A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone, I'm a 16 year old guy who until recently, Did not care about relationships, Until I met this one girl. Even when I first started talking to her, She was always so so sweet, She talked to me all the time, gave me all kinds of compliments. This made feel an even stronger and stronger attraction to her over time. She seemed to drop whatever she was doing to be with me whenever the idea of getting together was present.After being very close friends for about half a year, and sharing a few very very romantic moments. I got the courage to tell her how I feel, but, All of a sudden though something has changed, it not longer feels like she shares these feelings, It feels like she has been ignoring me, she does not talk as warmly and friendly with me any more and rarely starts conversations. and I have not seen her in weeks which is driving me crazy. I have never had a girlfriend or even cared for a girl so much in my life, I guess thats why this is so confusing. I don't even know if she cares about me any more or if shes playing hard to get or trying to make me feel like shit, But whatever shes doing its definitely doing a good job of it.I am starting to not want to ask her just for fear of losing what we already have.So I guess I have a few questions, is what I'm feeling normal? is she just playing hard to get? or is she sick of me?aaaanyway, Any help is highly appreciatedThank You
View related questions:
never had a girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, xstoryteller53  +, writes (18 September 2008):
your not being a creep man, your just attemptimg to set up a relationship for a girl you really like. It might not be the time for that. Maybe in the future.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks dude, It does help, I do seem to come off as kind of creep huh haha
...............................
A
male
reader, xstoryteller53 +, writes (18 September 2008):
Hi, There are a quite a few reasons why she isnt answering or being as friendly. In my opinion the biggest reason is that she is most likely scared, or confused. She may not have seen it coming or just see you guys as friends. She might be busy, but quite frankly, i think you scared her. You should ask her to talk to you. Dont apologize for the way you feel as it is genuine for you. Explain that you dont want to jeopordize a great friendship and tell her that you would rather be her friend if it damages your relationship with her. Hopefully this helps
...............................
|
