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writes:Just over 3 years ago i found out i was pregnant. I assumed the father was the guy i was sleeping with and not my husband. I left my husband to be with my new man. In this time i suffered with depression and was seeing a counsellor, i ended up pushing the father away and got back with my husband. 3 yrs later and i have split with my husband and now just contacted the (possible) father again. Quite surprisingly he sent me a msg back and we have had a few nights of shopping msgs. He has said he doesn't think he wants anything to do with either of us and that he never loved anyone before or since like he loved me. I know i still love him but i don't know what to do next? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo i didnt. The fact that my husband n I had been trying for 5 years led me to believe who the father was. I am getting a DNA test done in a couple of months
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): you assumed the father was your lovers and not your husband's but did you actually verify it? did you get proof?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Livia. Appreciate the advice. Hope it works x
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (11 April 2009):
 Send him messages explaining that it was a hard time in your life and you didn't really know what you were doing but it has made you realise that you love him and hes the one you want to be with.
He loved you and he got hurt, he is probs scared of it happening again, make sure he feels secure with being with you, set up some dates where you can be with your child together, explain to him no matter what happens between you and him your child needs a father in their life.
Good luck
Livia
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