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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i've only been with my boyfriend over 5months, but i've never felt as close to someone in my life.the thing is, i'm not exactly a typical type of teenager, i'm not into sex and all that stuff[as i'm still learning things about myself and i'm insecure about my body] i bareley ever go out with my mates, i hate the idea of drink/drugs/causing bother etc and i like to keep my self to myself.but even though i know my boyfriend loves me, as he reassures me every day, i feel i'm not good enough for him, because i'm like this, and i feel i'm boring him sometimes. he's a year older than me, and understands i'm not ready for sex, but even though he says this, i know he doesn't mean it. i found messages on his phone today, where he's been texting this girl from holiday, he's the typical type of lad; loves to flirt even if it does mean nothing to him what so ever, e's always on about other lasses but it upsets me as i just feel i'm second best to him, even though he always says i'm too good for him.anyways, we both love each other, but am i reading too much into this? being paranoid, or is it reasonable that i get mad at him and that on the odd occasion?thanksx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008):
At 14 or 15 years old, It's not abnormal to be a virgin who doesn't party or do drugs.
It just seems that way because the portion of your peers that actually do these things get talked about 3 times as much as the others like you.
For every "40% of teens have done this!!!" story, that also means there is another 60% of them who have not.
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