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writes:"Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen"...I think the guy I like is doing this to me, cuz the past few weeks he was really attentive towards me and showing huge interest..then all of a sudden he is ignoring me...I also think he got this advice from friends...so I assume they want me to chase him..but what exactly am I suppose to do? I have no clue really, except to try to go and talk to him, but when he has friends around it makes it so much harder...theres only 5 more days of school left til the quarter is over...and I really don't know what to do....him not looking at me/ignoring me makes me even more nervous to go talk to him...I really like this guy and I'm not trying to play games if thats what i probably made him feel...what should I do?Well I think the reason his friends told him to do this is becuz I guess all this time he was showing huge interest in me and I didn't do much of anything but sit and watch...I was really waiting for him to make a move...so they probably thought I was playing games...and although he is trying to ignore/not look at me, I can still feel the warmth...like deep down I can feel he cares..I assume he just wants me to prove my liking for him, and i'm not sure exactly what to do except try to talk to him Reply to this Question
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (3 December 2009):
 Let's see 5 days till the end of the Quarter, It is just possible that he is too busy cramming for finals, and packing for Christmas break. What if he is in a LDR with someone back home? Or he may just have decided it wasn't a good relationship for him. After a "few weeks" relationship he probably doesn't feel a need to explain himself to you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 December 2009):
Don't fall for this trick. Try talking to him and asking him why he's suddenly acting this way. If he continues, get rid of him before he treats you worse. Do not tolerate being treated like crap, because you're better than that. Ask him why he is treating you this way.
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