I did nothing while we were on a break, but now he says it's over because he thinks I cheated!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I broke up on Saturday over a heated argument, he went out that night and mingled with other females and enjoyed hiself according to my friends. He also reactivated his facebook account, which is something that we got rid of because it put a strain on our relationship.We didnt communicate until monday and it was via txt because I wanted to talk things over with him. He was really acting shady he keep telling me to wait he was still with his friends and that he wasnt ready yet, i was fine wit it because i didnt want to seem like i was pressing him. An old friend called me and invited me over to listen to some music that him and his band members made so I went over and there were other people there including one of my boyfriends more recently good friends. Nothing at all sexual went on because it was more or a get together rather than a one on one. But of course this mutual friend went back to my boyfriend rather x boyfriend because i beleive that we broke up on Sat and told him that i talk to this old friend. Which is bogus to me. When my boyfriend heard this he had a field day calling me everything in the book including telling me that i had sex with my friend, and many more things. He also told me that though we were on a break it was really over at this point and that i played him good. I honestly did nothing with my frienda, i didnt even hug him. I dont no what to do? Or say.... At some points I cry because i feel like i have lost the love of my life. But is he really worth it because he took there word over mine. Please Help! I miss him but I think I can do without his childish ways when it comes to this situation.

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