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I am only 17 so I told her I was older

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Question - (3 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *onitation writes:

OK story time! Here I go... I met a girl the other day who I got along well with and we have been messaging back and forth since; she is 19. I feel like an ass I said I was 18 when I'm really only 17; anyways I am going to be 18 in like 3 months. I couldn’t take the misrepresentation and sent her a message that explained that I lied and that I am sorry for lying. She responded with a message that said that “...ur just 2 young, but we can be friends…” (Haven’t heard that whole we can be friends thing before *roles eyes*) but then she said “…i still havnt thought it over fully yet so maybe there is a chance…” we talked later and she said that she is happy I told her. She also said it was awkward but not because I was 17. I don’t understand that what she meant there…

Was it because I lied?

OK also the main question here is not am I an idiot for lying in the first place (which I know I am…) but whether or not you think I even have a chance to get back with her, or has my age lie just totally screwed me.

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A male reader, conitation United States +, writes (4 December 2009):

conitation is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you for the response.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

i think that she actually likes you. i think when she said that it was awkward she meant that she likes you but you are two young and maybe she knows you like her, so it would be weird. if she flirts with you and you two have a good time then flirt back! boys will never know how a girl brain works so sometimes its good to ask for a girls opinion!

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