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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been involved with a man for 6 months although we are both in relationships. Mine has been going on for 2 and his for 4 years.He says that the passion is gone and it is the same for me and my boyfriend. he even calls me his soul mate. we tried to end it but we couldn't. it seems like he won't ever leave her because of their business together and he keeps talking about their plans and then says bad things about her. what should i do? i'm prepared to leave my bf.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 September 2008):
If you really wanted to split up with your partners then you would do.
But at the moment you both know that by being selfish and using them as your back up plan while having eachother for fun, is far easier than living in the real world.
If you want to be single then do it, but be careful that you don't end up being his bit on the side. Don't have sex with him again until you see him making effort to sell the business / split with his girlfriend. Find out how much of a soul mate you are to him when he's not getting sex from you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Straight Up1  +, writes (1 September 2008):
 If you plan to leave your boyfriend because you are unhappy...then thats the reason you leave...not for him or anyone else...for yourself!!
If he has financial ties to his current girlfriend then I would be very very careful... unless you are ok with being his sex outlet and part time mistress to partially tend to your needs when it works for him!!
dangerous games you are playing...and if you have a moment here...think of the innocent other two people involved.... do they really deserve this...even if some passion is gone ?? probably not!!
he is staying for money... and you are staying for comfort...not very fair at all.
Lets try do the right thing.
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