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female
age
51-59,
*ozzie
writes:Me and my boyfriend are driving and his phone keeps ringing, he asked me to answer if I wanted. I did and it was a female who says she had the wrong number. I questioned who she was calling for and she said her cousin gave her the number. I asked who was her cousin and it turns out he is a mutual friend of mine and my boyfriends. She hung up after asking who I was. Later I saw a voicemail and 2 text messages. The messages were for my boyfriend to call, that this person had news that was going to blow his mind. The voicemail was a cousin of the female bashing him for being a liar and cheat and demanding that he come clean to her cousin. I confronted him and he says these people are playing games, and are not important. He says he had something with this person prior to us, and she is still hanging on. The cousin says that the two of them have been intimate, and that she is very hurt and crying that he has not been honest with her. I asked what where his intentions and he says to let it go and remain with me, that I should not allow them get to me, because they just want to break us up. The cousin later calls him again to bash him and lies about things she claims I told her. Should I believe them and dump him, or trust him and let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2009): rozzie, don't put all your eggs in one basket. where the is smoke there is fire. no matter how lovey dovey the situation is now something is not right with this scenario. people do not call and bash you continuously on the phone for nothing, something happened, that he doesn't want to come clean about.
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reader, Rozzie +, writes (7 December 2009):
Rozzie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well I trusted him, and it was worth it. He came in last night and I was sleeping, he cooked and fed me and we cuddled and slept while it rained outside. He is really affectionate when it comes to me, and he is patient considering all my insecurities. I give him a hard time, because of something that did happen in the beginning of our relationship.
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reader, Rozzie +, writes (4 December 2009):
Rozzie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. I will trust him. I do love him and I feel its mutual. He is an adorable guy and has been hurt in the past by women not trusting him when he was being honest. i will give him the benefit of the doubt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): if you had not mentioned about the cousin saying you had said things which arnt true, i would have said that your boyfriend had been up to no good. keep a close eye because this all sounds fishy, ... no smoke without fire
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 I think that because the cousin is telling lies about you, that your best bet would be to believe him for the time being.
If it all gets too hard a little down the track, and you still have doubts, reconsider your options.
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