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anonymous
writes:Ive just recently started a new job. Me and the manager being very close he knows everything about me and my history of abuse and current abusive situation with my family. It was agreed during holidays i would come work for him to get some extra money (bar work). But over this last term at uni we have grew closer. he is married though. So i was determinded we werent going to do anything and we have both been very restraint. he is 8years older than me. But the other ngiht we kissed more than once. and we both want more. but i dnt want him to leave his wife for me. not just yet. my family wud literally kill me. and i want to get through uni. But i love him. and he say he loves me. What do we do?Do we continue? have sex? or should we back down now. before things go to far. wat do i do? I love him and want him to be in my bed at night not his wives and to not have to hush every time his wife rings
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): do not have sex with home. he is just abusing your situation
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (25 December 2009):
 He doesn´t sound like he loves his wife at all!! He´s cheating on her!!!! How can you do that to someone you love?!!
Anyway, why would you WANT a man who runs around on his wife? What does that say about his character? I´m sorry because I don´t mean to hurt you, but you need to avoid this guy... he´s a pig. I know you love him, but when emotions get in the way, we can´t see people for what they are. I am really sorry because I know my answer might hurt you but I feel that it´s important to be honest and direct. Look for someone unattached... run, don´t walk from this guy. He´s trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2009): are you kiddin?? you love him and didnt have sex yet?? what a joke!! not only are you headed for a major collision but your also being played!! you are one of those woman who give "good women" a bad name!! you made yourself vulnerable by telling him about your abusive past and so now he knows your vulnerability,its now a ticket for him to get a free ride at your expense. trust me if you think your past is bad...well...you might want to add this collision along with all the abuse you've already experience. you've heard the saying,"it's cheaper to keep her!" well,unfortunately,you will not be worth him losing his family!! you are just merely a fling to him. so do yourself a favor if you dont want to get hurt again!!!
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reader, Lovesux31  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Why would you even put yourself in that sort of situation?? Are there not enough single men out there that you can get... He's already shown you that he is a DOG by messing with you! So, I guess you want to try to train this dog to be faithful to you huh? Well lets see what happens! If he can't even stand by his vows(under god) to his wife, what kind of a man is he?? I'm going to say this and so what if someone gets offended... If you want to mess with that married man, go ahead!! You'll get all you deserve honey! "lay down with a dog, wake up with fleas" lmao!!
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Hi...SEX will not bless you with pleasure, but you will feel some other unknown excitement, mistake it to be 'sex pleasure', this story will end with 'tragedy'.
I suggest you to correct mistake, there are many female and male who do the same mistake.But, it is female who has to suffer the most.
Sex need clean and honest relationship...please remember this till you live.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 You do nothing.
He is married, and you are just the other woman.
Unless he is in an open relationship where you get to meet his wife, then wake up and realize that if he were really unhappy at home, he would have left his wife regardless if you came into his life or not.
-Frank
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Read My Lips:
It is highly unlikely that this man will leave his wife for you, and if it looks like you are not prepared to hush when his wife rings you will be Dumped with a capital "D".
Do yourself a favour,and have nothing more to do with him
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