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writes:I have just come back from a wonderful 3 week holiday in New zealand, where i had an amazing fling of 2 weeks with an amazing girl( a friend of a friend)I am now back in UK but she is talking about me moving out to NZ, getting a job, be together etcI am mad about her but is she rushing things?. How does she really know she wants to be with me after a 2 week fling? Is it too good to be true? etc We are both 37 with no kids. Does anyone have any thoughts on this situation?thx Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 New Zealand is a beautiful and wonderful place. I'm pretty sure most everyone wants to live there anyways. Why not take another holiday and see what happens?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (23 December 2009):
 Theres no such thing as rushing things. Its simply all about how much your really into each other.
I'd suggest going on a holiday there first, NZ is very different than the UK, very beautiful, but can get bloody boring, and its a hell of a long way from all your friends and family. If you can, spend three months with her on a tourist holiday visa and see how it goes from there.
Whle your there go see an immighration laywer to learn about the process of immigrating to NZ. or at least start looking into the possibility now. this should also clear a lot of things up.
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