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writes:hey guys and girls. my name is amanda. im new to this site, im 14 and hopelessly in love with a guy who has a girlfriend. this guy, we'll call him andy, has a girlfriend but hes in love with both of us. he chooses her over me but hes so adorable and we always talk on the phone till 12 at night and so on.....he is amazing and we love each other. he means more than my own life to me. i want to get him something for christmas but he doesnt want me to because of his girlfriend...but i wanna show my love for him..what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): yes its hopeless! first you are 14! you have so many years to deal with boys! you respect him to much and he doesn't respect you at all! make yourself happy and love will follow! this guy is a jerk and you deserve better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): hey .. im 14 too ... im actually kinda in the same situation. but if he loves you then why did he choose his gf over you ??? and please dont say that you love him more than your own life .. that statement scares me!! what i think you should do is tell him exactly how you feel and let him prove his love to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): well im 14 too ... im also in the same situation .. but if he loves you then why does he choose his gf over you?? and please dont say you love him more than your own life ... that statement scares me !!!! we both still have alot of growing up to do...
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (26 December 2009):
 I hate to say it, more so because you won't want to hear it, but boys will come and go. He has a girlfriend and you are ultimately hurting their relationship together. If you cannot maintain a "strictly friends" relationship then I would honestly walk away from him. I know you do not want to hear that but its true. Enjoy your life, and if its meant to be then he will break up with his gf and be with you, but don't get your hopes up and don't be the one to break them up. He can figure out what he wants for himself, and while he's in a relationship, you shouldn't be in the middle of it. I'm sorry I had to say all this, but it needed to be said. Please enjoy your life, I know it seems like he's the only one for you right now,but you would be surprised at how quickly that can change. Good luck honey, best wishes for you.
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