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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend hasnt been saying much when we text each other latley and on his website he posted "slowly dieing" but he hasnt told me any thing was wrong and we have been with each other for a year should i be worreid? Should i bring up the post when we talk on the phone or well texting? Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): So I take it morbid posts like this one are not the norm for him? Def give him time to come to you. Could be a slew of issues. Has he suffered with depression at all? Could be family problems. If he is acting standoffish for a while, seems to be withdrawn from you but is not confiding in you, it could be indicative of problems in your relationship. perhaps he is conflicted? an ex has returned? has developed feelings for someone else? or is simply having doubts about your relationship? Either way, even if it has nothing to do with you, the fact that he doesn't feel close enough to confide in you after a year is reason enough for you both to examine the relationship.
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Yes, honestly it sounds like he's going through some sort of moment. I don't want to worry you but it seems like it may have something to do with you. You said he hasn't been texting you much lately, yes! when somebody is getting disinterested in their mate, that person tends to reply with brief words and avoids prolonging the conversation. The post may be referring to you so I would advise you to question him about it but in a gentle way and carefully study his behavior. He may be over you or getting annoyed by you or may be into somebody else and may not be willing to hurt your feelings. If I'm right, he may be giving you clues and hoping that you instead get annoyed by his recent attitude so you do the dumping. Just my opinion though. I do wish you the best of luck, honestly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): He will tell you when he's ready and if he keeps posting more things like that just ask him in a nice caring way
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): talk to him. ask him why he's slowly dying. try not to worry though, you're probably over reacting,
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reader, oneguy +, writes (28 January 2011):
Dieing.. means he's coloring a piece of cloth or his hair Missie..
Alright just ask him what he means. I don't understand why women are sometimes so passive in relationships. They ought to be more active, aggressive, and take initiative.
Ask him in person, nothing like it.
Don't worry, all will be fine!
Cheers!
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