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writes: I have been talking to this guy, he's 22 and I am 18. The age difference scares me since I have never dated some one that much older that me. He has had two serious relationships and I haven't had any. He also has had sex and me I'm still a virgin. All this scares me since he is so much more experienced than me.ok getting to my point, I find myself having little conversation with him, he tells me to say and ask anything I would like. he makes me feel very comfortable and reminds me he will wait till I open up.I would like to get to now him and vise versa,but I don't where to start.am I thinking this way to hard? Any suggestions? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): yes your thinking way to hard. im 15yrs old and i went out with a 37yr old yes illegal i know but what can i say i realy caredd for him. now im in love with a guy whose only 35yrs old. i know that we cant be together physically until im 18yrs but i still love him. i know what you mean about opening up girlfriend he isnt that much older than you!!! seriously. open up to him yeah hes more experienced but soon youll get over that i know i did. it takes time opening up tell him that and tell him you would love to talk to him its just hard and let him hold you tight and just slowly ease your thoughts outta your mouth let him know who you really are and what your really about. falling in love for the 1st time is a great experience im still in love ive been dating my bf for almost 8 months 2mrw makes 8 and damn i still feel the same way i did the 1st time i met him. open up to him you wont regret it all he can do is help and if hes wanting you to open up do i know it takes time it took me 4ever. i waited 4months to date him. i have anxiety and abandoment issues. and if i could do it so can you try opening up to him you never know you could possibly find your life partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionClarifying what I wrote... He is not my boyfriend... Yet We're just getting to know each other. (Let me add that we both like each other)And we haven't had sex we just talked about if we were virgins or not. Maye it is too soon to be talking about that, but it's weird I feel really comfortable with this guy, but I have trouble opening up. Is it just me thinking thing over way to hard or is he not giving me a reason to open up? And if so should I tell him something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): He's just your friend and you're already talking sex with him? why? Don't do it yet if you're not comfortable and so you like him? I'm confused. Is he just your friend or new boyfriend? Because if he's your boyfriend then that's a different story but if he's just your friend, then you guys shouldn't be talking about sex, that's private, unless you guys are friends with benefits. The experience and you not having any doesn't really matter, you'll get the experience in time. Don't hurry up so much, I don't know why you're scared to talk to him, it's not like he's gonna rape you or something. Unless you're thinking of going to bed with him and your nervous if that's what you mean, but other than that. It shouldn't matter, he wouldn't mind (I think). anyway, 18 and 22 isn't that much of an age difference. You're both adults. And guys usually mature later than girls, anyway.
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