy for 6 months. We were friends for around a year before that. During the course of our friendship I came to get to know both the good and bad sides of his personality. We worked on a few ...

We have finally split up for what I thought was for good. I feel that I have made a massive mistake but when we were together I was so unhappy. I am just so confused :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - my partner ( now ex ) and i have been together for 6 years on and off we have finally split up for what i thought was for good and that i wanted now he has really gone and moving on i feel that i have made a massive mistake but when we were together ...

I am new in this relationship thing. I have this beautiful young girlfriend, but I don't see anythin happening between us. What do I do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - hi i am new in this relationship thing. am 19yrs. i just started dating this year september. i have this beautiful young girlfriend. she is new to this dating thing too. we are in the same class. i sent her an sms telling her that i dont see anyt...

After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. I want her to stop drinking so much. But how ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I love being with my girlfriend. We have a ton of fun together and rarely fight. After 5 years I've noticed that she is only affectionate after a few drinks. A few drinks is daily lately so in the mornings and afternoons she seems distant; makes me ...

I've got a new partner but she wants me to use protection and I respect that, problem is when ever I try to use protection I can not get it up !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I've got a new partner but she wants me to use protection and I respect that with her as normally most girls ive been with just dont really care about protection. Only problem is when ever I try to use protection I can not get it up...is this ...

My boyfriend has cancer and he is doing kemo. I think I am pregnant. Is that bad for the baby ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has cancer and he is doing kemo. but we still have unprotected sex and now i think i am pregnant. is that bad for the baby what should i do?...

How long should I wait before asking her to go steady?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - Alright so just wondering here, I've never really been in a relationship, all I've had to date is various flings. Currently I'm having a thing with a girl who has had two relationships, both lasted more than a couple years. I know she sees...

I know its normally men that do this to women, but in my case I have been wronged. Why do women do this to men? Can woman attack men legally like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I was a recently engaged to a woman who i have been with for the past year and a half. Our relationship has always been somewhat turbulent, due to many extensive factors, however the majority being her unwillingness to find a job, her desire to use ...

Am I just a sexual pervert or am I bi or gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I don't think I have a problem, I just need to understand myself. I'm middle aged and as straight as they come. However, I have recently started a sexual relationship with an oriental 'ladyboy' She still has a penis, but boobs, long hair, pretty ...

He needs a nick-name. Any suggestions ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - ok, so my boyfriend calls me all these nick names and keeps talking about how i don't really have one for him.But I want the nickname for him to be special, maybe having something to do with the first time we met.We met at a campsite and start ...

Should I ask her out ?Or because shes fooled around in the past, does it seem I'm just going to be a time consumer in her eyes ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - I have been talking to a girl recently, and she doesn't live to far away from me. We've hung out a few times, and the times we have we couldn't get our hands off each other. It was pretty much just flirting/cuddling/ and kissing the whole time. I ...

She has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend however everytime we talk she talks about how she has thought about us being together in the future ! What do I make of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (M) - So ok... In my last question i asked if i should let go of the girl i love with all of my heart right. well here is an update and a new question... she has told me that she is happy with her new boyfriend, however everytime we talk she talks about ...

Do guys like girls with wide hips and small boobs

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

17 November 2008 (?) - Do guys like girls with wide hips and small boobs? Because thats how i am. I like me and i wouldnt change anything. But if i get together with a guy...do you think he'll lke my body?...

I don't think she is ready for more than kisses. How do I convince her though?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

17 November 2008 (?) - ok so me and this girl have been together for a good amount of time now. i was her 1st kiss. i personaly am ready for more but i dont think she is. how do i get her to do more then just kiss? im ready for like a hj or anything actually haha. i just ...

We're on a break because I told him I went on a date with another early on. Are we over? Should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

17 November 2008 (F) - Ok someone please give me some insight on this situation. I was talking marriage with this guy I have been with for almost 9 months. Well he said he wanted me to explore other options before I settle for him. I said no I didn't want to. He asked me ...