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How can I tease my boyfriend?

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Question - (9 September 2008) 14 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2011)
A female United States age 22-25, *aTy101 writes:

i need your help on this one, how can i tease my bf, i am new at this...and at this, he always finds a way to tease me by pulling my hair or pinching me slightly, but i can never seem to do so myself, i mean i return a pinch,, but what more else can i do, i want him to feel sexual... so any tips??

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A female reader, LucyLuuu United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2011):

I'm still a virgin although my boyfriend is in fact NOT a virgin. I'm not ready to have sex yet but I like to tease him a bit just to satisfy him until I'm ready :)

What I do is I straddle him, gently start kissing him and trail my tongue across his top lip then start making out with him a little. Then kiss along his jawline slowly whilst breathing against his neck and gently start biting, this gets him a little frisky hehe. Then I start biting harder on his neck and varying between gentle and hard bites with little flicks of my tongue. I also grind against him whilst on top of whilst doing all of this and dragging my nails up and down his body to his pant line.

Drives him CRAAAZY. He starts grabbing my ass, moaning lightly and digging his nails into my back. Very good stuff yet simple ;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010):

I have found out that with my history with guys is that first off they are turned on by making out with them and when you do throw in a bit of tongue tricks (like sucking their tongue in your mouth or biting their tongue... Or both) also biting their lower lip. Also b4 you start anything too sexual bite your lower lip and give him a sexy look... Alwsys works. Kissings your way down his neck and then biting and kissing his neck works too... Um my guy likes it when I can grind on him while I'm making out with him. Before you give him a blow job you can start by kissing him and then slowly go down his body with little kisses until you reach the pants line then just tease your way 1/2 way back up and then go back all the way down.... Hopes this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010):

i found that my boyfriend gets really turned on when i go in for a kiss then i pull away fast so we can't kiss. it drives him crazy. and when he doesn't think i'm gunna kiss him i give him a little peck on the lips.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010):

the best tease ive ever done to my boyfriend is we started kissing without tongues, then we started adding tongues, with a bit of flavor and mixing it with patterns with our tongues and stuff, then i whispered in his ear 'baby tell me if you like this', then i began kissing his jaw line with little licks in them, then i reached his belly button and started licking around it, then i kissed more down i kissed all around his balls and dick, i kissed the top of his thighs, then as i went back up i made sure his dick was hard and it was directly between my breasts so on the way up it made a hot dog thing like and then it was on my vag and we started grinding, he told me he loved it and he was very hard, i was wet to a bit.

best tease of my life, were still going on its almost been a year together. 3

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010):

Play around. My Bf likes it when I bite his neck--alot of guys do, i've noticed. start by kissing him on the lips then gently nibbling under his jaw, once you get to the side of his neck switch between light and hard bites. While doing this either gently run your fingers along his side and chest, tugging his hair and/or rubbing his package. lick, suck or nibble on his ears and blow softly on his neck and ear. when kissing him, just before you pull away, nip his bottom lip softly and push your nails into the back of his neck. **All this works wonders --and more--on my BF, so I hope you get the same resutls

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A female reader, Cocobutter123 United States +, writes (20 February 2010):

Wow .../ guys I love that I guess it ll be workers with me for.

My.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010):

i'll start kissing my bf and like put my hand up his thigh, inside of his boxers, about 2 in. away from his "stuff". then i'll make my way down and kiss his neck, usually by then i can feel that he likes it, lmao

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A female reader, OuToFtHeAsHeS89 United States +, writes (5 February 2010):

Alot of the times even guys dont know what turns them on. So start at his lips... giving him soft open mouth kisses... travel across his cheek.. to his ear. Tease his ear with your mouth by licking and nibbling. Kiss down his neck, nibbling a little bit there too.. then with ur tongue trace a line from his collar bone to his nipple slowly.. (now some guys may feel uncomfortable at first..) Swirl your tongue around his nipple and then blow a stream of cool air on it. with ur hands lightly trace his sides and his hips... getting EXTREMELY close to his goods.. but not touching. back to your.. mouth after a bit start to kiss the places that your hands were tracing earlier. Also.. Enjoying what your doing him is going to make all the difference.. Guys like knowing that you pleasing them pleases you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2008):

well go up to him and kiss him.act like youre about to put your tounge in his mouth but don't.then give him a come get me look.(worked for me)

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A female reader, LovesJamie United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2008):

To tease him try kissing around his ears and neck. Touch his upper leg softly and kiss him on the lips gently and sort of open your mouth a tiny bit when you do it but no tongues. Touch his bum when you walk past him in public but be subtle.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008):

Hello,

With my former boyfriends i found that when i kiss there neck or purr in there ears it turns them on and when your sitting on them just go up and down there legs on the outside then inside.

Hope that helps.

Soph.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 September 2008):

My favourite thing to do is just to walk up and kiss his face off.

Kissing always works.

Either that or just smack his bum.

Men are all about the visual - which is why they love porn so much. So just give him sexy looks, or point out that you've caught the sun on your boobs and need him to rub lotion on them.

I have to agree with eyeswideopen that if someone pinched me or pulled my hair I'd get pissed off so you could show him what turns you on at the same time.

Good Luck!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008):

First of all,you should do what feels natural. Do the things that you like being done to you. Explore...

You should try the ears, the nape, the neck.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 September 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntI don't know about the other aunts but pulling my hair or pinching me sure doesn't make me "feel sexual", just pisses me off. Try rubbing the inside of his thigh.

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