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36-40,
*arm
writes:We were together for 4 years. I see her frequently. It seems like we're dating again exclusively, but she "doesn't want a boyfriend right now." So, she started talking dirty to me one night, and we got into it. It was weird at first, so I stopped. She became disappointed. We got into it again later and it was absolutely savage. She plays on my fantasies still, and the sex was really good...But she says she's not my girlfriend. What's the deal? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 December 2009):
 You simply have to be her best lover and best friend and let it happen naturally.
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reader, Garm +, writes (3 December 2009):
Garm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, but how do I turn this back into a relationship?
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reader, Illithid +, writes (3 December 2009):
 Sometimes a girl just wants to be Friends with Benefits. If she likes the sex but says she isn't interested in being in a relationship, it's probably that simple. Women can want no-strings-attached sex just the same as men can.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (3 December 2009):
The deal is that she does not want to commit.
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