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writes:I let someone write a text to my girl.The words they wrote were hurtful but they were not mines and I do not want to lose her because of the the words written by the other person.I love her more than life itself an that's no lie. I just don't know what to do to mend the broken heart she is feeling.
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reader, Gossamer  +, writes (9 April 2009):
You should explain exactly what happened, making sure you emphasise that what you did was stupid and you really regret it now.
Let her know how much she means to you.
A great way to apologize would be to write her a really sincere, remorseful 'sorry' note and buy her a bunch of beautiful flowers.
Of course, there's a chance that she won't forgive you - be prepared for this possibility!
If she rejects you, at least you know you did the best you could to make amends, and you've learned from your mistake...which will ultimately make your future relationships happier and more successful!
The sooner you take action, the better your chances.
Good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): what do u mean u let someone write a text to ur girl ?
did he send it from ur phone or did u tell him to write a msg ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): 1. Why did you let your friends write her a message?2. You should have asked to read it BEFORE they sent itand you'll just have to tell her that it wasn't your words and that your mates sent it to her. Just try and talk to her about it make her understand or realise it wasn't you. If she doesn't believe you get your mates to tell her that it was them acting like buffoons. Don't let them ruin your relationship with her, especially if you love her.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (9 April 2009):
 why did you let someone else write a message to her then, its stupid. she deserves better than you, get over it, and let her move on and find someone else who wont let people hurt her.
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