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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i work with this girl, we start going to break talking making out going well. so i ask her on a date she says yes then bails on me, she said she wasnt ready to date and i say no worries try to play it cool. so we finally go on a date to my place its goin well start messin around and she gets a call and she has to leave, but she says she wants to meet up during the week, so i text her and she says i dont think thats a good idea and she didnt feel a spark. what you think of this situation? because im lost..
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 September 2008):
Well if the whole thing so far has basically been you two "messing around"and "making out" then it's just a physical thing for her.
If she went out with you again it would just be more physical stuff leading to sex. And perhaps she doesn't just want a sex friend.
If there is no mental connection then you are never going to be her boyfriend, just some guy she does the physical stuff with and I don't think she wants that.
The phone call could have been anything but if your first date was to "your house" (hardly a romantic, getting to know you venue) then it could have been she was unsure if you just wanted sex and arranged for a friend to call her and check she was ok. Girls have to play it safe in these situations.
Good Luck!! xx
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