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writes:Hello,Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything,how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if anything did happen unexpectedly then he would like what he see's down there.Thank you, Let me know your ideas please (: Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much everyone that helped.becaus ethe majority said shave or trim , i shaved and my boyfriend put his hand down me and he prefers shaven pubes and was quite open!im so glad you helped me and dont relise why i made such a fuss because your right he doesnt mind very much!the only problem is now i get red bumps on my vaginal area above my vagina lips. could you help me on how to get rid of this please thankyou!
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reader, kissxmexagainx  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 I have a lot of respect for you for saying that you're not ready for sex. so many young girls on here think they are && make bad decisions. when the time is right, I'm sure you'll know it.
I wouldn't worry too much about it. if you want, trim the hair shorter && shave/wax your bikini line. that way you'll be neat && tidy. if you would rather go completely natural, then do that. if you would rather go Brazilian [completely shaved/waxed] then do that. just make sure you're comfortable with whatever you do =]
I'm sure he won't be turned off by a little hair. for some guys it's actually a turn-on.
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reader, Niema.x  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 just make sure its nice and tidy and clean and he shouldnt have a problem. However , if you dont want to fully shave it make sure its trimmed. It really depends on preference. x
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reader, mylassie10 +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Hey. Well im very open about this topic and ive had a lot of conversations with guys about what they like and they all said they liked shaved girls not that it has to be completely shaven but i would bet most guys would not want to see a bush lol and I know I wouldn't want my guy to have a bush either. You could go about asking him in a light way like if your on the topic of something sexual you could bring it up and be like, does it matter to you if a girl shaves or not? And make sure your ready. Your young and its normal to let your bf do that but don't feel pressured and make sure you want him to do it.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (9 April 2009):
 I dont think you need to even bring this up, you should keep your hair down there however you want. You need to be comfortable with it therefore dont change it just for a guy!
I suggest you just keep it trimmed and tidy the sides (bikini line). This means it will be a happy medium - not quite shaven but nice and tidy! That way there will be no suprises for him but also you will be comfortable with it too.
I hope you will wait a little while longer, you are still too young to be having sex and you really should wait a good few months into your relationship before you take things further, sex should be a really special moment between two people who love each other. And if this guy does really love you, then he wont care what your hair looks like down there!
I'm sure he is already very attracted to you so it wont be a big deal when you do come to having sex, just make sure you are comfortable with the way it looks! If you do shave it and then you decide you dont like it, you will have some very uncomfortable re-growth and stubble. So dont go changing yourself for a guy - he should love you the way you are!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (9 April 2009):
Sweetheart the only girls he will have seen are in porn so don't ask him what he thinks is normal.
As long as there isn't any peeping out from the sides of your pants then just stay as you are.
You don't need to try and live up to some weird ideal designed for porn stars.
Trim if you want but just pick a method and style down there that YOU like and stick with that.
You wouldn't ask him what kind of lip gloss he likes so why ask him what kind of hair cut you need?
Good Luck!! xx
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