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writes: I have met a very attractive woman who is 5 years older than me. We hit it off and have done some fun activities together. We had some good time to talk about each other and our lives. Seeing how beautiful she is I have thought about what she might be like in bed. I would really like to find out. I am also interested in her take on sex. So I asked her what she thought about it. She giggled and said something rather generic answer. I don’t want to push her but I am interested in learning more about her take on sex. How can I get her to be more detail about her sex life (ie what she likes etc)? As mentioned I would really like to have sex with this woman. Perhaps her generic answer to my question means that she is not interested or ready. Maybe she is just concerned about her body. Any thoughts on that? I think she is cute. However maybe women tend to think that their bodies will not be attractive and satisfying to a man. May this be true? Are there some ways I can make her think and feel that she is attractive? Perhaps she is not ready for sex in our relationship yet and that is ok. I have dreamed about what she looks like in the nude. My birthday is coming. Maybe for a gift she would at least let me see her in the nude. Do you think a woman would think about showing a man her nude body before she is ready for sex with him? How can I let her know of my interest? Any information on making this request? Is asking if she would like a massage a good way to make her feel good about her body? I would guess that starting with her clothed and moving to where she is unclothed may be a technique. Any information?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): Yes, try to make her feel like she isn't a piece of meat. That way you may get your wish.
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