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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi,basically me an mum have fallen out so ive been staying at my mother in law 2 bs house. i recently got a txt from my fionce saying me being there at his house has made him less tolerable and upset and that i only consider his happiness when it matters to me and he thinks i have issues and problems that have nothing to do with him and that it seems like his only important in some aspects of my life .i dont agree with that.hes very important to me and i always try and look out for him.i dont think he realises that though.he also said he thinks i should reconsider our marriage. what can i do to make him change his mind about that and stop thinking that and make him happy?pls help thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): If he thinks that you should reconsider the marriage, there is a good chance he is thinking that to himself, but doesn't want to admit it. Maybe you should sit down with him and have a deep, long talk about what's going on and if you both are ready to get married. Marriage is a huge deal and you both should realize it's a commitment to eachother as well as yourselves.
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