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Either make me your girlfriend or leave me alone?

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Question - (8 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *nastasiya writes:

Hello so Ive been dating this guy for almost 2 years and not to long ago we went back to campus of our school. And all the sudden he brks up w me but acts like nothing happened and invites me over keeps in touch but less and also hangs w his friends more. And when they are busy he calls me!When i tell him that i dont like this and im going to cut all the communication with him because i dont want to be in this weird relationship to this he replies " but im not acting single dont you like how I treat you...?"I dont really know what to do, couse I want him to either be w me as with his GF or to leave me alone! And so far nothing worked!

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (9 October 2009):

QuirkLady agony auntTell him no, you don't like how he treats you, and since you're broken up you're off to find a man who treats you better. He's your ex now and you don't have to pay him any attention at all. You are not second best or a fallback option when nothing else is around, and YOU need to stop accepting this treatment. People treat us as we allow them too.

Stand up for yourself and good luck.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (9 October 2009):

xanthic agony auntWhy would you want him to be your boyfriend? It sounds like he doesn't treat you right at all, and only wants to speak to you when it's convenient. Move on and find someone else, someone that will treat you with respect.

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