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36-40,
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writes:ive been talking frequently to a guy that i found on a popular dating site.we get along great and seem to just click very well with each other.im very interested in meeting him,and we both have agreed that we definetly need to meet.weve talked about it numorous times,but its been nearly two months and still no real plans have been made.we live a little over an hour apart and he works a lot so i can understand that,but i am getting a little impatient.i dont want to be wasting my time on somebody who i may not even have sparks with after meeting,i just want to meet and see where it goes.how do i voice my concern over this without making it sound bad?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): Just tell him.
Its gonna sting a little no matter how the concerns are broken.
Make the plans. No dilly-dallying.
Say "This time. This place." Cancel all work arrangements for that time, all other activities. Accept no excuses other then a death in the family.
If he can't do it then... find someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): Ah - the realities of on-line dating. Problem is, there are so many introverted weirdos who live their lives at work and have absolutely no outside interests in women, hobbies or anything. They get their kicks living the lie on the net - when it comes down to reality, they just can't deal with reality and real, live women. Sounds like this guy may be one of them. Simply throw the ball in his court and say - tell me when and where exactly would be a good time to meet. If met by more waffle, move on baby.
Be careful and good luck.
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