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writes:so ok i know this is bad i mean real bad but ive dated this guy for a long time....but after our anniversary i found out he was cheating on me, and i know theres the phrase once a cheater always a cheater but i still love him alot and me and him and kinda dating not really but its under radar...i mean i dont know i know in my head i should go my own way...but my heart wants to stay with him because i love him so much i really do...i mean whats wrong with me?!
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (9 September 2008):
 Hi Hunny
You have to ask yourself if you really want to go through this over and over again, The way your question is put he has been cheating for awhile. Have you spoken about this have you asked him why, You wont find anything out if you two dont talk...It sounds as if your inbetween the relationship at this moment, I would ask him everything and what led up to this sweetheart. If this was me then I dont think I would want to go back into a relationship love as trust is the most important thing, And in your heart could you ever trust again...Ask yourself some questions love if you two do get back together will you be happy or are you going to feel insecure if he is not around and wondering what he is doing as that is not a good healthy relationship and you are worth more than that..YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, The Listener +, writes (9 September 2008):
 I hate the phrase once a cheater, always a cheater, because i know from experience that it is not true. However, this is dependant on the individual and only you know what this guy is like. Have you talked about WHY he cheated on you? If he feels he is not getting something out of the relationship, it may be something you can fix together and prevent it from happening again. Admittedly he should have talked to you first to try and sort out any problems, but not all people are bright sparks. Either that or unfortunatley he is one of many men who just want women for their own seedy desires and he is no good for you, but i think this is something you need to decide after talking with him about it.Good luck with everything, i hope it all turns out well.
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