A
female
age
30-35,
*nlyavamp
writes:ok so me and my bf have been together since last year.and honestly i KNOW (underline) that he is the love of my life.recently he has had 4 ppl tell him that they like him. no big right? right.well iv herd from some of my bestfriends tell me hes been with this other chick. (one of the ones whol likes him) apperantly shes always all over him and he does nothing to stop it yet he still says he loves me.is he cheating? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Tremor  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Happy to help. I'm glad it worked out for you. =)
A
female
reader, onlyavamp +, writes (19 September 2008):
onlyavamp is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx tremor...that really helped. i talked to him calmly about it and one of my friends talked to her.
he was oblivious to the flirting in general and she didnt see how bad it looked from her postion.
thank u so much.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): Tough one.I don't think it could be classed as cheating. Though it's a tad inappropriate and not helping matters at all.Tell him to stop or tell him to bugger off.Flynn 24
...............................
A
female
reader, Tremor +, writes (18 September 2008):
What exactly do you mean when you say this girl is 'all over him'? Have you seen her do it, or is it just word of mouth?
Remember that teenage boys, and teenage girls, for that matter, are creatures of reputation. Perhaps your boyfriend is afraid that his mates would think of him as a prude if he knocked this girl back? Or perhaps he nas't even noticed that she is 'all over him' - men are notoriously bad at taking hints, so perhaps he doesn't even realize she's flirting with him.
I'd say it's best to take this up with your boyfriend. Don't accuse him of cheating or anything like that - just mention how friendly this other girl seems to be, and perhaps that it bother you that he doesn't seem to do anything about it.
Good luck.
...............................
|
